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  • Member Since:

    October 17, 2004

  • Real Name::

    Finesse Oliver

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Age:

    31

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Last Login:

    February 13, 2009

  • Education:

    High School or Equivalent

  • Location:

    Fort Lauderdale, FL

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Pisces


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((([ WHAT I LOOK 4 ON BP ])))


(1) An I.B.M. compatible woman (I.B.M.=Intelligent Black Man)

(2) A plutonic friend (a female friend to chillax with, no sexual intentions)

(3) Add number (1)+(2) except sexual intentions are welcomed (if you tight work)





((([ A LESSON LEARNED])))


One lesson I`ve learned as of recent is thatin now way, shape, or form am i the"perfect man."Butas ppl say, there is always a silver lining in every "bad" situation. So I searched, and sought, and realized I don`t want to be the "perfect man." I`ll explain...To me, perfection is the ultimate bordem,so I`ve learned to love my `perfect` imperfections as they give mesomething to always improveupon....anduntil i find the woman who can embrace my "perfect imperfections", as i`ve embraced them, the partof my page that says "single" will forever be current. However,if youthink you can teach me tobe your perfect man then drop a note, and we`ll see what pops.



1) I`ve learned. . . that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

2) I`ve learned. . . that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

3) I`ve learned. . . that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you`ve had and what you`ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you`ve celebrated.

4) I`ve learned. . . that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.



((([ FINESSE`s STATS ])))

Name: Finesse Xavion Oliver
Age: 25
Height: 6`1
Nationality: Bahamian
Sexual Pref: 100% hetorosexual
Children: 0
Location: FT. Lauderdale, FL
Career: C.E.O. of.................... Elite Electronix Inc










I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much. And I never have figured out thewhole Venusand Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart...

FOR EXAMPLE: I can recal one evening my girlfriend (now my ex) and I were getting into bed...

Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don`t feel like it, I just want you to hold me"......

I said "WHAT??!! What was that?!"...

So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear..."You`re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man"...

She responded to my puzzled look
by saying,"Can`tyou just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"...

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep...

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at Neiman Marcus department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn`t decide which one to take so I told her we`d just buy them all. She wanted diiamond earrings. Let me tell you...she was so excited... She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck... I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tenniz bracelet and she doesn`t even know how to play tennis. But I think I threw her fora loop when I said, "That`s fine, baby." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all ofthe excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all papi,let`s go to the cashier."

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "Nah mami, I don`tfeel like it."...

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled
"WHAT?"...

I then said "baby! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. You`re just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman."... And just when shehad this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why can`t you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"...

Apparently she didn`t agree cuz I didn`t have sex that night either...








IF I ONLY HAD 5 YEARS TO LIVE , & MARRY MY PERFECT WOMAN, I WOULD SPEND MY FIRST 3 YEARS LEARNING WHAT MADE HER MOSTHAPPY. THEN GET MARRIED FOR MY LAST 2 YEARS.

WHY3 YEARSOF LEARNING?... CUZ 2 YEARS OF BLISS IS BETTER THAN A LIFTIMEOF HELL !!!



((( FINESSE )))



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If you enjoyed my page, you can save me as a friend, and/or help vote me member of the week. Thanx yall..... Oh, and have a nice day...



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Female, Age Private, Houston, TX

Posted June 20, 2007


Heyyyy..dont i know you?! =P Haha...