Wow, it has been a minute since I have been here! However, I am back! Started on a new degree (*PhD) and I am very happy about that!
I have met many people and some really nice men...crazy huh? Yes it is! It is crazy!
Well you know me, I don't believe in love, so if I should meet "The one", he has a lot of work ahead. Until then, I will continue being me! Fabulous!
Well, I must say that it has been a great year already! Things are just as I want them...perfect!! No drama in my life and I must say that it feels good...REAL GOOD!!!
So many strong men out there! I have met some really great people here on BP! Please know that I am what I am and I am not going to change, as I would not want you to change. So... I really, truly and deeply appreciate the response!
However, I know you are not reading my entire page. Please stop and take a minute to read it before contacting me. Really read it. Also, please stop the winks, one click reply, ect...I am not 16. If you want to start a dialog with me, refer to paragraph number five... it is too easy...
Nothing that I have stated is negotiable. If there is anything, even if it is one little thing, that you can not handle or don't like, please pass me by.
PARAGRAPH #5: If you would like to start an dialog with me, please consider this: I do not know you. Please don't ask me any personal information. If you would like to know how I am doing, what I like, take time to write it out. Don't just send me a bunch of "one liners", put some thought into it. Write like you are interested. If it is too much work, just stop now. It just get harder. If you can't put effort in your approach, you will be annihilated upon contact. Please consider this carefully before contacting me.
First and foremost, I am a businesswoman. My perfect mate, would be one that understands that and is willing to help me nurture that, not jump in when the hard work is over. He should be just as passionate about my goals as I am about his and we will grow together. I just opened my boutique and I am SO happy about that!
Some things that must be said to help you in your endeavor to meet me.
1. I am not ready for a relationship yet. If you feel that I would be someone you would like to get to know, take it slow and we will see from there. It is better to get to know a person then to rush it and find out you really did not like them. Quality men can see a quality woman. You would not want me any other way...
2. I have 9 (and counting) cats. If you are not an animal lover, we will not click. Further, they are not going anywhere, so if you are allergic to felines or just don't like cats, or animals for that matter, please pass me by. No amount of money or a handsome face will derail me from the life that I call my own.
3. I would rather have your time, love and affection than your money. However, I do not like a selfish man. Taking care of my needs are primary. If that is a problem, then I understand you may not be the person for me.
4. I have my sons and grandchildren. They come before any and everything/body.
5. I like to and will be treated as a lady. For some, this is a foreign concept, for others, it comes quite naturally. If you have no idea what I am talking about, then I am not the woman for you.
6. I hope that this does not offend, but I am not a person that likes to talk on the phone. Long conversations are boring. I rather talk in person.
7. I have met wonderful people in my life and everyone of them will tell you this, I DO NOT like the habitually late! They have not respect for time, ergo my time, hence no respect at all. I will always call if I am running late (not 15 minutes before time, but well in advance), so I expect the same. Your time is important, so I will not waste it, I expect the same.
8. You can not change me.
9. If you have a lot of bills and are not financially secure, let me stop you right now. Do not contact me.
10. I have no respect for a man that gives nothing but excuses. If you have an excuse for everything, let me stop you right here. No need to contact me.
11. Before I forget, gentlemen, I do not need to know what you can do in the bedroom. Trust me, you are not bringing anything new to the table.
12. If you are not healthy, meaning overweight, have any medical problems, ect, please do not contact me. I do not need to know how or why you got that way, just know that I am not the nurse maid kind. I want to be able to travel at a moment's notice and I would like my mate to be able to travel with me, not in the hospital watching what he eats. I am very healthy and I want a fit, healthy and muscular man with very little body fat. I know they are out there. Just check out my favorite page, Marine 343. You see, he is the rule, not the exception. So if you are not right where you need to be just yet, get some more time in at the gym. A healthy lifestyle is a benefit that just keeps on giving.
13. If you are fraternal, don't contact me.
14. If you can not write, spell, or form a complete sentence, please stop right here. Don't contact me.
15. If you don't have a photo up, don't waste your time contacting me. It will just be deleted.
16. If you do not possess an advanced degree (not the kind bought on the internet), have a career (not a job), or if you live with anyone, don't contact me.
17. If your children are younger then mine, then stop right now. At the date of this addition, my youngest is 21 years old.
18. I will have quality in my life, not quantity.
19. If my request do not match your profile, then it is just not meant to be. It is absolutely nothing wrong with that! There is a perfect person for everyone, so don't miss out on your soul mate trying to get on board with me. I am a believer in honesty; I know what I want and I have no problem asking for just that. I am more than high maintenance, you will work HARD to be in my presence, but it should be that way. It will be that way. So, if you follow this list, it will say us both a lot of time. Bottom line, it needs to be about me. If you can handle that, then it WILL be all about you. Although this list is numbered, they all carry the same weight. My calendar is arranged around my sons and grand children's schedule first, then my company, then everything else. I have precious little free time, and I do not waste it.
20. I don't believe in love. Sorry, I just don't. Whatever or however you take that is on you.
Sounds like a lot? It is. However, for the right person the benefits are endless.
Now, what do you want of me?
soft chocolate kisses...
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