For so long, I wondered what females found so attractive about me. Not that I had a low self-esteem....but as a youngster I was very shy. I did notice a change of the attention I was getting once I started participating in sports, but I thought that, that was the reason why. Turns out that even during the off season, I was getting girls. Next, I figured it was my car. For a 16 year old, I had a pretty nice ride. However, I found that older females(with better rides than mine)tended to... (continue reading)

Ok! Once again....I'm on some old, trippin s--t! This goes out to all those people, who feel so uncomfortable in their own skin....that they feel like they have to overcompensate to be someone who they really are not. Many times during this process, they overdo their efforts. Denial is usually a close friend of these types of people. Sometimes I just want to walk up to one and say, "Hey, relax.....you trying to hard". For example, you ever seen that guy driving the big truck... (continue reading)

Ok, i've noticed a pattern here. Many of the women may not know about it, because you don't search the girls...you search for guys. Naturally since I only search the females' files, I see this all the time. I'm seeing more and more members who have reopened an account because, they shut the last one down because they thought they had found, "Mr. Right". I guess Mr.Right turned out to be, "Not so Mr.Right". The pages start off something like, "I'm not a new member... (continue reading)

Are you tired of dudes that are looking for quantity over quality? Yeah, I know...sometimes you do what you gotta do. But i'm sure 99.9% of us would settle with one partner, if we really had a choice. Yeah, I know this sounds different coming from a male. But my numbers are "WAY" up, and the quality is minimal. Tired of getting sprung on just the sex alone! I one day hope to be sprung on 1 woman alone! Don't get it twisted....I got sex on the brain! Just kinda tired of... (continue reading)

I'm listening to the Steve Harvey show this morning. A female writes that her husband cheated. So in an effort to get revenge, she cheated. She got "Caught up" in what was supposed to be a revenge thing, and ended up liking the dude. After time went on, she realized that she wanted to save her family, but by this time, the other guy had got "caught up". After she has pretty much cut the other guy loose, she finds out that she's pregnant. Now her husband is all excited about the baby, and... (continue reading)

Ever had a friend/associate that couldn't give you credit for anything you do or own. The one that sees you with a new hairdo and says,"I like your "lil" hairdo". I mean, you can pull up in a 6 on 28's, and they be like, "Nice "lil" benz" They always have to minimize your accomplishments. I even had a co worker to say, "How does it feel to have your "LIL" degree". Mind you, I was working on my masters in med school when this... (continue reading)