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DOESNT COST ANYTHING TO LAUGH AND U DONT HAVE TO PAY TO SMILE!!! TRY IT!!!!! I`AM SITTING HERE TRYING TO THINK OF SOMETHING TRULY PROFOUND TO SAY, BUT THE ONLY WAY I CAN KEEP IT, IS REAL! (UNLIKE OTHERS).
I love being sexy, smelling sexy, just sexy sexy sexy. No dont confuse this with having sex!! That is not my intent for being on here doing a profile. Iam not interested in a fling or a sexual encounter. My personality to some seem aggressive, however it is'nt that, Iam just assertive in life. Hmmm big difference. For many years of my life I settled, and guess what this made me very miserable. Today it is about being SELECTIVE and NOT SELECTED. Hmmm another difference. In leisure time I love candles, bubble baths, and sitting by the fireplace with a good book. Really considered to be a homebody, however I also have the ability to be a social butterfly. I really hate (and that is a strong word,but thats how I feel) dishonesty, so I practice honesty in most my affairs. Iam not into the head games or the BS . Why do people always ask for honesty and then when they get it they do not know how to handle that, and or know what to do with it??? For those who dont know, dishonesty is not just telling a lie, but it is also considered to be dishonest when you withhold information?? A Big difference. I get fearful sometimes in certain situations, but no longer bounded by it. Certain individuals will understand the acronym of fear= false evidence appearing real. There are three truths, one being my truth, the other being your truth, and then of course there is the "TRUTH". Hmmm a difference Iam a hopeless romantic, but instead of looking for love today I wait patiently in knowing that one day I will be blessed with my life partner. :) Iam very domestic . I love cooking, and I'AM EVER SO GRATEFUL TO BE BLESSED WITH CHILDREN. I desire to meet new people from different walks of life, cultures, religious backgrounds. I want to see, taste, and hear things that I never experienced before. Hungry no doubt for knowledge, and not down for limiting myself. Some may interpret me as a snob, however I'am quite approchable, funny, compassionate, giving and very lovable (wink wink). I do not like to judge and I do not like to be judged!!! We all make mistakes, it is about getting the lesson. Well thats enough, if you want to know more just ask and I will let you know. (well maybe lol I consider myself to be spiritual and "NOT RELIGIOUS". I have my own personal relationship with GOD and on a daily basis I try to build on that, and what works for me just might not work for you boo. IAM ONE THAT HAS A DESIRE AND MOTIVATION TO HAVE MY INSIDES AND OUTSIDES MATCH TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITY. Sometimes I fall short, but again it is about getting the lesson. BESITOS XXX OOO REMEMBER THAT WITH GOD FIRST ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE
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NO I`AM NOT ONE THAT JUDGES OTHERS, HOWEVER ON A DAILY BASIS I DO WHAT PLEASES ME, NOT WITH THE MOTIVE IN HOW YOU PERCIEVE IT!

I HAVE BEEN THROUGH PLENTY, TO BE ABLE TO SHARE WITH OTHERS, I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, THEN WITH GOD`S WILL EVERTHING ELSE FOLLOWS.

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I GAVE UP ON EVERYTHING!

NOW I HAVE THE ABILITY TO LOVE MYSELF AND OTHERS.

I GIVE IT TO GOD, WITHOUT TAKING IT BACK! YEAH THINGS GO WRONG SOMETIMES IN LIFE, BUT IT`S ALL IN PREPERATION FOR SOMETHING ELSE THAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN IN OUR LIVES.

LIVE LIFE ON IT`S TERMS! NOT YOURS. WE ARE POWERLESS, AND HAVE NO CONTROL OVER ANYTHING, ONLY THE CHOICES WE MAKE.

BE CAREFUL OF YOUR THOUGHTS, BECAUSE YOUR THOUGHTS TURN INTO WORDS!

BE CAREFUL OF YOUR WORDS, BECAUSE YOUR WORDS TURN INTO ACTIONS!

BE CAREFUL OF YOU ACTIONS, BECAUSE YOUR ACTIONS TURN INTO HABITS!

BE CAREFUL OF YOUR HABITS, BECAUSE YOUR HABITS TURN INTO YOUR CHARACTER!
BE CAREFUL OF YOUR CHARACTER, BECAUSE IT THEN BECOMES WHO YOU ARE! GOD LOVES ME JUST THE WAY I`AM!!!!! .ALWAYS LOOKING FOR NEW FRIENDS TO ADD TO MY REALM OF LIFE, SO IF THIS BE YOU HOLLA!



WORDS TO LIVE BY!...

I ASSUME FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY ACTIONS,EXCEPT THE ONES THAT ARE SOMEONE ELSES FAULT.
I NO LONGER NEED TO PUNISH, DECIEVE OR COMPROMISE MYSELF. .

IN SOME CULTURES WHAT I DO WOULD BE CONSIDERED NORMAL.

HAVING CONTROL OVER MYSELF IS`NT NEARLY AS GOOD AS HAVING CONTROL OVER OTHERS.

I HONOR MY PERSONALITY FLAWS, WITHOUT THEM I WOULD HAVE NO PERSONALITY AT ALL





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  • Member Since:

    October 09, 2001

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