GVW5501 What's New With You?We are all a little weird and life's a little weird and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love. - January 09, 2011 add/view comments (0)

 I am Intelligent, creative, thoughtful, spontaneous, romantic, affectionate, loyal and very easy going. I enjoy reading, movies especially drama's and mystery's. 

I have been told that I get along with most anybody. I am very confident I know what I want and will not accept anything less. I am looking for friendships, and with the right person could lead to a meaningful relationship.... I take my time to form relationships...it's like a good glass of wine you don't want to rush it. After all the ups and downs I have faced in my life, I have no problem putting into words what it is I want in a relationship.

 I want a man that has a relationship with God he needs to know there is a being higher than himself. I want a man that will fit me and I fit him where neither of us will feel like we are missing something or someone.    

He has to be free in his heart and mind to love ME and receive that love back. (No lingering attachments), faithfulness is a must both mentally and physically [I want to be your missing rib] :) I want to be in a relationship where both partners are free to express themselves without fear of rejection but we will work together to resolve our problems rather than push them to the back burner to let them stew and become this big ole crazy issue .

I want to be in a relationship with a man that is confident and self sustaining financially, mentally and definitely physically. [I don't do so well with really needy people]. I want to be with a man who can carry a good conversation, but not be serious ALL the time he need to have a good sense of humor [I laugh a lot and love it]. I want to be in a relationship with a man that is strong and know his own self worth and can value the same in the woman he is with, without jealousy and possessiveness, [I have no control over how some other man look at me or what he thinks I only have control over me.] The man I am with must KNOW that it is HIM that I want.

I want a man that is interested in romance and know the art of courting even from a distance It's a shame this has to be said, but I do not want to be in a relationship with a man that has any legal issues with the criminal justice system (probations, sex offenders ect ) If you are a man who does not pay child support as required, I am not interested in you ... If you fail to take care of your own children I would never believe you could care for me....

Distance is not a problem as long as we both are willing to but in the time necessary to make the relationship grow. I am not looking for a perfect relationship or a perfect man but one that is willing to engage himself in a relationship to make it work If you would normally make the statement "I am SET in my ways .and I am not going to change" . I know you will not be the man for me because the man I find exciting is open to new ideas and willing to try new and different things.

Well this is the basic requirements for me anything else I am pretty much willing to work with lol ..oh except he has to be clean very clean .. can't work around that. I have 2 children at home 18 year old twins a boy and a girl. I am always going to set the right example, and not disrespect them in any way nor will I allow the man I am with to be anything less than respectful to them.

I love to travel and see what GOD has made.... He has been so awesome in his creations. I like to see the natural things that are so beautiful and exciting . Beautiful mountains, oceans, I love to see the beautiful waterfalls. I also love to relax at home with smooth jazz playing in the background and a glass of wine while having a interesting conversation with a interesting person talking about your day or mine, as we get to know each other.