Hello, My name is Koolade and it is a pleasure to meet you. I know you ladies have been dealt a raw hand. Some guys no matter what you do or how sweet you are too them, will still do you wrong. Ladies, when you have that gut feeling that something does not seem right, ask questions. A real man who is truly into you will answer all your questions, no matter how many questions you may have. If a man gets tired of you asking a bunch of questions, then that is an indication that he does not have the patience or the mental capacity to listen and engage in a formal conversation with you. But on the other hand ladies, don't treat it as interrogation. Please use tact when asking questions. To have a great relationship, you must have great communication between the both of you. And the respect to agree to disagree and not to take what is said personal. Ladies, you must hold us men accountable and stop letting things slide. You must tell these men what you expect from them, but at the same time you must hold yourself accountable as well. The battle between men and women will continue as long as the both of you are not respecting one another and there are no guidelines in your relationship. Men by nature love rules and regulations that is why we love sports. But when he is in a relationship and there are no guidelines or no expectation, then he will do what he wants to do. In closing, ladies when you come to the table, bring your reasonable list of rules and expectations and sit down and communicate with your man or significant other on how you would like for the relationship to be. If you two can agree on that, you will be surprise of the results. Keep in mind, accountability goes both ways and it will save you a lot of heart ache.
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