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After 3,200 hits, well over 1,000 notes, 300 friend requests, I have finally decided to write a personal message. I wanted to get a feel of whats on bp first. I chose to be on bp because i wanted to start dating again I am a widow I lost my husband 3 years ago, I am a very busy person so i dont have many oppurtunities to go out and meet people so i thought internet dating would be the next best thing. I dont like for my time to be wasted and i know you dont either so im gonna tell you what i like and dont like as i am sure this will cut down on the many notes i recieve on a daily basis. please forgive me if i sound harsh, I just really want to get my point across and be honest. Most of these rules come from situations I have encountered with the people ive met on bp(you know who you are) PLEASE DONT LEAVE ME A NOTE IF: 1.you dont want to spend money on a date with me because you are afraid im using you for your money please move on. I dont need or want your money I have my own. I have a career, my own business,a house and i drive a benz. I am a lady and I expect to be treated as such. 2.you are looking for sex only please keep it moving you're not gonna get any. you dont see me showing my goodies on here like most women, so what gives you the impression that im loose. again im a lady and expect to be treated as such 3.you have some reference to your anatomy in your bp name please dont bother. I dont care how long or big it is because its probably an exageration and you probably dont know how to use it anyway. 4.youre "married", "process of getting a divorce", "in a relationship but having problems", "bisexual" or even the thought of being with another man entered your head or you let him enter yours please move on, not interested. 5.females please leave me alone. Im not gay nor will I ever be, I dont want to be your friend there is no purpose. OK YEAH YOU PROBABLY CAN EAT P***Y BUT SO CAN A MAN, I LIKE MEN! 6. you dont practice safe sex. I work in the medical field I see AIDS and other STD's on a daily basis. If you dont practice safe sex it means you dont care about yourself. I dont need that in my life. 7.if you dont like children. I have 5! ages 4,5,6,11,19, no im not looking for you to take care of my children they are very well taken care of, they had a father and he's in heaven now looking over them. I am their mother and father now. 8.if your under 28 please dont respond, i really appreciate all the comments from you younger guys its nice to know that you find me attractive. On second thought keep the compliments coming :) 9. If you dont have a pic. or you posted old pics of yourself, dont bother sending a note. if and when we meet and you show up looking nothing like your pic I will leave. dont be deceitful Im an attractive woman and I expect my date to be attractive. 10.Lastly, if you dont have a car or "your car is in the shop" and has been for the past two years. Or you live with your parents and claim that youre living with them to take care of them youre a loser and i dont need you. I think i will stop here although i can go on and on. Im not on bp to play games im really sincere and am looking for a quality man to spend time with. I am a good woman, very attractive (the pictures dont do me justice)sexy, strong, educated, black woman who like to enjoy life, tomorrow is not promised to me so i try to enjoy every moment God has given me. So if you are honest, have a positive outlook on life, like to have fun, educated, goals and plans to obtain those goals, not just exist, i would love to hear from you. |
