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A reason why men often cheat on a woman of beauty is because.... 1-beauty wears thin after awhile, I know many

cats are like ?wow I would never cheat on a Dyme piece!` Please, if you are with a girl that fine, you would get

used to her physical looks in around two years or less if she has no emotional substance to her. It?s like this:

imagine watching an adult movie with only one porrn star in it, over and over, and over again for two years. No

matter how fine the star is, a man is gonna get sick of her, and want to see some other woman! That?s the reason

why most men have more than one porrn DVD! If it was all about fine sexy woman having sex on video, one DVD would

suffice. But we men are visually stimulated, and like most things that are visually stimulated, variety is key!!

If a woman, no matter how fine she is, fails to visually stimulate her man, and learn how to keep his interest

with variety, she stands a greater chance of losing her man to a brand new woman. Face it ladies, keeping a man

today is very difficult due to the stiff competition by other women, and the lack of a real culture designed to

keep couples together. If you need proof, just look at Eric Benet & Haley Berry`s situation, or watch BET`s Uncut

videos, or even check the latest national divorce rate statistics. Unfortunatly it all adds up. 2- One thing I`ve noticed with the the majority of attractive women is: the more attractive the female, the less likely she is to

work on the other parts of her that are crucial to keeping aman faithful!! Some women attract so many men on a

daily basissoeasily that it never occurs to them that they may be lacking certain skills needed to keep there man.

These women windup jumping from relationship to relationship, and from man, to man. Some say "fuk it, men are good

for nothing but a good fuk", and deal with men on a purely sexual basis, totaly forgoing the relationship part

altogether. We men often have to work hard to get the right woman. We have to havegame, and style to be able to

show that we can provide for her. However, keeping a man is usually where the woman has to put in the work. Many

women feel that being overly jealous is good enough to keep their man. But ultimately, that only serves to push

men away most of the time. The females who trip me out the most though, are the ones who feel that men should kiss

their azz without them having to do shiit for him. Obviously the word reciprocity doesn`t exist in their

vocabulary. This type of female is so lazy that she feels the man should put in all the work towards getting her,

while she does jack shiit towards keeping him (yall know who you are)!! Some women also expect their man to be

faithful just because she is soooo fine, that it would be the man`s loss for him to live life without her. LOL....

Only a dumb azz dude would even consider a chick like that as his wifey for real!!! With this type of chick, we

get the azz A.S.A.P and run! Then again, some dudes actually end up marrying these type chicks, only to divorce em and lose half his shiit. 3- Not only do women often place too much emphasis in getting a man as opposed to keeping

him. They sometimes make matters worse by choosing the wrong men from jump street! Think about how many women

flock to NBA cats and entertainers? Don?t they know that cats like them have the freedom totravel around the

world? Hey, its part of their jobs, along with a shiit load of cash to spend on the tons of women chasing them

everywhere they go. Then these womenare surprised when the guy cheats on them!! LOL....What the helldid they think

these men would do? Especially on the road for weeks on end, and so far from home? . Under those circumstance,the

best thing a guy can do is not initiate a sexual encounter, and that shiit is hard as hell for real, but not

impossible. To ask a young male who is hundreds of miles away from his spouse for weeks on end, to spank his

monkey every night while all that fine choice azz is thrown inhis face aint realistic at all!! So why expect it!?

My point is this ladies, stay away from situations were a man almost has to cheat in order to keep his sanity,

unless you can handle the reality of him sleeping with other women. I know for a fact that I would never marry a

woman , especially one with a high sex drive, who is on the road for week?s, and miles away. I don?t care how fine

she is, or how much endz she has. For me, its a dead issue straight up. 4- Next on top of all that ish, you got the women who are so "fiiiine" (in their minds) that they actually feel that men owe them for being with her.

Granted, in some cases this may be true. But in general, you know the type i am refering to. The one`s who always

expect their man to be sweating them. One thing that these women don?t understand is that once a man gets a woman

who is a dyme, getting the next dyme is soooo much easier. I?ve even heard some cats say, "dam how could Eric

Bennet cheat on Haley Berry?" That is some strait stupid thinking right there for real!!! They sound like a guy

who has never been with a dyme before. For starters, they never think, `hey if Eric can get a woman as fine as

Haley Berry, who?s to say that he can?t attract a woman of equal beauty minus all the B.S. baggage that Haley may

have brought to the table? A fine woman that looks at him, like he is thestar, instead of vice versa. As far as

Eric sweating her after the break up? I bet he is saying ?yeah now that that chick is gone, I can smash as many of

those fineazz women i want without feeling guilty`. In other words, heaint sheding any tears over her. Trust me.

Remember, guys are human too. We like being treated good just like yall. WhenI wasmad young, (not to say that i am

mad old...lol) I was one of those cats that used to sweat the fine dymes too, thinking all the while, I would

never cheat on her if I had her. In my heart I actually believed that ish. But as I get older and wiser and had

chances to actually be with my dream girl (atleast i thought she was), i found out in time that they are no

different than the rest of the women out there. Looks may be one of the main factors that initially attracts a man

to a woman. However, it takes a whole lot more from inside that woman to even think about keeping a man. This goes

back to the emotional substance i first alluded to. Women, especially dymes, stop acting like yall are the only

dymes out there, because you`re not. In fact a dyme comes a dime a dozen these days due to advancement in make-up,

and plastic surgery, along with the ish they got in the foods to make a body grow nice and thick!! In short, a

relationship takes a lot of work from both members. A relationship is the unison of two equals, each contributing

100%. No one should bare the brunt of the load. A man`s desire for visual stimulation, and variety, along with his

self-respect should be something that a woman should understand about a man. Perhaps the solution can be allowing

us to view porrno, or even going out to strip clubs once in a while? This way we can get our visual variety fix we

need with out cheating on our women I know that works for me.
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The above statments, and opinions are just that...my opinions. I am not in anyway certified on relationships


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