Intraspect life is good! - April 27, 2010 add/view comments (0)

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Hey! Wasup BP? This is you boy CJ holding it down in the Magic City. Some said that my page was a little bit much, but I call it like I see it. This whole back on the scene again thing is crazy. Dudes are running game and women are pimping too. I don't know, maybe I'm just old school. I would rather spend some quality time with one good woman rather than trying to yo-yo 3 or 4 bad ones. Brothers, you can't do them all, so stop trying. Black families today are in shambles because we spend so much time trying to get into a relationship, and once we are there, we are willing to do little to maintain them.  Then we carry all of that horrible baggage into the next relationship.  LET IT GO, AND BE HAPPY! The grass is not greener on the other side, you just need to water your own.

And why do people on black planet always start out with that cornball line of "Im not on here looking for anyone or anything...blah blah blah!If you are not looking for anyone or anything, I am sure there is something else you can be doing besides nothing on BP. In the physc world that is called a testimonial. So just in case nothing good comes out of the endeavour, or if it fails; you already said that up front. That my friend is sad. If you are willing to jump, dive in head first. I am looking for something and possibly someone. I am single and if the truth be told, none of us want to be alone.

About me? Oh yeah. I am very maticulous, and I don't like people that are full of chaos or drama.  I do not like liars either.  Tell me what you like and what you don't like.  Faking it will only causes us problems later.  I dont tell people what I want or what I am looking for in a relationship because they usally try to be just that.  Then when they can longer maintain the game, they go back to their normal selves and what you thought you had is really not that at all. (I've spent quite a deal of time as a counselor).  

I am in the military.  Right now I work as Curriculum Developer.  I am finishing off a Master's Degree in HR, BS in Business Management with a minor in accouting.  I am an outside type of guy.  I like spending time on the beach.  I like to go fishing  I hit the gym at least 3 times a week.  I also love to travel and when its time to stop being serious, I know how to party.  Thanks for stopping by! ONE MORE THING! PLEASE NO ONE-CLICK NOTES. THEY GET DELETED INSTANTLY. IF I TAKE THE TIME TO WRITE YOU A NOTE, PLEASE RECIPROCATE IN KIND.

CJ  

Pack your bags for where you are going, not where you have been!