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    Jonz05

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    Female

  • Age:

    30

  • Last Login:

    Nov 19

  • Education:

    Bachelor's Degree

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Libra


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I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. He will come in and go out, and find pasture."John 10:9


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SAD BUT TRUE - 8/26/09

 

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A MAN WITHOUT A TITLE (HUSBAND,BOYFRIEND, LOVER, ETC.) IS MAN WITH NO LIMITS ENTITLED TO DO WHAT HE PLEASES...THINK ABOUT IT!



I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care some people just don't care back. I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but whom you have in your life that counts. I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And, just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do. I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt, and you will hurt in the process. I've learned that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it. I've learned that heroes are people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.



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Rest In Peace Ida T. Smith, Catherine Flythe, Mirah Flythe All of whom lost their battle w/ breast cancer in 06'

SAD BUT TRUE - 8/26/09 I can't believe what happen to my cousin last week. She was with a man for 8 - 10 years. He wanted to marry her but she got scared and pushed him away. He wasn't financially ready to be a husband and she wanted to focus on her career. We all thought they should be together and married but they both allowed pride to get in the way. Anyway, 2-3 years passed and they remained cool with each other. She still spoke to some of his family and he did the same. We all knew they loved each other deeply and belong together. He went on to marry a woman he would later want a divorce from. She went on dating and finally ended up with a good guy. His next intention was to try to get back with my cousin. My cousin went to visit his mother last Thursday just to say hello and check on her. It had been 3-4 years since she last visited his mother. He called his mom's house while she was still there and they spoke. She did not reveal the conversation to me but she said it was great. She left his mother's house and he left out to play basketball with his boys. Two hours later he was dead. He died from a massive heartache. I can only hope that in their last conversation they finally told each other how much they loved the other. She will now never be with the man that she considered to be her soul mate. Maybe they will meet in heaven one day and can finally be together. The moral to this story is .if you are going to love someone love them hard. Cherish each conversation. You don't want to have to live your life wondering what if and then the person you hold dear to you is no longer around to love you back. Don't let pride get in the way of true happiness and love.