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Ladies of Black Planet,

Welcome 2 The House That Kat Built,


You have ventured into a realm where only a select few are allowed to invade. Fellas, beat it!!! It is only room for one Kat in this Pride!!!


Raise your hand if you are tired of these African bastards hitting you up on some scam type shyt? These %#&@$!s give the mother land a bad name. I just got divorced, so I'm not in the market for another wife, especially one who lives in another country, running around on a zebra with a bone in her nose. If I offended you then good, because although I don't have a problem with women from another country (love Canadians), I do take exception to scam artist. I'm not helping you get a green card, I don't care about your sick mama, I'm not helping you get money out of your dead daddy's phantom estate and I'm not sending you one freaking dime!!!

I appreciate all of the love and compliments that I receive regarding the contents of my page. I try to offer some helpful insight and introduce you to what lurks in the mind of most men. For that matter, I make some statements and suggestions that can assist women, especially the lost and weary, and help them avoid falling for the oakie doke!!! This dating, relationship and love thing is not that hard. Both sexes make it more difficult than it really has to be. I mean it is not nuclear physics for Christ sake?

False love, lust and lies are the culprits in this caper. The lies being told are not as much of the factor as the person who lies to himself or herself? I?m not saying give up hope, but be more cautious and stop going into situations with over hyped expectations. Some men can lay down some smooth game. However, if it looks like shyt, smells like shyt, then it usually is or will become shyt!!! We need to get dating and ?relationships? back to the old school. It is expected to want a man who is doing his thing, but don?t put so much emphasis on the, ?What do you drive? How much do you make? What kind of clothes do you own? How many buildings do you own?? By asking these questions you are setting yourself up to be lied to. We as African-Americans put so much value into material items it is ridiculous. Most of us are only as important as what we drive, where we live and what we wear. In the bigger scope that stuff really doesn?t mean jack shyt!!! Ladies, the materialism can glisten on the outside, but the internal portion of a person can be empty and rotten like garbage. If a man thinks this is what you are about, he might be tempted to make up a fa ade in order to impress you. Once you fall for the fool, he will generally get the coochie and be gone before you know it. Besides, what does his accomplishments have to do with you. Unless you are his woman or wife, odds are you are not going to be a major beneficiary?

If you were a lady and a woman with ?class,? I would assume you would deal with gentlemen. Make no mistake about it, a man knows a real woman with class, from a pretender. Usually when a woman who always is advertising how classy she is, more times than not she is trying to convince herself, rather than the outside world. A real man will know he has to step to a lady in a dignified manner and have his shyt in order. A loser will attempt to come at you with ?lame negro game? and be a detriment. Stressing that you have your own house, job and car really means nothing on the bigger scope of things. If a person is 20ish or 30ish, these are items that you SHOULD have any way. What do you want, a freaking cookie??? That?s like a dude saying, ?I take care of my kids and I have never been to jail.? That is what you suppose to do, you low expectation-having bastard!!! A real lady or man of self-value won?t have to make a campaign pitch, because they will already know what their worth is. For those who can?t recognize, f?ck them!!! Let the sleep stay sleep?


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I am a 39 year old brother from "Chi-Town," Chicago, Illinois. I recently relocated back to Dallas, Texas. I`ve been to a lot of cities and must say there is NO city like the Chi in the summertime. Can you feel me??? I am a MBA graduate, law student and contract negotiator for a government research center. I am not above the law, but willing to bend the rules every now and then to get my way(like you don`t have skeletons in your closet!!!).


I`m a proud member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity (Krimson & Kream Baby!!!), through the historic Chicago Alumni Chapter, April 12, 2001. Have to give some love to my Kappa Ship 26 Karet Diamond.


I take care of myself physically and mentally; and eliminate any elements that would jeopardize either. I don`t have to rely on artificial substances for a nice time, I am always on a natural high!!!


Kat Q&A:


Q: Why the name Kat Daddy?

A: Big Cats (lions, tigers, panthers, etc...) are cool, dominant and mysterious, much like myself.


Q: What do you like most about BP?

A: Most people on BP are really cool. Besides I get insight on different cities before I visit.


Q: What don`t you like?

A: There are some bullshyt people on here as well. Why can`t individuals just keep it real any more? Ladies all the brothas on BP are not full of it, but if you have a site that says "Hoe 4 Show" or "Hot Kat 69," and have pics on your page with you wearing sexy lingerie with your tits and azz hanging out what do you expect? Let us not forget the ones that state what a freak they are, but then say "I`m not for any bullshyt." What a contradiction...

I`m not hating and I love a woman that is comfortable with her sexuality, but by putting yourself out there you will more than likely solicit lewd notes and sexual innuendos from some of these thirsty, perverse azz dudes that filter BP... You might consider leaving something to the imagination... My belief is that some women that put themselves on display are really exhibitionist and like attention...

The Kat likes eye candy, but knows the secret... Everything that looks good, might not be good for you...


Q: Why do you think soooooo many individuals display pics of celebrities, alive or deceased, instead of themselves?

A: Get down how you live!!! Maybe it is because they really admire the individuals, maybe they are relatives, idols or the people they post on their page inspires them. Freak that!!! The real reason could be that they are afraid that if they displayed who they really are they would not get any notes and attention!!! Not to say that I`m all that, because I`m not, but if you are ashamed or embarrassed by what God has gifted you with, that is so sad!!! If he wanted us to all look like Morris Chestnut, Janet Jackson or JLo, he would have made us that way. Remember what looks good to one person might not look good to the next. Be proud of who and what you are. If you look like Death, fine. If you are overweight, so be it. If you are a mutant, cool. I`ll be damn if I place a pic of Allen Iverson, Tupac (he`s dead for Christ sake!!!), Alicia Keys, Janet, Lisa Ray or anyone else before I place a pic of myself!!!


Q: What kind of women do you like?

A: Down to earth, sexy, humorous, non-inhibited, intelligent, independent, open-minded women who enjoy life. I am a fool for nice legs, feet, hands and a pretty smile. Oh yeah a nice butt is good too (hey, I`m a black man!!!).


Q: Why do women use the line, "you might be a stalker"?

A: Shyt, because some dudes just might be!!! I`ve been dating since the age of 16. And I have had women tell me some crazy stories about men. Brothers, if a woman does not want to be bothered, leave them alone. Across America, on the average, there are 13 women to 1 man. Those are hell of some odds!!! Being overly persistent makes smooth Kats like me look bad.

Ladies, if I hit you with a note and you don`t respond cool, because I really don`t give a damn if we meet or not!!! Can`t miss what you never had. I like BP because it is entertaining, not because I hope to meet a wife. But don`t give me that you might be a stalker shyt!!!

Remember the same dudes that are on the Internet, who might be a stalker, are the same ones you meet across America in the grocery store, laundry mat, movies, restaurant, work, school, gas station, gym, or walking your dog, Chi-Chi. Just had to get that off my chest!!!


Q: What do you think of the statement "I`m not on here looking for anything."

A: Most people who say that are full of shyt!!!

FYI - The Bible says "the man should find the woman." When one looks they never find. However, I find it humorous when I read a page that states she is not looking for anything, but then goes on and list what she wants in a man... Again, this is a contradiction... Across the country, there are a lot of lonely women of all ages that want to be loved. It`s nothing wrong with this because it is a common female trait. A woman does not want to seem like she is looking, especially on the Internet, because she does not want to appear desperate...

Again, does anyone take this sight seriously??? I`ve met some cool women off BP, but can`t say that I hold out hopes of making a love connection. It is what it is... just go with the flow...

Q: What`s up with the statement "no pic, no response?"

A: More BP bullshyt!!! Since when does a pic constitute as a prerequisite for a conversation? Here is the killer part, WHEN YOU HAVE A PIC you still might not get a response!!! Isn`t that about a bytch!!! Oh well, to each his/her own...

If a woman shows me some love and hits me with a note, I`m going to exercise common courtesy and respond regardless if she has a pic or not. Hell, I`m not trying to get a quick hookup, I just like to converse. Ladies, I can see if a man comes at you foul or disrespectful, but what does it hurt if a `gentlemen` steps to you correct and says hello. For all you know the brother could turn you on to something that you didn`t know or help you achieve one of your goals. We live in such a visual and physical world that we sometimes become jaded by good looks or the lack thereof... You are not obligated to do anything or respond to anyone, but common courtesy is free... Which leads to the next question...

Q: Do you think women can recognize a REAL brother when they meet one???

A: HELL NO!!! Well maybe a few, but I`ve learned in the dating world that women talk out of both side of their face. They state what they like and want, but if the opportunity presents himself they usually let it slip through their fingers like sand and have the audacity to blame the guy...

Very few women know the art of how to identify what`s real from what`s fake... As for the others, I GUARANTY that if a man stepped to them and was everything that they "said" they wanted and met every qualification and was a REAL man in every since of the word, most women on BP and across the country could not recognize him if he walked up and bit them in their titty!!!

Maybe it is not totally their fault, because there are sooooo many pooh butt, rootie poot, oakie doke brothers out here that some women get confused and become blind. Therefore, it makes it harder for them to see through all the losers and recognize the Truth...

Q: Can you describe yourself?

A: Mentally strong, physically fit, down to earth, humorous, stylish and fashionable, very romantic and ambitious.


Q: What is your best features?

A: Eyes and Lips.


Q: What do you do in your spare time?

A: Read, write (working on a book), I love to travel; ride motorcycles; workout; cook; play video games; watch movies; hang with my family, friends and Kappas. Oh yea, I love giving massages they relax me by seeing me please someone else.


Q: What would you like to know about women, that you don`t know?

A: Why do so many women frown all the time. I know you have your reasons, but damn!!! Trust me if I see you frowning, I will get out the way!!!


Q: What do you think of Bi-sexual women?

A: Do what you do!!! I love all women. Women are what makes this world such a good place. I know you Bi`s have your reasons and I will respect that, but don`t say you are bi-sexual and exclude men. I know some say that they have a male mate (yeah right!!!), but I think some just use bi as an excuse not be considered a hard core lesbian. But I love them too.


Secret - If more women knew the power they have over men, they would be running the show more than they do!!! Ladies it is your world and I know you get tired of the same game. Eyes are the windows to the soul. Knowing him internally is the way to understand him. Men lie, but women lie to themselves!!!


Food 4 Thought:

Don`t take any shyt from anybody. The world is a hard place to live, but don`t let circumstances keep you from excelling. Respect is something that should be given, but so rarely earned.


Welcome to my world!!!

Kat Daddy