May 23, 2010: for the 1st time in 5 years I actually just updated my BP page...NEW UPDATED PHOTOS IN THE FREIENDS SECTION...(get it friends????)..lol
I use yahoo messenger for work so its the best way to contact me. My yahoo screename is: kenjerlo3
AS I GO THRU THESE PAGES I AM MOVED BY WHAT YOU LADIES HAVE ON YOUR PAGE ABOUT WHAT A MAN SHOULD BE LIKE AND WHAT A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE LIKE
Ladies I have a question: Are the other men on here really that bad that you have to tell them not to ask you for some P*^%#y or to call u a respectable name in the opening message ....damn thats bad...I refuse to admit it.. I know brothers gotta have more swag than that.......
.excuse me for stepping out of character.......but ....YOU NEGROES NEED TO BE SHOT.....they are mothers, sisters and daughters...they are black Queens and the backbone of everything that makes you the man you are....You negroes need to check yourself , your history, and your heritage...u need to understand what it means to be a BLACK MAN and then when you do that you will understand your responsibility to praise cherish and worship all Black Queens......I dont care is she naked on the corner with a crack pipe she is still a Black Queen and if you dont empower her the only thing you do is ultimately take from yourself...My FATHER USE TO SAY A REAL MAN EVEN TREATS EVEN THE WORST WOMAN AS A LADY NOT SO MUCH FOR THE WOMAN ( cause well you know) BUT FOR THE WAY YOU CARRY YOURSELF AS A MAN.......gt;>>>>
U DESERVE A GODLY MAN AND SHOULD NOT SETTLE FOR LESS....Y BECAUSE YOU ARE QUEENS AND ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT RESPECT THAT DOES NOT DESERVE EVEN YOUR FRIEND REQUEST.. DONT LISTEN TO ME LISTEN TO THIS CLIP...
NEWSFLASH::::::
"TO LOVE 100 WOMEN DOES NOT MAKE ME A MAN , BUT TO LOVE 1 WOMAN 100 WAYS MAKES ME A TRUE MAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
now i just have to find the woman.............lol....
Well I can break it down real simple. I am a hard working intelligent brother raising the adorable little guy on the page as a single father..Yeah we are all not the same. I dont do DRAMA on any level...being a single dad is the biggest evidence of that, I come from a bloodline of men that care for their kids so when the drama hit ....me and the lil dude are gone....
Ladies if you cant accept that i have a son then oh well....I am a real simple guy.. YEs i do believe in GOD I am actually working on a degree in theology.. so being spiritually sound is important to me.. Im not saying you have to be the virgin Mary ( matter fact PLEASE dont be the virgin Mary ....lol) .. I am not on here lookin for my wife even though having one wouldnt be so bad. I am on here to meet and interact with positive people and to be an example of what a Black man, father and one day husband should be. I pray that something on this page inspires or motivates you to greatness... If I can touch the lives of the women who reach this page and get them to understand how precious and valuable they are and that there are really good black men out here then i will have done his will.... I so thank the Lord for the mothers on this site.. Lord knows we as a race would not be anywhere had it not been for the blood, sweat, tears and prayers of black mothers, sisters, and daughters. We as black men salute you and I thank god for each and every one of you......
Now for all the sexy educated Divas that have had to deal with the DRAMA from some idiot negroe who didnt value you for being the Queen you are here is my apology...Lord knows you deserve it ...
Every strong black woman please go to www.justin.tv/kj3rd
The Apology
I see you sitting there . . . so together.
But inside, the tears keep falling,
I see the anger, the disappointment, the pain...
Inside, I hear a voice that's calling.
At night's end . . . you pretend.
It doesn't matter . . .
There's no one waiting at home.
Well, I know that it matters,
Because I too am alone.
Now for every man that ever hurt you,
For every tear that fell from your eyes,
Here and Now . . . I'd like to apologize.
I'm sorry for all the many nights
You spent staring at the phone.
I'm sorry for the birthdays, the holidays,
Just the days you spent alone.
I'm sorry for the other women
Who made you feel less than the queen that
you are.
I'm sorry that he reached for the moon.
When in his hand he held a star.
I'm sorry for the broken promises, the broken ribs
Blackened eyes behind tinted shades.
I'm sorry for the fear, the risk
The possibility of AIDS.
I'm sorry for words so cruel,
Words that tore the very life from you.
But rejoice and weep not my child,
For there were those who spat upon Jesus
too.
I'm sorry the only time you heard I love
you,
Was when he found himself between your
thighs.
Here and now . . . with my soul . . . with
my heart
To you . . . I apologize.
I'm sorry he never listened
To what you had to say.
I'm sorry when you needed him most,
He just turned and walked away.
I'm sorry for the first time you said,
"I'll never love again."
"God forgive me, but I hate all men."
I'm sorry for the fist that says,
"I only beat you because I care."
I'm sorry for all the times you needed to be
held,
But he was never there.
I'm sorry for the scars
No medicine can heal,
I'm sorry for all the near fatal overdose of
sleeping pills.
I'm sorry he wasn't to his children,
The father he should have been.
I'm sorry he missed the opportunity
To be parent , as well as friend.
I'm sorry for all the times he swore truth,
But you knew every word he said was lies.
Let this be a moment of healing
Here and now . . . To You . . . I
apologize.
I'm sorry he rejected your child.
Never picked him up when he fell.
I can only say, "If I'm willing to love the
woman,
Then I'm willing to love her child as well."
I'm sorry he used your body.
Seeing you as nothing more than a notch on
his belt.
I'm sorry that no answer came
When your heart cried out for help.
But most of all . . .
I'm sorry he took you for granted.
Never realizing
The Strength . . .The Beauty . . .The
Glory
The Wonder . . .That Is You.
But to you I say, "Don't give up.
God has something special in store."
To you I say, "Love is around the next
corner,
Behind the next door.
And this time, God will give you . . .
Just what your heart is asking for."
Lord knows, we all make mistakes.
We're only human after all.
But don't be so angry
That you turn your back when true love
calls.
So just remember. Not every man is the
same.
So not every man should bear the blame,
For the deeds of a misguided few.
There are men out there
Who are willing to love YOU . . .JUST
. FOR . . .YOU.
Also remember,
Yours is not the only broken heart.
Mine has been broken too.
I just hope you can forgive the MAN in me.
Like I forgave the WOMAN in you.
Let the healing begin
BRAVEHEARTED = Real men that know what it means to be tough enough to love
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