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    Kismet2008

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Be smart was a piece of advice given to me when I was young and in the midst of a divorce.  I have been repeating this mantra to myself and my best girlfriends for years.  I define being smart as getting to the root of a problem then acting on the best solution  with the the information at hand. It is not always easy to Be Smart but it always feels good in the end.  I heard Tracey Ellis Ross say self esteem comes from esteemable acts.  Maybe if we hang out here together, we can we can help each other thru some esteemable acts. 

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  • Member Since:

    January 16, 2008

  • Real Name::

    Beth Bankston

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Age:

    46

  • Relationship Status:

    Divorced

  • Last Login:

    February 16, 2010

  • Location:

    Columbus, OH

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Virgo


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