KoldKream

My name is "Thomas". I reside in Houston, Texas. Life has taught me a few things up to this point. I'm well travelled, and am looking forward to seeing the rest of world that I've missed before I leave.

I'm upbeat, positive, and I have a zest for life. My focus is different from other brothers. Yeah yeah yeah.... I did my thang in my roaring 20's - 30's and I learned a lot. Especially in relationships and dating...

If I wrote a book about my life during my roaring years, I think I would call it, "THE 3RD C*MMING" or "WANTED BY MANY, TAKEN BY NONE, LOOKIN AT SOME AND WAITING FOR ONE". I HATE TO PUT OUT ON MY PAGE AS TO WHAT I DON'T LIKE BECAUSE LIFE IS NEVER CERTAIN EXCEPT FOR DEATH SO I HATE TO PUT MYSELF IN A BOUNDARY....

HOWEVER NO OFFENSE LADIES.. BUT I HAVE TO VOICE MY MIND[(BASED UPON 'MY' EXPERIENCE(S))"I REALIZED MY BOUNDARIES...]

I CAN'T GET WITH A WOMAN WHOM IS 195LBS AND STAND AT A HEIGHT OF 5'2".... THE LAWS OF NATURE JUST WON'T HAPPEN!

I'M A SMART BROTHER.... I'VE DONE MY DIRT, HANDLED MY BUSINESS AND I MADE IT THROUGH MY ROARING 20'S WITH NO KIDS OUT OF WEDLOCK.. but i did experience the feeling of hearing my beautiful queen telling me, "baby, I'm pregnant"..... then she had to abort (that's another chapter)

WHAT I CAN'T STAND ARE MEN BASHING SONGS!!!

THERE ARE GOOD BROTHERS OUT THERE.. LADIES.. DON'T GET CAUGHT UP IN THAT BULLSH*T. SONG BY BEYONCE', TALK'N ABOUT, "IRREPLACEABLE" and "UPGRADE".... THERE ARE MORE WOMEN THAN MEN, THEREFORE, WHO IS REALLY "IRREPLACEABLE" or being "UPGRADED".. LET'S NOT GET IT TWISTED. DON'T LET THE "POWER-OF-THE P" GET YOU LITERALLY BESIDE-YOURSELF!!!!!!!

BI*TCHE'S MAKE HAT'N SONGS LIKE THAT(AND ALL BI*TCHE'S AREN'T WOMEN AND LADIES ARE NOT INCLUDED) TO SUM IT UP....

LADIES GET RESPECT... BI*TCHES GET WHAT THEY DESERVE SISTERS WORK HARD.. BI*TCHES WORK YA NERVE SISTER'S HOLD YOU DOWN... BI*TCHES HOLD YOU UP!

MY QUEEN PREFERENCE....INTELLIGENT, ATTRACTIVE, FINE, WITTY, COMPASSIONATE, AND WHOM CAN HAVE AN EDUCATED CONVERSATION AND KNOW HOW TO AGREE TO DISAGREE, AND A LADY WHOM IS NOT AFRAID OF SHOWING LOVE IN RETURN; VOCALLY, AND PHYSICALLY.

I LOVE A BUSINESS MINDED WOMAN.. ONE WHOM IS NOT EASILY INTIMIDATED IN THE MIDST OF BUSINESS MEN. I LOVE A SISTER WHOM IS A TEAM PLAYER.. IF I'M WEAK IN SOMETHING SHE SHOULD BE STRONG IN THE PLACE OF MY WEAKNESS AND VICE VERSA AND IF WE'RE BOTH WEAK IN ONE AREA THEN WE'LL FACE IT TOGETHER...

NOTHING WORST THAN A WOMAN WHOM YOU CAN'T COMPREHEND WHAT IS BEING SAID... IT'S SO EMBARRASSING.. THEREFORE EDUCATION AND COMMON SENSE IS A MUST!!!!!! *I DON'T DO GHETTO..... IF I DO.. IT'S JUST A D-THANG..

! OK.. I'VE SAID MY PEACE ON THAT..



THE SECRET: LADIES WE(MEN) SOMETIMES DO BADBOY SH*T BUT WE'RE BIG BABIES INSIDE.. I'LL TELL THE TRUTH ON IT. ALL MEN LOVE TO BE SPOILED LADIES.......SHOW A MAN LOYALTY AND HONOR WE'LL BREAK OUR BACK FOR YOU.. JUST GIVE US GOOD LOV(ING), HONOR, GOOD FOOD, AND PEACE

WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT TO KNOW , HERE's THE GAME~STRAIGHTUP~and this came from a sister!

1) Wifey is the sexiest, most successful and most respected of all
the women. She is loved, needed and wanted by her man...she is VIRTUALLY IRREPLACEABLE. She is the girl that the guy loves and will always love, he never wants to see her with another man...BUT he will cheat on her with Baby Girl until he is mature enough to realize that if he gets caught or fcks up in any way and loses Wifey, he would be screwed, and NEVER be happy again. Wifey gets along with mom, is independent, never nags, loves to dress sexy for her man, can cook and loves to keep a clean house. Wifey gets called 5 or 6 times a day. Drawback of Wifey, she loves public displays of affection...which might intefere with the acquisition of a Side Piece.

2) Baby Girl is ALWAYS just as hot as wifey and usually has a very
active social life...she IS replaceable, thinks she's the next Wifey,
but will only be Wifey if an extreme disaster takes place.

Baby Girl gets some of the benefits of Wifey, like quality time every now and then and even presents on birthdays and holidays, but thats as far as it goes. The main reason to have Baby Girl is in case Wife really really f*cks up, she can be replaced in a matter of weeks because Baby Girl has been groomed to slip right into her spot. Be careful of Baby Girl, she tends to be just as attached as Wifey and therefore can be dangerous to the Side Piece. Biggest benefit of Baby Girl...she is extremely private and hates causing a scene, baby girl can come into the same restaurant as you and wifey and wifey will have no idea you two even know each other. Baby Girl is a master of disguise as well.

3) Side Piece, usually a female that the guy uses only for sex other pleasures, she is usually the one that he goes to for that 3some or some late night head after the club. When Wifey is acting up and Baby Girl is at work, the Side Piece is usually the one to hold him over for a few hrs. He can meet with the Side Piece for reasons other than sex, but normally that only happens one week during the month. Side Pieces are hard to spot when they are out because most of her friends are either Wifey's or Jump Offs.

Drawback of having more than one side piece, they usually know each other somehow..we kinda think there is a side piece network.com or something. Try to keep your side piece count below 4 if possible.

4) Jump Off...every mans dream and worst nightmare. She is trying to move up in life, wants to be a Side Piece or Wifey but doesnt know how to go about it. They are just the girls he hollas at when he is with his boys...she is usually stored in the cell phone by a nickname because he barely remembers her real name and where he met her...he only recalls how fat her %#&@$! was.

The Jump Off gets called in emergencies only, when wifey is moody, baby girl is on vacation and side piece is with her baby's father. The Jump Off is extremely dangerous in public for a number of reasons, she is usually 5 other guys jump off as well, so she might cause drama with you and one of those dudes if you slip up, she also has no problem confronting you in the mall when you are with Wifey (something that baby girl would NEVER do) and the most dangerous thing about Jump Off...she ALWAYS seems to find out where you live and or work.


WELL, I MUST GO. PLEASE ENJOY THE SITE. RESPECT EVERYONE'S VOICE. WE ALL ARE DIFFERENT AND LIFE IS NEVER PERFECT. DO THE BEST YOU CAN AND WHEN THE DAY IS OVER.. GO TO SLEEP. U CAN'T PAY BILLS AFTER 6PM SO DON'T THINK ABOUT THEM.. PEACE! LOL

ENOUGH SAID.......!!!!

R.T., AKA KOLDKREAM!

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