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HI:) MY NAME IS LISA. I LIVE IN EVANSTON ILLINOIS. I JUST GOT BACK TO CHICAGO FROM PENN STATE WHERE I RECEIVED MY MASTERS DEGREE. I'M WELL EDUCATED AND VERY ECLECTIC. I LIKE MANY ABSTRACT THINGS EVEN SEX... SINCE IV'E BEEN BACK TO CHICAGO IVE REALLY BEEN WORKING A LOT. I WORK FOR A MAJOR TELEVISION NETWORK... I CO PRODUCE THE NIGHTLY NEWS. IM FINANCIALLY SECURE ON ALL LEVELS EVEN SEXUALLY. I REALLY HAVEN'T BEEN LOOKING FOR A GUY BECAUSE OF TO MANY HANG UP'S AND THERE SO BOXED IN.(ONLY MY POINT OF VIEW)(NOT ATTENDED TO MY STRONG BLACK BROTHAS THAT KEEP THERE BLACK WOMAN UTTERLY SATISFIED). <---LISTEN TO THIS---> MOST RELATIONSHIPS DON'T LAST IN TODAYS TIMES BECAUSE THERE BORING OR BECOME STAGNANT. (ADJECTIVE): 1. Not moving or flowing; motionless. 2. Foul or stale from standing 3. Lacking vitality or briskness. So most don't last. If your use to eating plain saltine cracker all the time and someone comes and gives you a ritz you'll be like dag that the best cracker I've ever had. So you have to keep the relationship exciting at all times. So now that why I'm looking for any individual that can do just that. REMEMBER..Whatever you did to get that special someone in your life. You have to continue to treat that individual like the first time you meet them.CONSTANTLY. I have a best male friend that is the producer of the hottest adult entertainment on the market called BOOTY TALK and BLACK ICE. We talk about men/woman issues and desires all the time. Also I have an inner circle of men/woman friends that hold conversations on various topics such as this. We've decided that both men and woman need to be honest and real with there companions about themselves. Talk to each other about your hopes and dreams and desires. Together you can truly become one in a relationship. I'm not an expert in other peoples relationships but I do know what it takes to make a good relationship work for myself. Only if I can find an individual that can meet me half way instead of thinking I instead of us. So I choose to be single because of my career at the present time. I know what it takes to have a health relationship. You have to be committed mentally, physically and spiritually. I understand that this special individual need attention and I have to consummate our relationship but with my job I'm always on calls for a promising story or news idea. So I'm constantly on the grind. I know there are some strong black brothers out there that understand my plight and are willing to step forward and reveal themselves to me so I can finally EXHALE..When I was told by my friends to try BlackPlanet I thought I would get all kinds of perverted and sexually explicit material and language from member. This has yet occurred. I want to thank all my Chicago online friends for there support and love on BP. Plus others that's not in the Chicago area. Hopefully I can give some love back and at the same time and find that special someone thats uninhibited like myself. THE MAN WITH THE DIVIDED HEART Written by Letitia L. Hodge From the Book: "Shadows of Love: Inside the H'Art of a Poet" Copyright 2006 When you fall in love with a man who has a divided heart, your relationship is doomed right from the start. As he tries to convince you that things are better than they seem, he leads you down a path of empty promises and unfulfilled dreams. Hot and steamy lovemaking filled with passionate cries are followed by unanswered calls, disappearing acts and insulting lies. His smooth and crafty words resonate in your head, as you lie awake at night in a cold and empty bed. Being shuffled about like a deck of cards and feeling like a fool, is the price you pay for being in love with a man who's totally confused. You deserve to be loved by a God-fearing man who is stable and sincere, not a man who has become an expert at saying things every woman wants to hear. Get out of this mess, Girlfriend! God has better plans for you. He wants to rebuild your inner spirit and make it better than new. You are a precious Child of God. You are beautiful and way too smart, to stay in a damaging relationship with a man who has a divided heart. "All a man's ways seem right to him, but the Lord weighs the heart." (Proverbs 21:
2) BY E-MAIL OR YAHOO MESSENGER... I'VE GOT A LARGE RESPONDS FROM PEOPLE SAYING THAT MY PAGE IS INTIMIDATING PLEASE DON'T LET ME BEING A STRONG BLACK WOMAN MAKE ANY MAN FEEL THAT IM UNAPPROACHABLE. IF ANYTHING I SHOULD BE SOMEONE YOU CAN SEE AS A POSITIVE INDIVIVIDUAL AND PORTENTUAL MATE THAT CAN BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE. I'M NOT LOOKING FOR FINANCUAL STABILITY IN A MAN EXACTLY. I'M LOOKING FOR A INDIVIDUAL THAT HAS PROMISE AND PORTENTUAL. SO DON'T LOOK AT MY PAGE AND LEAVE AND WHEN I ASK YOU WHY. YOU TELL ME THAT YOU THINK IM ON ANOTHER LEVEL. LIKE THATS A BAD THING. HOPEFULLY YOUR ON A POSITIVE LEVEL ALSO SO WE CAN HAVE A GOOD INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATION . IVE THOUGHT ABOUT IT AND IVE GOT TO SAY IT. DO YOU MEN WANT A WOMAN OF STABILITY (OR) A WOMAN OF DRAMA AND CONFUSION ? . PEOPLE THATS ON MY FRIENDS LIST HAVE SPOKEN WORDS OF LIFE AND INSPIRATION TO ME. I CONSIDER HOPEFULLY TO BE LIFE LONG FRIEND... THESE IMAGE OF PEOPLE KEEP ME GROUNDED AND MAKE ME WANT TO RISE! 
 
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