""It sometimes takes the strength of a real man to admit what lies
deep within his heart""
A Lil` About Me
Well thanks for visiting my page!
First and foremost...im only seeking friendship...
U know some people come into ur life for a reason and some for a
lifetime of expectation, u gotta know which is which, They got
people out there who have gotten married with people that they was
only post to be with for season, and they wonder why they got so
much hell in they life..thay was a person that was suppose to come
and teach u one thing and u didnt know it so u just feel in love
and now u wonder why u aint got no peace everywhere u go!! I put
everybody that come into my life in a catagory of a tree, some
people are like LEAVES on a tree, the wind blow they to ur right
they unstable, blow the other way then they to ur left...seasons
change they wither and die they gone!! Most people in the world are
like that, they are only there to take from the tree and give shade
every now and then...thats what they do, u cant get mad at them cuz
thats who they are...they were put on this earth to be what they
are a LEAF! Some people are like BRANCHES on that tree, u gotta be
careful with them BRANCHES to cuz they will fool ya! They will get
there and make u think they are a real friend and have u think that
they strong and the minute u step out there on them and need them
they break and let u go down, But if u find 2 or 3 people in ur
life that are like the ROOTS at the bottom of that tree, you are
bless cuz them the type of people that aint going no where!! They
aint worried about being seen, dont know body gotta know what they
doing for u, but if them ROOTS weren't there that tree couldnt
live...A tree can have a one hundred millions BRANCHES and LEAVES
but only a few ROOTS at the bottom, that tree will be alright! To
briefly give you something on me .......

I make mistakes
like every other human, and then I learn from them. I am a firm
believer in the saying that "Everything In Life Is A Learning
Lesson." Experiences have allowed me to be a stronger and wiser
person. I refuse to change for anyone, this is Who I Am. I have my
faults, then again who doesn`t, but I have a goodheart and I give
people the benefit of the doubt before being skeptical. I am very
openminded and spontaneous. My time of the day is the night
time.But i am a late night creeper when need be (wink) Im a very
simple man to please..I would rather u buy me Dennys over Olive
Garden..im not pickey when it comes down to clothing either..u
could shop for me at Wal-Mart just as well as u could Target. I
appreciate the little things more then the big...on my dates it
doesnt matter where we go ..what matters the most is who im with on
my date that makes the difference. I need someone who doesnt value
the price tag of the merchandise but rather appreciate it and have
a good thought behind it. I have an Open Heart, Open Spirit, Open
Mind and so I find myself online, wondering if this is any kind of
sensible way to meet someone?... Yes im a proud daddy! Children are
such a blessing...you can still learn alot from a child, don't
think cause you are an adult now that you can't learn b/c u
can!
Ladies, if you are still trying to find Mr. Right, I say this to
you. "Theres no such thng as a perfect man. COMPLETE YOU FIRST....a
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals....Try to look for
someone complimentary....not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if
he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you
sometimes...When a man always know where you are, and your always
readily available to him, he takes it for granted. Dont fully
commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
(i.e) Emotionaly,Physicaly, and Time Wise .....Keep him in your
radar. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, ans
hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime
to forget them. Don't spend your life time crying over spoiled
milk! Life is too short to for bullshyt and games, and to only have
room in your life for one person to love, you see sometimes when we
are in a relationship we forget about those that mean so much to
us. Like during my tenage (A Young Man) years, I used to believe in
having only one best friend, and as I got older, I became a man. I
found out that if you allow your heart and be a little more
openminded to open up to people, God would show you the best in
many friends. One friend`s best is needed when you`re going through
things with your children. Another friend`s is best needed when
you`re going through things with your mother. Another when you want
to shop with, share with, heal, hurt, joke, or just be around b/c
of there charater. One friend will say let`s pray together, another
will say let`s cry together, another will say let`s fight together,
another will say let`s walk eat together. One friend will meet your
spiritual needs, another your shoe fetish, another your love for
movies, another will be with you in your season of confusion,
another will be your clarifier, another the wind beneath your
wings. But whatever their assignment in your life is, on whatever
the occasion, on whatever the day, or where ever you need them to
meet you with their gym shoes on, and hair pulled back or turn
there hat to the side and hold you back from making a complete fool
of yourself... those are your friends. Never forget those who love
you outside your circle, for they were there for you when you gave
up on yourself!! ......