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What Can You Bring to the Table?
In a brief conversation, a woman asked a woman she was pursuing the question "What kind of woman are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking her in the eye and asking Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, she said "Yes."
She began to expound...
"As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a woman what she can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?"
The woman looked at her.
Clearly she thought that she was referring to money.
She quickly corrected her thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. "I need something more. I need a woman who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life."
She sat back in her chair, folded her arms, and asked her to explain.
She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded woman.
I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. And even if she is a believer; she needs to believe as I do.
I need a woman who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden.
I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, and strong enough to keep me grounded when I do go through changes. I don't need a woman who is going to purposely bring me grief.
I am looking for someone who I can respect and she must respect me.
I cannot be with a woman who isn't taking care of her business or who is "messy" in her personal affairs.
I can't help a woman if she can't help herself. If she can't help herself then she definitely can't help me.
When she finished her spiel, she looked at him.
She sat there with a puzzled look on her face.
She said," You are asking a lot.
"She replied, "I'm worth a lot."
Send this to every woman you know who's worth a lot.
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