I AM A GODFEARING, HUMBLE WOMAN THAT IS ALL ABOUT MY FAMILY.. I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO REGRETS IN MY LIFE FROM BEING PREVIOUSLY MARRIED, TO HAVING MY DAUGHTER, TO GETTING DIVORCED, LOL... I BELIEVE THAT PAST EXPERIENCES HELP YOU TO MAKE BETTER FUTURE DECISIONS... IF YOU BUMPED YOUR HEAD WALKING THROUGH A DOORWAY WITH AN OVERHEAD TOO LOW, YOU WOULDN'T STOP USING THE DOORWAY, YOU'D JUST LOWER YOUR HEAD THE SECOND TIME AROUND.... WITH THAT BEING SAID I AM IN NO WAY A "WOMAN SCORN"... I BELIEVE I JUST HAPPEN TO HAVE BEEN WITH SOMEONE THAT WASN'T MEANT FOR ME AND THAT GOD WILL SHOW MY SOULMATE TO ME, AND I'LL BE PAYING ATTENTION WHEN THAT TIME COMES, BUT IF I WALK AROUND W/ AN "ALL MEN ARE DOGS" MENTALITY, THEN SOONER OR LATER YOU SETTLE FOR A DOG BC YOU DON'T BELIEVE THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE...
DESPITE SOME OF MY PICS...(LOL I KNOW) I AM A VERY OLD FASHIONED WOMAN, THAT JUST HAPPENS TO BE PROUD OF HER BODY. I DON'T BELIEVE IN BEING FORWARD AND DISCUSSING INAPPROPRIATE THINGS ON BLACKPLANET, SO PLEASE DON'T TRY.. I HAVE BEEN HAPPILY MARRIED BEFORE AND HOPE TO BE THAT WAY AGAIN, JUST THIS TIME FOREVER, UNFORTUNATELY WHEN YOU ARE UNEQUALLY YOKED W/ SOMEONE YOU CAN TRY YOUR BEST TO PRAISE GOD ENOUGH FOR THE BOTH OF YOU, WORK HARD FOR THE BOTH OF YOU, AND RAISE YOUR CHILD FOR THE BOTH OF YOU, BUT IN THE END IT WON'T WORK, AND THAT'S WHY GOD SAID NOT TO BE UNEQUALLY YOKED IN THE FIRST PLACE... BUT LIKE ALOT OF WOMEN WHO DREAM OF BEING MARRIED AND BEING THE PERFECT WIFE AND HAVING THE PERFECT FAMILY.. YOU GET WRAPPED UP IN THE "IDEA" OF BEING MARRIED. WHETHER THAN THE IDEA OF HAVING A GREAT, LONGTERM CHRISTIAN FRIENDSHIP AND RELATIONSHIP W/ YOUR SPOUSE... SO WE SAY YES TO THE PROPOSAL, AND THE REST IS HISTORY....
I AM HERE TO BE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. IM NOT A STICK IN THE MUD, BUT IM NOT A LOOSE WOMAN EITHER SO TO BEST DESCRIBE ME I'D SAY I AM AN INTELLIGENT, FAITHFUL, STRONG PERSON, A GOOD FRIEND, GREAT SISTER, AND AN EVEN BETTER MOTHER.. I BELIEVE THAT BC TIMES CHANGE, THAT DOES NOT MEAN MORAL VALUES DO, AND I'D RATHER DIE A SINGLE WOMAN KNOWING THAT I LIVED A JUST AND MEANINGFUL LIFE, THAN TO DIE A MARRIED WOMAN, REGRETTING THE KNEE-JERK DECISION I MADE BC SOCIETY SAYS I SHOULD BE UNHAPPILY MARRIED BC THERE ARE NO SOULMATES..
WELL BLACKPLANET... THE PLANET IS OURS.. AND OUR POTENTIAL IS GREATER THAN EVER ESPECIALLY WITH THE ELECTION OF OUR NEWEST PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA.. I AM VERY PROUD TO BE AN AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMAN AT THIS POINT AND EVEN MORE PROUD TO SEE THAT PRESIDENT OBAMA IS HOLDING UP HIS END OF THE BARGAIN W/ AMERICA AFTER ALL THE SMOKE HAS CLEARED... I ACTUALLY FEEL "PATRIOTIC" FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE.. AND ALTHOUGH CORNY, CRIED FOR THE FIRST TIME THE STAR SPANGLED BANNER WAS SUNG (JENNIFER HUDSON, SUPERBOWL), AND MAKES ME WONDER IF THIS IS WHAT SOME WHITE AMERICANS HAVE BEEN FEELING ALL ALONG...........
