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Getting to Know Me I am myself am not sure how others see or perceive me so I am going to do my best to help you understand me to the best of my ability with the information I have on myself and the information others have given me. I have been told by my fair share of people that I am somewhat attractive, cute, or even handsome. Take your pick. I do not disagree with these opinions but with these titles comes certain stereotypes as well. I am painfully shy when it comes to talking to a female for the first time. (Ice-breaking) I don't know what it is but it is not my strong point and it never will be. (Unless intoxicated and even then I'm still not the best at it.) But after some form of communication I start to open up very quickly and can be very social. I know, at 6'6" I should be confident and unafraid to do something as simple as talk to a female. If only it were that simple for me. Its not that I am afraid its that I just don't know what to say or how to go about saying it and until it comes to me in some sort epiphany type manner I don't think I will be initiating conversations. So I guess it's not very customary for females to go up and talk to the guy because that never seems to happen. At least with the girls I find attractive. Or either my height and so called good looks are intimidating and the opposite party is feeling that same fear that I am feeling. REJECTION. I know I said a couple of lines earlier that I'm not scared of the girls, which I'm not. The thought of being rejected is hat terrifies me. Yes, of course, it's apart of life but for some reason that risk is the same as jumping off a cliff. So now I'm in a predicament where girls think that I am not interested or either to good to talk to them which is totally not the case. It takes very little to please me but at the same time the better the quality the more affectionate I can be. Sounds weird but it's the truth. I like a girl with decent body. Doesn't have to have the biggest booty or the smallest waist. She doesn't have to have the prettiest face or be the best dresser. With me it is an entire look. Your look your confidence your swagger. You could be the a 5 but with the right swagger to make you a 9. it just takes a real person to get me. A person who knows themselves. Knows who they are inside and out. I personally don't feel I have reached that point in my life but I guess that's why I am attracted to that type so much. That's not to say that I am not close to that point but I feel with the addition of that special someone in my life that I could achieve the same thing my significant other has and therefore making us stronger as a unit which is ultimately what we are all looking for right? I really hope this has helped anyone who cares enough to want to know me in doing so. I appreciate your time Thank you Yours truly ***LOCSTAR*** ;I KNOW ITS ALOT TO READ BUT BP IS BEING HOMO SO I CANT POST BLOGS SO I THOUGHT I WOULD POST IT OUT HERE========ENJOY============ Game? What can it be described as? Is it just a group of words that are well placed to impress the opposite sex? Is it an actual skill that goes beyond talking to the opposite sex? Is game incorporated into your swagger? Or is it just something that we as sexual beings need to get the opposite sexs attention? Now I usually have the answers to these questions I present in the beginning of my letters but the answers to these I don’t think anyone really or truly has. I can tell you what I think but like I always say its just my opinion and you can take it however you will. Now me being the shy guy I am I would say that game is not for the opposite sex. I feel that we as people use it as a way of not getting nervous when approaching the opposite sex. If you already have an idea of what youre going to say you not as likely to sound traditionally dumb. I know youre sitting there thinking DUH Preparing yourself is a part of life even when it comes to talking to someone. Yes I know but for some odd reason I find that to be fake. Its not really you. And I would hope its some people out there that feel where I am coming from and when they approach the opposite sex they speak directly from the heart, which is ultimately what I would love to do but for some reason I can never get the words together I guess. Being totally honest is very hard. Telling someone what you really feel is hard because you are putting yourself out there FORREAL and that scares me and I know it scares a lot of other people thus they resort to game to make it easier on their mental status. Now like I said thats just my opinion. Now I always didnt think game was that important. I thought a female could look past game anyway so there was no point in think of a cadence of words to make her take interest. I thought that she would know from the first 5 minutes of knowing me she would know everything she needed to know. Or maybe I give females too much credit. It seems like no matter what a guy may look like if he can string them words together he has a good if not great chance to gain the access to what he wants. I know first impressions are everything but is it still everything even if its fake? Now I am just curious. I refuse to make up something just to get a girl to notice me. I am so much more than a that and I refuse to break my back just to show someone how good of a person I can be. But apparently that is the way of the world now and I may just be being stubborn. What you think

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