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COMMENTARY FOR BLACKPLANET`S BLACK MINDS




Updated: Today (lol)

Ok folks, been a very long time since I`ve updated this page. Didn`t think anybody out there wanted chat. This site has become such a bootycall site, it`s just boring to see the tricks and tricksters play

Ok, I`m working on a new topic - Internet Dating - "The Rules and Rulers"



"Dating on Blackplanet b.k.a. BP LOVE?"

Ok, let me start out by letting the readers know that I`m not some bitter crabby guy. I`m also not rude or disrespectful. I am blunt and upfront. I`ll listen and hear a point before I come with my rebuttal.

This month I wanted to talk about BP Love. This was the biggest waste of dime on the net for me.

It`s not as if I can`t get a lady. I`m not ugly (not to me or others) but this just didn`t work out for me. Again, I`m not bitter. If anything I`m baffled at what the women here on this site wants! I`ve never seen such a group of picky women in one place! lol

Here`s a scenario for example:

Me - 35, single, body type: slim, dating, presently going to college, no kids, employed, loves to be social , walks on the lakefront, yada, yada, yada.
Looking for: 25-40, single, dating, no kids, employed, some college,yada, yada, yada.

Her - Age (25-40), single, body type: (slim, toned, medium, athletic), some college or degree something, no kids, employed, loves to be social, walks on the lakefront, yada, yada, yada, yada.
Looking for: 27-35 (sometimes 40), body type: slim, athletic, muscles, and everything is "No Preference".

Pictures are there and I`m attractive and so is she.

Now you would think this should happen. At least some notes or maybe even an exchange of email addresses. Naw. I just never hear back from them. I can see they`ve been online recently or something so they must`ve gotten the very curtious note I sent. Didn`t state something ignorant like what I can do to her. I would go to their page, read everything (even getting pass horrible graphics. Sometimes I have to highlight a page just to read). I`ve read so many poems and seen so many shout outs. I`ve gone through the ringer to make contact to what I thought would be a nice fit. Still, nothing?!

Here`s the killer part: WE`RE MUTUAL ADMIRERS!!!!! LOL

Not all are mutual. As a matter of fact they`re far and in between. Most are just like what others do, send out a bunch of notes and maybe 2-3 might respond. Ladies might have it different since the guys on here typically will respond to anything with breasts and lips. (sigh)
Still, it makes me question myself sometimes. Is it me? My other pages maybe? Then I thought - no. If it`s something about me they don`t like, wouldn`t a woman be a real woman and respond with that? What if it`s not me? I`m everything they want (according to the profile) and yet they might want something "better"?

Again, I`m not bitter, but I`ve never seen so many picky women in my life. I truly hope that you ladies (and you know who you are ;) ) figure out that no guy out there is perfect and if you want to be so picky, on minimum take the time to fill out your ENTIRE profile. I won`t lose any sleep over it. The net is just a convience and nothing more. This has taught me a valuable lesson though. The integrity of a person shows no matter what. And that`s something I truly have not seen in BP Love. A woman with integrity and williness to give.
Instead I just see honest this and honest that. Love God, love your mom, treat me like this, treat me like that. Rarely do I read, I like to do this with him, can offer this, would share this. Sad actually.

Ok, I`m fair. I know this is a guy`s perspective. But it`s not my job to know a woman`s. If you`re on BP Love, you must realize how you look.

I`m so glad I paid for one month. :P

Remember, all comments are welcomed. :)



MUCH LUV BP!



Next Month: "No oral unless it`s serious... HUH?"



Last Month: "Sex and Why So Many Things Are Taboo With Blacks"