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    December 05, 2005

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    51

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    Some College Coursework Completed

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    Rockford, IL

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Did you know that they were friends of Bill and Hillary Clinton?

Posted March 17th, 2008 at 01:48am

A friend on my BPlanet page posted this in his blog. I found this to be informative as well as interesting and poses some HARD QUESTIONS we need to ask ourselves. The first being How well do we really know our choices for Leadership in the US?I pray that my candidate of choice is being led by the HOLY SPIRIT and ANOINTED by GOD HIMSELF. No, I'm not talking religious fanatic here but someone that has a firm belief that the people are first priority not a Wolf in... (continue reading)

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WHY OBAMA? Urgent Call

Posted March 12th, 2008 at 12:48am


This was sent to me in my regular email and I just had to post it here. WHY OBAMA?Urgent Call Hi all,
Circulate this to all your friends

Make sure you read to the bottom. This is having his back (smile)


Wouldn't it be nice to have a Black first lady and two young, intelligent, well-behaved

Black girls in the White House?

Wouldn't it be nice to see those young girls grow up to be decent young ladies?

Think about it, how many other... (continue reading)

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A GOOD WOMAN

Posted February 03rd, 2008 at 11:37pm


A good woman is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She is
aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is
with, nor does she expect them to read her mind. She is quite capable of
articulating her needs. A good woman is hopeful. She is strong enough to
make all her dreams come true. She knows love, therefore she gives love. She
recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated. If her
love is taken for granted, it... (continue reading)

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Hi, My name is Yolanda Davis, Londa to friends and T-Momma to the chil'ren without the 'd' purposely. I know that GOD has found you all in good spirits today.

You are here visiting my page. I am a 50yr. young single mother of 3 ages 34, 31and 17(he's soon to be 18). I am also a grandmother of 4. My daughter 34 and I share a house with 5 teen age boys ranging in age from 12-17 and they all think they?re grown, but we know better. Life is always hectic but truly a ball as we have artists, dancers, jokesters, playa?s and rappahs. All in all they are good men and I use the term men as that is our aspiration for what we strive for them to become. We do our best to promote not only a positive attitude but to build self confidence, which they don?t lack, respect for themselves and others, compassion, and, empathy. Utilizing GOD'S WORD to empower them to face the challenges they will inevitably encounter. I myself am reuniting with THE FATHER, focusing my time, efforts and energy on serving and being closer to HIM. HE is right now preparing me, I know that HE provides better direction, gifts, rewards, blessings and miracles than any I could ever come up with. For of myself I am nothing but with GOD all things are possible. I believe, accept, claim and receive with unassuming JOY and GRACE all as an HEIR with keys to The KINGDOM of THE ALMIGHTY IN JESUS NAME. I give GLORY to HIM, I PRAISE HIM and HONOR HIM for HE alone is WORTHY. I previously stated that I would be continuing my education and I will only it will be more focused on HIS WORD rather than man's and move in whatever direction JEHOVAH sees fit for me to step. I know that HE and HE alone orders my steps, words, actions and thoughts. I still have a desire to help our youth so I know that it will be incorporated into HIS plan for I need HIS resources to serve in a way I wouldn't have been able to without them. I see too many of our young black youth, male and female, railroaded in a system that has more leniency for hardened criminals who have no intention of changing their lives than it does for the youth whom when given encouragement and opportunity change and go on to do great things with their lives and touch the lives of others. I like to read, enjoy good movies and t.v. series, (CSI all of them). In closing know that as I am you are all: BLESSED AND HIGHLY FAVORED!!!!!!!
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I lost someone very special to domestic violence. She was an amazing WOMAN who believed that no matter what her loyalty was to her husband. Her favorite song " I Will Keep Your Secrets", she did and it cost her. Left behind are 3 beautiful children 1 girl and 2 boys the youngest of which at the time was 2. Her husband and their dad is serving time for his actions, the ironic thing is that he did truly love her. His problems were deep rooted and never treated. I read something yesterday that prompted me to put this on here. "Skeletons" by another bp member Scurvin, this may not be the full title but it's close enough for what I want to say. Her husband was a family member of mine through my grandchildren. I talked to him on several occasions about getting professional help, but having spent time in a psychiatric ward at a younger age for all the wrong reasons and having no voice he was having none of that. He grew up becoming used to the institutionalized life style (prison), he knew no other way, in and out often. The time they were married he was able to stay out. Basically a good person, but extremely moody and had a tendency to isolate himself and family when he started to slip. This became the pattern that set the stage for disaster. For the 5 years they were married they moved at least 20 times no less than 3x's per year. He kept a good paying job as a truck driver and she had been employed with the same company since before they got together. Problem, he started using drugs heavily, lying, stealing from dealers and selling their household. My daughter and I talked with her on several occasions and let her know that we were there not just in word but deed. She kept saying it's okay. She would say he never hit her but we knew better. We couldn't force her to make a change/choice that had to come from her. Finally one day she calls us and let's us know that she is ready, she's had enough, as the children had been removed from the home about 3 months prior. They had to be due to the escalation of his violence. People that love you see it, it can't be hidden from them and if you don't allow them to they can't help you. We can only pray that you'll take the hand/help offered to you. Well she doesn't make it that day and not for another few weeks. The next time we hear anything it's her husband calling his brother to say "Man I killed that girl." Never has anything put such fear in my heart, I couldn't believe it didn't want to accept it. My heart stopped, I lost my sense of where I was, who I was having just laid down after being up for 48 hours. I had just moved and we were just finishing 6:30 am Oct. 31, 2004 brandished upon my mind. By 8:00 am we knew it to be true. She had gone to a bridal shower after work and come home. She had just got paid and he asked for money, rent was due and as I stated they'd moved at least 3x's each year. My thoughts, she said no and it escalated from there for he twisted her arm behind her back so far up it was stuck above her head behind her back. He then dragged her pulling the arm out of the socket, beat her with a small Louisville slugger baseball bat, breaking it, then stabbing her with it and a large butcher knife so many times the med. examiner and coroner lost count. This was something that went on until at least 3 in the morning, she'd gotten home around 8 pm according to her mother. Her mother had tried to contact her again a couple of hours later because she was to come and see the children. Mom didn't think to contact the police when she couldn't reach her figured she'd be there soon. She never made it to see her children or anywhere else for that matter. She lay home dead, her body by the time the police arrived was in rigor mortis. He'd sat there either gazing upon a dead body or watching her take her last breaths and she finished dying until 6:15 am, they lived less than 5 mins. from police station where he finally decided to walk to and turn himself in. I'd like to believe that she died instantly from the first blow with the bat or even the breaking of her arm. He is a strong person physically. From the look on her face I believe she left instantly. Upon viewing her body later that morning she looked more peaceful then I'd seen her in a long time. A Beautiful smile upon her face that said "Thank you LORD for calling me HOME, I don't have to go through this no more," she was unrecognizable. Her face as large or larger than a basketball, left arm broken and twisted up above her head behind her back at an extremely awkward angle, eyes filled with long cuts, face slit open in several places that was just the side we could see to make identification, (they only allowed one side to be seen the damage was so severe), long beautiful hair covered her face, both matted with blood and the stench of still fresh blood permeated the room. Mind you we were looking from the other side of a glass, they don't actually allow you in the room where the bodies are. They place them on a cold stainless steel table cover them with a white sheet sometimes more than one and it was necessary to have 4 in her case. There was one folded to shield the left side of her head and face, another to extend over her arm possibly due the the twisted angle, maybe cuts or bone exposure from being twisted as it was. Two more to cover her body trying to soak up blood I presume as it was still soaking thru. It is said that upon death you no longer bleed, I can't fully agree with that one not now. I give this graphic description because I need for those going through abuse to know it will not change as long as you stay and give consent. This is what happens when you don't get out, when you allow yourself to be cut off and isolated from family and friends, and if it's not you who ends up dead it's the person you defend yourself against. The first time you are hit, should be the last time, to remain as I stated gives permission to do it again. When you leave you have taken a stand because you have removed yourself from the situation. Don't stay because you feel you can't afford to leave, even if a shelter is your only choice for the time being, go there. Try to accept as much of the help offered, empower yourself, challenge yourself to love you unequivocally. Don't stay for the sake of the children if there are any, you put them at risk, physically, emotionally and psychologically. The damage is severe and it's hard for them to bounce back. Don't stay because he says he'll change, that's what's known as the honeymoon stage, he's tricking you and it won't last for long trust me on that. You can pray but LEAVE anyway cause that's one that has to come from his sincere desire to change not yours. The MAN that knows HOW TO LOVE GOD, HIMSELF and HUMANITY will know how to give of himself to you. You are worth it. You are beautiful. You are a QUEEN. JESUS LOVES YOU and so do I. Pray for your strength, spiritual growth, renewed faith and wisdom. Take care of you, heal and give yourself time to get to know you all over again. LOVE GOD first, then yourself after which you have love for your children and you'll be able to truly love and receive a positive, nurturing, passionate friendship that turns into that something special kind of LOVE. I miss her so much her smile, laugh and her personality. She truly was a WOMAN whom everyone liked and wanted to be around. 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