Please don't look at the following list as some type of dictatership lol I been getting alot of flack about it and if you really read through it...these should be normal standard qualities. Have we become so laxed with life and people that we should just accept anything? Not I says this cat! lol And yes everything on this list I myself posses thats why I can list them. Take it or leave it. If you gettin offended........... step ya game up!
Im lookin for that one that can give me what I can't give myself. Oh by the way...Im not a small chick. 5'6'', grown thick. If you into small girls...Im not the one for you. Now, the type of person I want in my life, I have defined, meaning, I know what I want and what I'm willing to deal with and what I don't want and what I'm not willing to deal with. Im not a harsh female Im real cool....but also concrete in my decisions.
Just a couple of things for starters.....
1. Must have a car! Guys...I can't stress this enough. I got my own whip. Im tired of riding around dudes in my car cause they ain't got no ride! Come on!
2. Must have a job! Oh my goodness! Don't even THINK about steppin to me wit no job! Again, been there done that. Sick of doin charity work feel me!
3. If you stayin wit yo moms.....Ima say this.....I reallly can't trip too hard on it but it would be really good if you had yo own spot or stayed wit your guy or cuz or somethin! Worse come to worse, at least be able to have company lol Damn!
4. If you smoke. Don't bother. Im not feelin that at all. ZERO tolerance for this! Period.
5. If you a big drinker. Keep on. I need a mentally focused clear thinker at all times. I dont have time to be takin care of no drunkard. I will leave you in your drunkin stupor lol It's a sloppy look for real and I will make you look stupid
6. Be willing to take what you dish out. Fellaz, yall some strong brothers....but if you wanna get big balls with me, I will match you tit for tat. I am not playin games.
7. If you can't make decisions on things, I will step up to the plate and become the aggressor. Then I will feel I can walk over you. Say what I want and do what I want. I want a man that make some decisions equally with me.
8. I HATE being takin for granted! Woah! Man.....lol I hate this so much. Just don't do it lol Don't take me for granted
9. Don't assume Im a mind reader. I don't do it with nobody else. I am one female that will verbalize herself. I know yall can't read women, Ima tell you whats wrong, Ima tell you how to fix the problem...If then the problem continues...don't wonder why I stop answerin my phone! lol I can be a B#*%@!!!!
10. If you into illegal things...For real! Don't bring that my way! Im drama free. I intend to stay that way!
Now, don't get me wrong...Im easy goin. I can be your best friend. I believe in being fair, I believe in reciprocity. I really want a "woman attentive" man. I aint talkin about a soft dude. But someone that is able to understand my emotional makeup to the best of his ability. I love watchin movies, goin to the show. I like concerts, goin out to eat, simple stuff like that. Goin downtown ridin around. Chillin even playin video games! Yes yes I said it! lol Finding someone that matched me as close as possible would really be ideal. Love deserved is love earned. And frankly, I feel like my love is like no other. Hard to get, easy to keep...by keepin me happy. Two fingers to my TRUE REAL people. Again it's all about love and respect!
Oh And I got to say this....To EVERY MAN or boy lol that hit me up and I dont get back to you for whatever reason, THANK YOU! Thank you for the compliments for real! I know sometimes it take alot of nerve to come at someone, and I recognize that. I appreciate every note I get! Universal love y'all!
Divine
I thought this poem was too good not to share. I didn't write this by the way... enjoy!
They take my kindness for weakness.
They take my silence for speechless.
They consider my uniqueness strange.
They call my language slang.
They see my confidence as conceit.
They see my mistakes as defeat.
They consider my success accidental.
They minimize my intelligence to potential.
My questions mean I'm unaware.
My advancement is somehow unfair.
Any praise is preferential treatment.
To voice concern is discontentment.
If I stand up for myself, Im too defensive.
If I don't trust them, Im too apprehensive.
I'm defiant if I seperate, yet I'm fake if I assimilate.
So, constantly I am faced with hate.
My character is constantly under attack.
Pride for my race makes me "TOO BLACK"
Yet, I can only be me.
And who am I you might ask?
I am that strong black person...
who stands on the backs of my ancestor's
achievements with an erect spine pointing to the stars.
With pride, dignity and respect which let's you know
that not I only possess the ability to play by the rules
but I can make them as well!
-unknown- ______________________________ ______________________________ ___________________ 'Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.' A sharp tongue can cut my own throat. If I want my dreams to come true, I mustn't oversleep. Of all the things I wear, my expression is the most important. The best vitamin for making friends..... B1. The happiness of my life depends on the quality of my thoughts. The heaviest thing I can carry is a grudge. One thing I can give and still keep...is my word. I lie the loudest when I lie to myself. If I lack the courage to start, I have already finished. One thing I can't recycle is wasted time. Ideas won't work unless ' I ' do. My mind is like a parachute... it functions only when open. The 10 commandments are not a multiple choice. The pursuit of happiness is the chase of a lifetime! It is never too late to become what I might have been. Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right.. Forget about the one's who don't. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. Friends are like balloons; once you let them go, you might not get them back. Sometimes we get so busy with our own lives and problems that we may not even notice that we've let them fly away. Sometimes we are so caught up in who's right and who's wrong that we forget what's right and wrong. Sometimes we just don't realize what real friendship means until it is too late.
