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  • Member Since:

    Jun 06, 2009

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Age:

    41

  • Last Login:

    Nov 18

  • Location:

    Winston-Salem, NC

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Virgo


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A Single Mother's Blues

Posted

A Single Mother's Blues

Only paid once a month
But somehow I have to turn water into wine
And manage to create another miracle this month
on just a nickel and dime
After rent, lights, water, food and gas
How in the world am I gonna make this
one check last.
Calling creditors on speeddial begging them
for a this month's free pass
Just give me a few more days I ask, and I will
pay you at last.
Some are pretty cooperative, while others don't... (continue reading)

My Eulogy

Posted

Have you ever just looked back at your life, and wondered what your legacy would be? What would you leave behind for others to remember you by? What would your friends and family say about you? What could folks say about your character? Do you think others would see you as you see yourself? Have you been the kind of person that takes and never gives? Have you been the kind of person that hurts, but never truly loves? Do those that you love know that you love them? If today was your funeral... (continue reading)

Timing of Love

Posted

How is it that some people know

The moment that they meet someone

That they have met the love of their life

He becomes his wife

And they build of life of

Love, happiness, and solidarity

But for some people it seems like they

Cross paths with that special someone

at the wrong time

Because he either already has a wife

Or sharing a life with someone else

Or she is... (continue reading)

personal message





 


 

This is the new age of Monique -- It's all about ME -- I will please the needs of no other accept my own. (which is what I should have been doing anyway). I refuse to accept less for more, for real love is what I am looking for. I am not looking for a sometimey;, that don't have time for me or just want to be inside of me -- type of fellow -- Hell No. those days are over, and have passed away. This is a new day, and I heading down a different way -- a different path, than the days I spent in vain in the past. If love is meant to happen for me -- it will, and when it does it will last. But in the meantime, I will accept no one in my today's present or my presence that will treat me less than -- the woman that I know I am. I am not looking to be defaced or vandalized, or to be another knotch in a belt of what you think makes up your manhood. No...you must have misunderstood. If that's your game, you are up to no good. If that's what you seek, go trolling in the hood. I'm holding out for a better man, with a better plan. But until that plan comes into play, Monique enters a new day--a day where I stand by what I feel and what I say. A day where I love myself more than I did yesterday. And if your plan or agenda is to bring me down, you might want to get the hell out of my way. Move on to someone else that is as weak as you, that doesn't want or expect anything any other way.

My name is Monique, and I approve this message.

 


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I think you forgot -- listen to me. This is my time- you understand me! It don't matter what you tried to do to me. You couldn't destroy me. I'm still standing, I'm still strong. And I always will be."

You can take my heart and slam it against the wall, and then stomp all over it...but end the end..I'm still standing -- I'm still strong! Stronger than I've given myself credit for. You will not destroy me as much as you may find enjoyment in trying. It's sad and unfortunate that there are folks out there that prey on your vulnerabilities -- and thrive on your weaknesses -- and all that you were guilty of was trying to love them. But such adversity only fuels an inner strength to continue and I will eventually find my way out miserabe abyss. Oh sure -- you may have knocked me down for minute, may have even caused me to shed a tear or two million - but trust -- I will get up again -- and when I do -- I'm coming out swinging. So watch your back!!
In other words, don't F**K with me!!


EVERY WOMAN DREAMS -- EVERY WOMAN WANTS A MAN TO LOVE HER COMPLETELY!!!


I'M A SISTA BIG BONES -- WOULD YOU LIKE TO WALK ME HOME??


 
VIRGO TRAITS

Modest and shy Meticulous and reliable Practical and diligent Intelligent and analytical
On the dark side....
Fussy and a worrier Overcritical and harsh Perfectionist and conservative


GOLDEN - BY CHRISETTE MICHELLE



Take me back in the day when loving was pure
Love ain't going away, love is always secure
Life's not always perfect but love's always forever
Lets let true love connect lets try lasting forever

I'm so ready to love, I'm so ready to promise my all
I'm so ready to give til' the day that my life is no more
I'll be everything that this woman can possibly be
Cause I'm ready to be like the olden days when commitment was golden

Be the man of my dreams and get down on one knee, Love
Say you'll be all I need and then ask me to marry you, my love
Lets take two golden bands and lets walk down the isle, Love
I'll say I do and you'll say I do, make a golden commitment, oh

I'm so ready to love, I'm so ready to promise my all oh
And I'm so ready to give till the day that my life is no more
I'll be everything that this woman could possibly be, yes I will
Cause I'm ready to be like the olden days when commitment was golden

Let's last forever (let's last forever)
No typical american shady love
Let's stay together (let's stay together)
Pray God smile upon, our everlasting love

I'm so ready to love, I'm so ready to promise my all, Yes I am
And I'm so ready to give till the day that my life is no more
I'll be everything that this woman could possibly be, yes I will
Cause I'm ready to be like the olden days when commitment was golden

I'm so ready to love, I'm so ready to promise my all yeah, yeah
And I'm so ready to give till the day that my life is no more
I'll be everything that this woman could possibly be
Cause I'm ready to be like the olden days when commitment was golden

Golden
Golden
oh oh my
Golden
Golden love
Cause commitment is golden
Mmm mmm

ODE TO SISTA BIG BONES


Sometimes when she looks in the mirror
She sees a woman whose passion within her overwhelms her
Sometimes even scares her
Despite all her past failings, obstacles or challenges
She still stands tall, and can still manage to crack a smile.
Although a few strands of grey taint her mane
And several extra pounds have invaded her body's frame.
She still can see herself as a beautiful woman
Well dressed and put together, carrying herself as the embodiment of royalty
She has a smile that could warm the coldest heart
And with the sincerity that is as real as her heartbeat
She loves strong, and she loves fiercely, but always tenderly.
When she looks in the mirror, a reflection of hope shines back at her.
Even though her body does not maintain its former figure
At that moment, she tells herself there ain't no one better.
At that moment, she embraces the fullness of her body
The thickness of her hips and fullness of her thighs
The one thing that has always been consistent is the softness
Of her lips, and the deepness of her soul that swims in her dark brown eyes.
Beauty is what she sees, it is a part of who she is.
She prides herself in her engaging and warm personality
The love she contains in her heart just wants to be set free
She just wants to feel the way any other woman wants to feel.
To be loved, to be embraced.
To feel again.
But then she steps awayfrom the mirror
And walks the hard roads of life, and finds that most don't
See her as she sees herself
And for a moment she doesn't see herself anymore either
And although she shouldn't care what they think or feel about her
She becomes weakened by the criticism, and prejudiced opinions.
She becomes weary at the thoughts of not feeling worthy.
Not worthy of love, not worthy of happiness
Society has tainted the minds of millions, especially of those that she seeks acceptance from.
Especially of those that she wishes to embrace her.
She feels as if the mirror gave her a false sense of self,
And the kinship that she felt with herself has been abandoned
And replaced with doubt, fear and a paralyzing uncertainty about
Who she is.
But then she has to remind herself that nothing has changed.
The image that she has of herself is still alive and still the same.
She's still strong, and beautiful.
And anyone should consider it a gift to be in her presence.
Just to be able to witness the essence of her, the quintessence of her.
She realized that despite what society may think of her.
Despite where she ranks per the opinions of those around her.
She still beautiful, she still radiant, and her heart still beats the same
Love flows through her like a flowing waterfall.
Anyone would be lucky to be drenched in the midst of her rainfall
The world is not doing her a favor by allowing her in it.
She's doing the world a favor by being who she is.
A beautiful, black, volumptuous, full-figured woman, yet intelligent, well-spoken, and determined.
A woman filled with love
A woman filled with tenderness
A woman Always!!

 

 

 

 

 

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