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 STAND FOR SOMETHING ARE YOU WILL FALL FOR EVERYTHING!!! COMING TO YOU FROM THE BAYOU STATE  IT`S NOT WHAT THE MAN DRVIES BUT WHAT DRIVES THE MAN THAT COUNTS!! LADIES, THERE ARE MEN THAT WILL LOVE A MILLION WOMEN AND THEN THERE ARE MEN THAT WILL LOVE ONE WOMAN A MILLION WAYS! WHICH ONE ARE YOU QQKING FOR? Ladies, Good black men are still amongst you!! Good Black men are indeed all around you. You pass them on the streets, in the malls and the halls at work. Most women can`t see them because they don`t know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn`t flashy enough or rich enough to turn your head. He might not wear a suit or push a Lex. He might not have a "body like Arnold with a Denzel face." But, as you mature, you realize it`s better to find someone who`s got your back than someone who turns your head. A good man doesn`t agree hole heartedly with everything you say. He doesn`t just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn`t declare how sensitive, sweet, caring,sincere, yada yada he is (he wont have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and you may clash, but he doesn`t have to degrade you to prove he`s right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same. A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strongattributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don`t live to "catch" him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!!" A goodman doesn`t necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine`s gift.He shows his love in the ways thatare comfortable to him. Don`t judgehim by TV standards. No one is living that fairy tale for real. You`ll miss out on your own fairytale by buying into the myth that your men are no good. It`s just nottrue. "A REAL MAN IS ONE THAT REACHES FOR YOUR HAND AND TOUCHES YOUR HEART." Too often we losesight of life`s simple pleasures. Remember, when someone piss you off it takes 42 muscles in your face to frown, but , it only takes 4 muscles to extend your arm and %#&@$! slap that mother@#$% upside the head!!! "A SMILE IS A FROWN TURN UP SIDE DOWN" Most people`s place of employment doesn`t require them to take a physical fitness test. The reason for this is that most people get enough exercise jumping to conclusion, flying off the handle for no reason, stabbing your friends in the back, dodging your responsibility and pusing your damn luck!! "WATCH OUT FOR THOSE WOODEN NICKELS" THE LONGER I LIVE, THE MORE I REALIZE THAT IMPACT OF ATTITUDE ON LIFE. ATTITUDE TO ME IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN FAILURES, THAN SUCCESSESS, THAN APPEARANCE, GIFTEDNESS OF SKILL. IT WILL BREAK A COMPANY, A TEAM, A CHURCH, AND A HOME!!! THE REMARKABLE THING IS WE HAVE A CHOICE EVERY DAY REGARDING THE ATTITUDE WE WILL EMBRACE FOR THAT DAY. WE CANNOT CHANGE OUR PAST NOR THE FACT THAT PEOPLE WILL ACT A CERTAIN WAY. WE CANNOT CHANGE THE INEVITABLE. THE ONLY THING WE CAN DO IS PLAY ON THE ONE STRING WE HAVE AND THAT IS OUR ATTITUDE. I AM CONVINCED THAT LIFE IS 10% OF WHAT HAPPENS TO ME AND90% OF HOW I REACT TO IT. THIS ALSO BE TRUE WITH YOU!! WE ARE IN CHARGE OF OUR ATTITUDES. "INA WORLD WHERE MONEY RULES, THEY LOVE YA WHEN YA BALLIN AND IGNORE YA WHEN YA FALLIN" "JUST REMEMBER THAT WHEN ONE DOOR CLOSE ANOTHER ONE WILL OPEN" "KEEP YOURFRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENEMIES EVEN CLOSER" "MANY PEOPLE WILL COME IN ANDOUTOF YOUR LIFE. BUT ONLYTRUE FRIENDS WILL LEAVE FOOTPRINTS IN YOUR HEART" IF YOU DON`T WANT TO KNOW THE ANSWER DON`T ASK THE QUESTION!!!!! |
