Hello ladies I first wanna say thank you for your acknowledgment to my page,my only hope is that you acknowledge my extremes for for doing so.So for those who like to read ill get straight to the point, I'm diligently in search for my most wonderful,unique and significant other,and I truly can't settle for less it's important that you understand that I'm not here to waist time and engage you with tantalizing enticements ,lies and promises I can't nor seek to keep.I sincerely do not revolve my endeavors around treachery,fear and destruction I truly believe that life cannot be itself unless supported by love and the morals behind it's structure,I'm not looking to rule my queen in any form or fashion that may suggest a level of discomfort ,I understand love is to recognize others and to take them into consideration in every way of life,and I expect equal swing in this principle.I'm not to fond of excessive individualism I respond better to mutual relatedness love is not a command given to us by some outside source(excessive individuallism)this implies a sense of power that most of the time asserts itself arrogantly and often violently these are just some of the basis of being egocentric and self exalting it's bull$#^* and quite exhausting..Indeed I don't want anything from you but your hand in hopes that you will let me guide you,the love I seek is not what I consider a feeling but rather a state of being love to me is affirmation ,a creative affirmation; it is never destructive and annihilating,because unlike power it is all-embracing and all forgiving.I believe when love enters into the source of anything it becomes one with it,while power,being characteristically dualistic and discriminative,crushes any object standing against it,or otherwise it conquers it into a slavish dependent.Which I believe is why so many give and take relationships become so horribly co-dependent and settled among %#&@$!ed up inclinations and things turn circumstantial rather then nourished and internally substantial.What I have is mine and what you have is yours but combined properly through the means of choice because of love-is proper means to what I believe establishes correct balance and comfortable and effective communication...Indeed I know the rules I'm quite intelligent I read and take heed I'm not into the club life every week in fact I'm quite reserved I work hard and I'm serious about my extremes and yes ladies I'm very creative,romantically passive,and quite open to most things period,I have an immense luster for life and understanding it as well.However if I gather a level of interest I'm prepared to converse on any level to your liking,don't be shy drop me a line! MR.MATTRESS.....
