Mindgasm_247 It is very easy to judge others based on your slighted view - May 22 add/view comments (0)

Let me breakdown the meaning of my name. Mindgasm. Is simply stimulation of the mind in the grandest and most satisfying way. Simple huh??? Yet says more than what it appears to be. I am not going to bore you with the same ole same ole rhetoric. I will let my actions speak for me.



I am not the purest of heart I like anyone else am flesh and understand nay respect the temptations given to it for this all I can say is at least I am honest about who and what I am.



I want to also say that this page is for ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY!!!!! Though I have taken the time to create a page that is befitting of my name somehow I think there is still always room for improvement.

I am a married woman. My husband is not lucky, he is blessed. In the same sense and breath I am as well. So if you looking for a hook up, wrong spot.



I love writing and reading poetry. I would have to say that it is my passion If you have made it this far then send a note. Leave a note on the table

Update January 21, 2009

Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen. I know you are about sick and tired of hearing women saying "Men need to be more like Obama", "Time for you men to step up and be like him (Obama)", etc. I understand as the days ahead become longer and he becomes greater there will be a call and a cry throughout the land for you to step up so to speak. Well fellas, I think you may like what I have to say to my powerful, strong, independent sisters.

Ladies, ladies, ladies, if you want your man to be like Barack Obama....then you need to be like Michelle Obama. Oh yes I did go there. I am not speaking along the lines of just beauty, I mean the total package. Take for instance Michelle runs every morning for 5 miles. She is highly educated and accomplished in that matter. She is a proud and dutiful mother to her daughters. She is a strong wife that knows her place is beside her husband cheering him on, not behind his back tearing him down nor in front of him acting a fool. She allows her husband to be the guide of the family and if there is a question of his judgment it is handled in house. Her first thought of the day and last thought of the day is her family.

I am willing to bet that she submits herself to the Lord so that she may submit herself to her husband. She is a great woman of character and moral value. she is a woman of substance. Now I am not saying that ladies you cannot amount to what she is, wait yes I am. The reason you can't is you are not her. The same reason why your man cannot amount up to Obama, he is not him. He can try to wear the same suits, he can cut his hair the same way, he can speak the same way, he can even mimic Obama's mannerisms still he will not be "like" him. For every woman who wants a man like Obama let me tell you he is taken because there was only one made and Michelle has him. So let that thought get out of your head.

Now this does not just go for those who want an "Obama" man. This goes for any woman who wants a man like Denzel, Samuel L. Jackson, Jay-Z, etc. You have to be stellar like their mates. That still does not mean you will get someone "like" them. No two suits are cut the same nor hang the same on two different men (you will get that in a minute). So lovely people if you want someone that is of a higher caliber than what you have or want...get ready to step up yourself. You just may find out that what you use as a measuring tool for others exposes your shortfall.