MissAzeeJ Revisiting BP for a min..... - May 05, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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I have been a member of BlackPlanet.com for a while but never paid any attention to my page until recently I remembered i had this page so i decided to come on here n mess around..I'm from Liberia, West Africa,Very very proud of my crazy Liberian culture lol, went to school in Kenya,have lived in several different countries..yes I'm quite the world traveller lol, I'm a "UN baby" so it comes with the territory I guess. Well,It's kinda vain to talk about myself...so what ever else you would like to know..feel free to ask and i'll make sure to send u a reply..although...it kinda depends just exactly what you're askin lol...

Take care now,
Mwah
Azee.J


Just A Little Food For Thought For Those Who Bother Reading....
It seems that there is a growing trend of crazy %#&@$! females who putting a bad name out there for the rest of us in this generation. I've been hearing lately about how females seem to think nowadays that the guys out there are supposed to be on some other extraordinary level . What i mean by this is, ladies have begun going after guys and asking these questions... What can you do for me?What do have to show for yourself? It seems all the old fashioned stuff like ...What is your name? and 'What are your goals? have been thrown out the window! lol... I mean, I understand if you want to be with someone that has things going for themselves but that still doesnt mean they have to do anything for you! Its easy to sway towards the guy with the nice car and a whole lot of cash..and YES ladies..it does happen too often than not... What makes you think that he's gonna be willing to just spend HIS money on you? Then you get mad when he starts creeepin...well...you neve r gave him an incentive to stay in the first place. He wasn't getting anything from you that he can't get from Mary Lucy and Jane...lol

This is why there is a growing trend of actual good guys out there (Yes..i have found quite a few).. who get trampled on by this nonsense and they find it difficult to sustain any other kind of relationship. Maybe I'm wrong here but I seem to think the most attractive thing a female can possess is her ability to hold her own. Have her own goals and dreams and actually pursue them. Thats what makes the 'wifey' material..the X Factor that makes you stand out from the crowd..not how good u look!! Its one thing to dream, its another thing to live. Is it me...or just crazy that females seem to think that HIS goals..are just enough for the both of you. When you're in a relationship, do your own thing..be your own person.. we always singing bout our independence but how many of us actually execute that independence in the right way? There's the .."Oh all men are %#&@$!..they can't do nothing for me" independent lady..... and there's the "Yes I have a man, but just as he does for me I do for him" independent lady.... come on now.it don't take a rocket scientist to figure this out. I actually believe..and maybe i'm just insane that there can be such a thing as a successful relationship. Sure, fights are prominent, but so is the love.He has his own goals..and you have yours. It is possible to live out two seperate dreams...but eventually..and thats the key word EVENTUALLY.. one common goal will be achieved... happiness..success...family..a ll that good stuff...Rome wasn't built in a day! Most 'normal' guys i know aren't sitting on a pile or riches..they have to work for it. Ladies seem to want to skip that part where they are working towards their goal..and catch em right when they about to make it big. No sense to me at all. I'm not speaking for all guys..cause some of ya'll are straight duuurrrty..lol...but for those few who seem to have a lot goin for themselves but because they dont have it NOW...they can't seem to find a lady to be by their side thats not after them for something!...

Isn't that just a sad reality? I think so. I'm a sucker for love.. I've had good relationships and I've had bad ones.. but i'm still a believer. It just seems like somewhere along the lines people have forgotten how to Court. IF you know a guy is interested in you...the cat and mouse game starts...you expect him to call you.him to come see you...him to get you stuff.. and if he genuinely likes you..he actually will do all that stuff...but when you realise that now he wants you...to be stable wit you....well..game over.. rat got the cheese and split...lmao!.... I've seen that sooo many times.. you want a guy until he actually wants you and starts carin about you then you don't want him no more...oh pullleesse!! I see this happening in college!!!...those are high school games.

Basically ladies, most of us give the rap that we are 'real' ..but ask yourself.. How real are you?. Are you willing to walk side by side with that struggling brother till he gets his feet off the ground?Will you be just as content without the diamonds and bracelets and dumb %#&@$! extravagant things? Aree you able to live YOUR life..and still be a part of his? Or is there no more hope for us?.......A real woman doesnt have to sing to you over and over how real she is..you see it in her actions, in her speech and in the way she carries herself.

How real are you?

I don't know about you...but to me...beauty is only skin deep. Alot of people take that for granted these days... It's the actual person you are (not who you pretend to be!)...that determines your true beauty...and ultimately determines...a woman's worth.

Ya'll be careful out there