The ignorant won't read once they've seen a picture. The rest are just lazy. Prove me wrong.
Funny, how something as simple as a name can either turn a person on, or turn a person away. Contrary to the name I never set out to be or do a one night stand. Just think, changing something like how we dress or how we talk can change a persons perception of us.
MY observation as to why most people are single.......
Generally women are too quick to point the finger and men are too fast to bail out. At some point we all have to own up to our responsibilities. People are not perfect.
For men, sex is a recreational sport and love is totally seperate. For women, sex is sacred and synonymous with love. So how on earth do we ever hit a home run when we`re constantly playing the field from two different parks? One wants to play the outfield while the other insists on being the short stop. It really doesn`t matter because no one is covering home plate. And even if someone were playing catcher, they`d never catch the ball because the pitcher is at a different ball game.
This explains why a woman can say I love you to a man after dating for only a few months. This is perplexing to a man who may not honestly be able to say those same three words after being in a relationship for a year. Just like sports, a man can throw his heart and soul into the here and now, but after the sex is over he`s already making plans for a greater challenge.
Some may think this cold and callous when in fact it`s conditioning. Men are reared differently from women. When a man cries, he`s seen as weak. However, when a woman cries, she`s understood to be hurting. Pain is painful no matter what gender feels it. A failed relationship with a loved one can silently scar a man for life; thereby, making it difficult for him to make a commitment to the next woman. Men do think with their heads and not as often with the little one as women believe. Very seldom does a man treat his woman the way he expects another man to treat his daughter. On the other hand, a woman seldom expects another woman to treat her son as well as she does. So what does this say about how men and women think and feel? This is mental conditioning at it`s worst.
As a result women become wounded. But men already think...she`ll get over it. It`s expected. More often than not, she will and she does move on to the next man. Eventually women begin to believe all men are alike. All men are not alike. The problem is neither the man nor the woman changes their expectations. Three months after the next relationship she`s right back where she failed the first time and a year later, guess what, he still hasn`t said those three words she`s longing to hear.
This repetition often keeps one from connecting with his/her soulmate. Women need to think more with their heads and men need to think more with their hearts. Only then will both play the same game in the same ballpark. You can start today by dismissing societal expectations and release your inner spirit.
Do: Love yourself more than anyone else.
Don`t: Allow others to convince you sh*t smells like roses.
Do: Make your own decisions.
Don`t: Take advise from the lonely.
Do: Question the actions of others.
Don`t: Fault them for yours.
Do: Look inward first.
Don`t: Blame others if you get caught-up in the game.
Do: Open yourself up to be loved again.
Don`t: Blame the next man for previous men mistakes.
Do: Compromise.
Don`t: Settle.
Men lie. Women tell detailed lies. If you don't want him to lie to you, then don't ask questions you already know the answer to. A man would rather lie and get you to shut up for a minutes rest than tell the truth and argue with you and get it over. Forgive and forget or move on. Seems simple when it's in black and white doesn't it?
Stop looking for Mr. and Mrs. Right. They do not exist because we are all imperfect.You are no dime, PERIOD.( sorry to burst your bubble "Ms. Loose Change" )
Last but not least.......
The only words I live by:
Work like you don`t need the money, Live like there`s no tomorrow, Love like you`ve never been hurt, and never judge a book by it`s cover.
My real name is not Stan. It's just an attention getter. Please, call me Rickey.
Notice I have not said anything about what type of woman I like. I'm not looking.
But you can reach me if you'd like at mr_1_night_stan@yahoo.com if you just want to talk.
Please Please Please don't IM me and can't keep the conversation you started going. I will not entertain you because you are bored. Read a book or something.
Update: Here is a link to Steve Harvey's new Book Act Like Lady Think Like A Man. You can read it from this page or downlaod it for free. If you like it, support the man and buy a copy.
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