Let me reintroduce myself my name is Serge
I am from Queens, New york, but in my early childhood my family moved to Maplewood, New Jersey so me and my sister could enjoy the up bringing in a home that we could call ours. No knock on Queens, but the schools in Maplewood help mold me into the person I am today..I enjoy riding my bike and going to school.I work out 5 times a week and I go the shooting range every other night.When I graduate with my masters I would like a be a Air Marshall, that would be my dream job. I enjoy trying out new restaurants on the weekends, so if you enjoy eating out I am your man..( you can pay once in a while..lol), otherwise I got you....I love women who like to get up and go because I can.......
If you are a grown WOMAN enter my world
Girls vs. Grown Women
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in
where he fits in.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex.
Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man
want to 'lock' you down.
Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing.
Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk it out
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it--using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e. don't want him
hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time'
even more special and goes to kick it with her own friends!
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women show him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his manhood.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all signs.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love
you back and move on without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other grown women!!
A secret I`ve learned to find your Perfect Mate.
*Write a list of the things you want in a man.
*Then go to a mirror, read your list out loud.
*If you do not have any of the characteristics that you are asking for...........work on yourself first on those missing traits.
*Once you have worked on yourself, you are ready and there is nothing but success in your next relationship from it.
****************************** *********THINK ABOUT THIS************************** ****************************
(1) Never think or speak negatively about yourself; that puts you in disagreement with God.
(2) Meditate on your God-given strengths and learn to encourage yourself, for much of the time nobody else will.
(3) Don't compare yourself to anybody else. You're unique, one of a kind, an original. So don't settle for being a copy.
4) Focus on your potential, not your limitations. Remember, God lives in you!
(5) Find what you like to do, do well, and strive to do it with excellence.
(6) Have the courage to be different. Be a God pleaser, not a people pleaser.
(7) Learn to handle criticism. Let it develop you instead of discourage you.
(8) Determine your own worth instead of letting others do it for you. They'll shortchange you!
(9) Keep your shortcomings in perspective - you're still a work in progress.
(10) Focus daily on your greatest source of confidence - the God Who lives in you!
A TRULY GOOD WOMAN IS A WIFE BEFORE SHE IS MARRIED. SHE IS A DIAMOND THAT MUST BE MINED. ANYTHING ELSE IS JUST A RHINESTONE. SURE LOOKING/ BEING WITH THE WRONG ONE MAY GLITTER FOR A WHILE, BUT IF YOU PLUNGE HEADLONG YOU WILL CREATE A COMMON ROCK. A WISE MAN, LIKE A MINER, KNOWS THAT HE CAN ONLY HOPE TO DISCOVER WHAT GOD HAS ALREADY CREATED. WITH VERY TEST AND TRAIL I APPRECIATE AND I AM APRRECIATED
