Mr_2_dam_GOOD What's up? - November 11, 2009 add/view comments (0) |
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On Friday night Feb.24.06, I was rushed to the hospital. On Feb.25.06, about 6:00am, I had emergency surgery in an attempt to spear my life. Over the next four days I wasn`t able to breathe on my own, and the doctors gave up on me. But God held me in the hollow of his hand listening to prayers and petitions for my life and recovery from all over the world. And even though I still consider myself "less than worthy", I`m writing this testimony today because once again HIS grace reached even me, and HE let me live. And his GRACE can reach you too. GOD`s goodness can not be measured, or expressed in words or songs, but we try and it`s all good. Just make sure you mean it when you say it. For those who knew about my situation, thank you for your prayers. For those who didn`t, now you do. Peace "IF you have a VOICE, you have a CHOICE." 2chat - Yahoo IM: Mr2DG2000  Click to join S.A.S.A._Ministries The story continues...."Mr2DG" Visit my place at "MySpace.com" for more.... If you consider yourself to be a man interested in men (down low or low down, same trick), YOU need JESUS!!!!    Dear Abby: My boyfriend hits me and makes me have sex with him all the time. He says he does this because I make him do it. He tells me he is the only guy who could ever love me. Please tell me what I am doing wrong. I am scared it's going to get worse. --- Afraid in BrokenHeartland Dear Afraid: You have done nothing wrong. Your boyfriend is a rapist and an abuser, and he is using a classic abuser's technique...make the victim blame herself. It WILL get worse unless you put a stop to it. I urge you to pick up the phone and call the police. If you cannot bring yourself to do that, then call the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233). There is help for you. These warning signs have been adapted with permission from the Project for Victims of Family Violence in Fayetteville, Ark. (1) Pushes for quick involvement; comes on strong: "I've never felt loved like this by anyone." (2) Jealous: Excessively possessive; calls constantly or visits unexpectedly; prevents you from going to work because "you might meet someone." (3) Controlling: Interrogates you intensely (especially if you're late) about whom you talked to and where you were; keeps all the money; insists you ask permission to go anywhere or do anything. (4) Unrealistic expectations: Expects you to be the perfect mate and meet his or her every need. (5) Isolation: Tries to cut you off from family, friends; accuses your supporters of "causing trouble." (6) Blames others for problems or mistakes: It's always someone else's fault if something goes wrong. (7) Makes others feel responsible for his or her feelings: The abuser says, "You make me angry," instead of "I am angry." (8) Hypersensitivity: Is easily insulted, claiming hurt feelings when he or she is really mad. Rants about "injustices." (9) Cruelty to animals or children: Kills or punishes animals brutally. Also, may expect children to do things that are far beyond their ability (whips a 3-year-old for wetting a diaper) or may tease them until they cry. (10) "Playful" use of force during sex: Enjoys throwing you down or holding you down against your will during sex. (11) Verbal abuse: Constantly criticizes or says blatantly cruel, hurtful things; degrades, curses, calls you ugly names. (12) Rigid gender roles: Expects you to serve, obey, remain at home. (13) Sudden mood swings: Switches from sweet to violent in minutes. (14) Past battering: Admits to hitting a mate in the past, but says the person "made" him(or her) do it. (15) Threats of violence: Says things like, "I'll break your neck," or "I'll kill you," and then dismisses them with "I didn't really mean it." ~ Universal Press Syndicate ~ but we stand at the foot of the mountain, mouth open desiring, hoping, wishing for, as we gaze toward the hillz. Too afraid to make the climb to take the time, to TAKE HOLD! Yez and claim that which is ALREADY YOURZ! ......already yourz! Yez, you got skillz! Mr2DG "My skin is my sin" says more than
we ever care to admit. Whether we commit crimes against ourselves
[blacks] or against others, we are still no more than we
allow [or should I say decide] ourselves to be as
individuals. Butwe forget we are a great people, a royal race of
Kings and Queens, Princes and Princesses, inspite of what they told
and taught us. |
