"I can go from corporate-america to hip-hop like thunder."
Well, its been awhile since I've updated..."I'M IN-LOVE"
I am a 5`5 190lb Carmel complexion single parent (18yr old daughter). I live in the Hoffman Estates, IL. area. I am a Lab-Tech/Phlebotomist. I am a multifaceted woman. I can go from corporate-America to hip-hop like thunder. Pretty even tempered ( but can become a quiet storm when needed). Fun-loving, and a Hopeless romantic,also Very playful.
"What will you do with your destiny now?"
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NOVEMBER=THUG
This straight-up means ur the most good-looking
Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive
in everything. Active in games and interactions.
Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in
organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to,
though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision,
yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by
kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of
ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to
delay. Choosy and always wants the best.
Girls v. Grown Women... 05/02/06
I saw this in a friends blog and really felt the need to post it in my own... If a lot of these things don`t describe me I don`t know what does.
Girls leave their schedule wide open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he`s truly hers, he doesn`t need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn`t.
Girls try to put a man `on lock` by using sex.
Grown women know that it`s the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to `lock` you down.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it--using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come.
Grown women make you come home.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man`s time (i.e. don`t want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil` bit of space makes the `together time` even more special and goes to kick it with her own friends!
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and `tell` their man so.
Grown women show him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his manhood.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all signs.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don`t always love you back and move on without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other grown women!!
Let him find you
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back
when you hang up on him, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to
the world when you are in your sweats, who holds your hand in front of
his friends. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how
much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the
one who turns to his friends and says, ".....that`s her!"
Take the quiz: "What does your birth month reveal about you?"
November
Has lots of extraordinary ideas. Difficult to fathom. Thinkforward. Unique. brilliant. Sharp thinking. Fine, strong clairvoyance. make good doctors. Dynamic. Secretive. Inquisitive. Know how to dig secrets. Always thinking. Less talkative. amiable. Brave. generous. Patient. Stubborn. hardhearted. Determined. Never quit. Hardly become angry unless provoked. Love to be alone. Think differently. Sharp-minded. Motivate self. Dont appreciate praises. Highspirited. Well-built, tough. Deep love, emotions. Romantic. Uncertain in relationships. Homely. Hardworking. High abilities. Trustworthy. Honest. Keepsecrets. Cant control emotions. Unpredictable.
LADIES TAKE NOTE!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn`t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition
(or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that`s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can`t "be friends." A friend wouldn`t mistreat a friend. Don`tsettle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is. Don`t stay because you think "it will get better." You`ll be mad at yourself a year later for
staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a
relationship is you. Avoid men who`ve got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women. He didn`t marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man`s behavior. Change comes from within. Don`t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else`s man. If he cheated with you, he`ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...
deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn`t turnout to be Mr. Right. Make him
miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Never move
into his mother`s house. Never co-sign for a man. (Hallelujah, thank
you Jesus!) Don`t fully commit to a man who doesn`t give you everything
that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You`ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takesa minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
When should you consider ending a relationship? Susan Quilliam looks at six key questions that will help you reach that important relationship decision A?
whether to commit, or whether to call it a day
You`ve been together for a while now and the relationship could become more serious. But actually, you`re confused. You`re not having a crisis, but sometimes you
get the feeling you could do better. But is this a good reason to leave?
Question 1: Is he genuinely available?
The first diagnosis to make is whether your man is genuinely available for a serious relationship. Because
if he isn`t, then the decision is made for you - up sticks and move on.
Of course such a lack of commitment is easy to spot if he`s already with a partner. If he`s been with you for more than six months then he will never leave his
wife or girlfriend for you. Equally, even if he`s not partnered he may still be unconsciously involved elsewhere - if he`s not over his ex by now, then think very carefully about whether he ever will be.
Unavailability isn`t only about having another partner. If you`re not a priority for your man - if the job, the lads, the gym, or the chat room consistently take precedence
over you - then actually, he`s not yours.
Question 2: Are your motives clean?
Be really honest. Do you want this man for who he is and what he brings you? Do you accept him, warts and all, and will you be able to accept him in the future?
If the answer is `maybe`, look more closely at your motives for commitment. You may be hanging in there because your parents adore him... your best friend is getting married...
you`re scared of being on your own... it would be too much hassle to split up... your biological clock is ticking.
But none of the above are reasons to commit to someone who`s wrong for you. Think again.
Question 3: Can he sustain a relationship?
However much passion and emotion there is between you and your man, that`s a very different issue from whether he can sustain a stable and loving relationship. So look at the evidence you`ve gathered over the time you`ve been together.
Is he honest? You need someone who doesn`t lie, weasel, or fudge the issues. Is he reliable, doing what he says he will do when he said he would do it? Is he emotionally open, or does it take a sledgehammer to get him to admit his feelings? Is he kind and considerate to you, to his friends, to his family? Is he solidly self-confident - or does he need alcohol, drugs or constant approval to bolster his confidence?
You`re not looking for a saint but these issues are the basics, the `must-haves` if you want a relationship to work. If you hesitate over any of these questions, that doesn`t mean you should automatically be packing your bags. But it should raise serious questions in your mind about whether you deserve better.
Question 4: Does he want what you have to offer?
The man you commit to has to be someone who wants you for yourself. So does he? Does he enjoy himself when he`s with you, does he genuinely like your company, and does he respect you?
You may want to ask for your friends` and family`s opinions here - they may see things more clearly than you do. How do they thinkhe treats you? Sometimes it can be misleading to rely on other people`s viewpoints, but those close to you can often give a realistic and useful opinion on whether the man you adore adores you in return.
Question 5: Are you heading in the same direction?
Everyone`s individual - and partners often need to bridge the gap between them over a variety of issues. But some distances are impossible to bridge, and you shouldn`t even try. However much you love each other, if you have serious differences in the following areas, think again.
You need to have similar values and both place the same importance on your underlying beliefs; otherwise in the long run you will find it very difficult to respect each other.
You need to have similar general life goals. So if one of you has a burning life ambition, you will hit problems unless you both support it. For example if one of you wants children, there will be trouble ahead unless you both do.
You need to have complementary preferences - though they don`t necessarily need to fit completely. So if you seriously couldn`t cope unless you lived in a city, and he is a country boy who feels wrong when walking on pavement - or if you`re a romantic in bed and he`s a `rough sex` man - then you will have to work hard in order to be happy together.
Question 6: Can you turn things around?
If you have doubts about your relationship, don`t panic. Almost any relationship difficulty (with the exception of misaligned sexual preferences) can be solved if you have enough motivation and willingness to put in the work. So do you?
Look back and re-examine any relationship problems you`ve identified. Then be brutally honest with yourself about the chances of solving those problems. Do you feel that, with work, you could turn things around - align your life goals, love him for his own sake, talk through your differences? Or do you feel that the elements that are making you hesitate over commitment are ones that are going to bu
Your Birthdate: November 23
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You're not good at any one thing, and that's the problem.
You're good at so much - you never know what to do.
Change is in your blood, and you don't stick to much for long.
You are destined for a life of travel and fun.
Your strength: Your likeability
Your weakness: You never feel satisfied
Your power color: Bright yellow
Your power symbol: Asterisk
Your power month: May
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