Muslimah47 What's On Your Mind? - March 17, 2009 add/view comments (0)

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PEACE & BLESSINGS TO ALL MY BROTHERS! AND SISTERS!

MY NAME IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM HERE FOR NETWORKING & FRIENDS............ I ASK THAT YOU BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST,THEN! AND ONLY THEN CAN YOU BE TRUE TO ME... IF THE FRIENDSHIP IS THERE THEN EVERYTHING ELSE WELL FALL INTO IT'S PROPER PLACE....... I LOVE TO WRITE POEMS, AND BEING AROUND MY FAMILY & FRIENDS...I'M A VERY COMPASSINATE, PATIENT, CREATIVE, AMBITIOUS WOMAN, WITH POTENTIALS ..... (DRAMA FREE), AND VERY KNOWLEDGEABLE WITH WHAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER .............. LIFE!.............LIFE IS A GARDEN, PEOPLE ARE FLOWERS IN IT.. EACH FLOWER HAS DIFFERENT SHAPE, SIZE, COLOR AND FRAGRANCE, APPRECIATE EACH ONE OF THEM AND TREAT THEM ACCORDINGLY.. NO ONE IS PERFECT EXCEPT ALLAH, (SWT) THEREFORE, OVERLOOK THE FLAWS OF OTHERS AND CONCENTRATE ON THEIR GOOD QUALITIES, YOU ARE FULL OF FLAWS AND PEOPLE HAVE EYES.................. PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON.......... People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on............Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.................. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant......... Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime....> A QUIET LOVE! ...........NO TEARS, NO HEARTACHE, NO WIN OR LOSE A NEW WAY TO LOVE, I HAVE FOUND.... YOUR SMILE GIVES TO ME PEACE.... YOUR VOICE CARESSES MY SOUL... YOUR EYES COULD TELL ALL....AND MORE... YOUR HAND IN MINE... YOU HAVE SHOWN ME A NEW WAY TO LOVE... MUCH LAUGHTER, JOYFILLED HEART, WE ARE ONE.... TOGETHER.. A NEW WAY TO LOVE, YOU HAVE GIVEN ME... YOUR SIGHS OF LOVE FULFILLS EVERY EMPTY AND SHATTERED DREAMS... YOU HAVE MADE WHOLE THE BROKEN SOUL OF ABUSED LOVE... HERE WE ARE, HAND IN HAND, NOSE TOUCHING NOSE, EYE TO EYE, WE HAVE A QUIET LOVE............... FOR ANYTHING TO WORK! BY:NAJILA.......... That for anything to work.. one must want it to work. They must then put in the effort necessary to bring it about.. And if it is within the Decree of Allah then it will happen..Insha'Allah, A muslim man must become somewhat of a horticultural scientist if he is to cultivate the type of garden wherein the Flower of Allah ( women ) can bloom and blosom enabling them ( insha'Allah ) to actualize their full potential as believers.. He has to be a gardener. He must ( Insha;Allah ) create the type of fertile enviorment that enables the sisters growth not stagnation.. If the soil isn't right the flower won't grow.. If the flower is exposed to too much heat it won't grow.. If the flower is exposed to too little light... it won't grow.. If not provided with ample water it will dry up.. If given too much water it will drown.. In other words, the brother must use a balanced approach in dealing with the Flower of Allah by knowing what they need and when they need it and how much is enough or too little.. A brother cannot let the "Imam thing" go to his head.. Yes, the brother is the Imam and has the last word! And yes, Allah (SWT) has given him a Degree over the women, however, if he misappropiates his authority... he becomes a tyrant.. And Allah (SWT) hates tyrants.. Allah (SWT) is on the side of the oppressed.. The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) was and still is the most perfect pattern of conduct for any who look forward to the coming of the hereafter and remembers Allah constantly.. And Muhummad ( SAWS) was the best in regards to the treatment of his wives...........