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recent blog postsThe cycle of domestic violence starts with communication, verbal and nonverbal. A black man is conditioned in his own community as a child to accept being affronted by a black woman normalizing verbal and emotional abuses as acceptable behavior from a woman. This relational scripting is deeply dysfunctional and we see the fruit of the destructive seeds sown in his childhood later in life in the form of domestic altercations as an adult. Black girls learn early how to emasculate a man (boy) as... (continue reading) A FATHER'S LOVE IS SUPERIORPosted
So many times I hear about a mother's love being superior to a father's love and I KNOW this is absolutely wrong. The buzz word to validate this notion is, nurturer. Women are natural nurturers as if men aren't natural nurturers. Interesting, love is not mere nurturing. I know we attach great emphasis on physical affection and emotional bonding? However that's not all there is to love. Just... (continue reading) Fatherhood as a Black ManPosted
Fatherhood in America is growing increasingly difficult especially if you are a Black Man. With the divorce rate in the African American community so high as well as female headed households we are committing familia suicide. How can you be stable as a community if your families aren't stable? I once wondered why so many African American fathers walked away from their families. I even judged them as they walked away from their children when they couldn't or wouldn't... (continue reading) |
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Yes We Did Imani (Faith) Did you say, I LOVE YOU TODAY? DID YOU MEAN IT? DID YOU DEMONSTRATE IT. LOVE... THE MOST POWERFUL FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE! GOD! HNV:1 Corinthians How can a person expect to be loved when the language they communicate in is lust, seduction, manipulation or perversion? Here's a tip if your relationship is failing or has failed it wasn't love. YOU ARE WELCOME Basic John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 10:8 All that ever came before me are thieves and robbers: but the sheep did not hear them. John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John {15:13} Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. The Power of Love ... is stronger that anything on the earth... anything... or anyone... 1 John {4:12} No man hath seen God at any time. If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us. 1 John {4:16} And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. HNV:Titus Do you know where the most dangerous place in America is for a Black Person? Answer: The womb of a Black woman! 13 Million and counting http://blackgenocide.org/black .html Will you or a sister kill the next Black President because it is your right, really? Think about it!!! Galatians 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. 6:8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. Parents live holy or your children will suffer for the things you do. Why do you think you had such a hard time fighting ungodly things as a child.   ; SET THE STANDARD! KJV:Hosea 4:6} My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. Warning Black Parents FACING DIVORCE Don't every say that a man doesn't want to take care of his children if you bastardize the children by law. Reducing a man to a paycheck is like reducing a woman to a body part! It's humiliating and the children will lose what they need most in the long run when the father internalizes the dishonor and projects the wounds of his heart by simply walking away instead of fighting for his fatherhood!
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