NileMusiq1 In with the New and Better - Dec 03, 2009 add/view comments (4)

There are relationships that stand at either the Best Friends, Lovers, or Soulmates level but when it does evolve to something deeper, is there a clear transition from Best Friends, Lovers, to Soulmates..... The secret to any long-term relationship is compatibility which allows love to be nurtured and grow. Whether we want to admit it or not.....we are all looking for that perfectly fit relationship with that imperfect person who is perfect for us-- that one special person who makes us feel... (continue reading)

One flaw I see in my sister is that we are are own worst critics. Many of us feel behave so competitively and petty towards one another. For instance take the new Tameka Foster's Model shoot: where she is wearing a wedding gown...even Hello Beautiful]s writer seems to be trying to instigate and make women think she is advertising for another husband...so what if she was...she has bargaining power some of us don't have. I do not hear her apologizing for being real about what she wants and she got... (continue reading)

Doesn't Grassroots start with seeing an opportunity/need and exposing it and getting people to jump on the band wagon? Is there a requirement that a person can not be a black entertainer who also has to maintain his vision? Is it our business as to every minute step he takes? My response: If we gonna point the finger, we should be concentrating on this crooked system we have here that made the working poor bail out the upper class citizens and high level CEO's of most of highest Ivy League of... (continue reading)

I would like for the women to go check out MrNew704: He is young, 35, 6'4" and weighs 223 lbs and he is looking for a mate.... He is not the only one, I get notes from women and men all over BP, and they can't seem to find the one that makes their heart sing? Why? Me and my girls' 2 cents to ponder: Sometimes when you look at advertisement, it seems like sex drives the sales of every thing known to man; from candy bars to cars (of course, and just who they are aiming the this car will... (continue reading)

I am writing this blog in response to the responses I am getting in my notes to the blog below about "keeping an open heart in the midst of pain". Many of the statements are so ironic because some of us women are admitting that we may be raising our boys the wrong way! This is said in reference to making them suck up any pain, stop crying and "act like a man!" To fast forward to these same women and men whose daughters will complain that their men act like robots (appear insensitive)in times of... (continue reading)

I thought this was a wonderful blog about: Living with an open heart!!!!!! Finally, Someone who understands why you must do this!!!! From BlackPalent's JAYDEE200002: Closing down in the midst of pain is a denial of a man's true nature. A superior man is free in feeling and action, even amidst great pain and hurt. If necessary, a man should live with a hurting heart rather than a closed one. He should learn to stay in the wound of pain and act with spontaneous skill and love even from that... (continue reading)