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This page is dedicated to all women around the globe. When God created Woman, Man was in a deep sleep. Sadly a lot of us men are still in a deep sleep to women`s feelings and needs. We men get into a relationship and quickly get comfortable and then here comes the dreaded rut. Females put so much into a relationship just to recieve so much less in return. It really doesn`t take much to keep a woman happy. But us men forget to let her know she`s looking good, smelling good, or that we even love them from time to time. In this rut us men reside, you women are already suppose to know all these things.

Life can be such a cruel teacher and just like anyone else I made my share of mistakes, but I also tried to learn from those mistakes. I really wish the endless cycle of pain where women dawg out men and men dawg out women would end. I think it`s a law of nature to end up in a relationship with at least one dawg. If you don`t learn from your mistakes all your relationships will be with dawgs. I know there`s good women out there as well as a few good men and one person can make a difference if you give it your all. The best advice I could give any woman is "never expect a man`s respect, demand it."

Ladies you have so much to bring to the table of any relationship. But looking at some of the pages on BP, I think you are selling yourself very cheap. Please stop selling yourself as a sex toy and start selling yourself as the beautiful intelligent human beings you truly are my Queens. Even a child gets bored of one toy, then moves on to a newer one. This cycle of pain can end but it has to start with you. You need to love and respect yourself before you attempt to love someone else. We men will only try what we think we can get away with for as long as we can.

A true relationship is not based on sex. No matter how good sex is, without a foundation of love, great sex becomes the same old same old. Sex should be a bonus not the foundation. Remember sex wasn`t invented the day you lost your virginity. It was around long before you and I were born and it shall be around long after we`re both gone.

Brothers please wake the F up.These women are sick and tired of being sick and tired of the games we play. Here`s a little something you may want to consider my brothers. Females are smarter then us men. They crawl, walk, talk and even pottie train before us males. Ask around my brothers, I am sure a woman taught you how to do all the above mention things. They`re even smart enough to make us men think we are in charge. Also my brothers they own half the money and 100% of the kitty-cat. Every woman you see is someone`s daughter, someone`s sister and sometime someone`s mother.

Love is a double edge sword and I know it cuts both ways. But God has blessed us with the tools to know the good from the bad. Those tools are the Heart and the Mind. The Heart just wants to be loved at all cost. (Even at my age I am not immune to my heart's want.) The Mind will throw up flags when something is not right to prevent us from being hurt again. But, the Heart will over rule it and we will get used or hurt yet again. Afterwards our Mind replay all the signs over and over again which our Heart ignored. When your Mind and Heart agrees, now you got yourself something there.

My love and respect for women comes from the great love I have for my mother. All the wisdom I have came from a woman. Learning about God, how to cook, clean and survive in this world came from a woman. I am my mother`s son and proud of it.

I apologize for venting Ladies but I thank God for each and everyone of you. If you will bare with me just a little bit longer, I would like to warn you. There are some men out there who call themselves showing you love by putting their hands on you. I am here to tell you, that s not love. If a man hit you once, leave right then in there. Even if you have to leave with only the clothes on your back. No man has the right to put his hands on you.

My dear sister Vickie, went through pure hell with the man she loved. She bore him three wonderful children. Gave him her entire paycheck every week. Put up with years of physical abuse. We all warned her but she thought she could love the hate out of him. Well, in 1999 she finally got fed up and left. A week later he hunted her down and that s the last time anyone seen her. He is now serving life in a Louisiana, prison but until this day he will not say what he did with my sister s body. Even a dog gets a burial but in this so called man`s eyes my sister didn`t deserve one.

A little something about the man behind the words. I am nothing special, just a pupil of life like everyone else. I openly share aspects of my life wishing, hoping and praying it can save a life. I enjoy writing because it feels as if I am sharing my very soul in my words. I get asked a lot, "Am I for real?" I am real as real can get. I am not a brother from another planet. I am a brother who believes our past, good or bad has a way of molding us into who we are today. I look at life a little differently than most. I use no secret formula or magic tricks. I just try to take negatives aspects of my life and turn them into positives.