Whether you are a mistress or just a woman tired of struggling to make ends meet, having a man who pays your bills can be great. Are you in love with him or are you in love with the security he provides. Do you think if you say you love him enough maybe you will grow to. Some women have now become modern day mail order brides who sell themselves to men that can provide for them financially. Is it real love or are women being real smart because aint nothing going on but the rent? Why bang a broke... (continue reading)

I recently had a conversation in which someone had a link on their page to their personal website. This person was doing wonderful things. While I barely knew who this person was, I was more than proud to read about their accomplishments. However they felt BP was not a platform to draw attention to themselves and rather keep a low profile. Why do folks who would likely inspire so many people get cold feet when others want them to be proud of their accomplishments? To aspire to inspire at all... (continue reading)

Make a Right onto "Believeth Blvd."

Keep straight and go through the Green Light, which is Jesus Christ.

From there, you must turn onto the "Bridge of Faith," which is over troubled water.

When you get off the bridge, make a Right turn and Keep Straight. You are on the "King's Highway" Heaven-bound.

Keep going for three miles: One for the Father, One for the Son, and One for the Holy Ghost.

Then exit off onto "Grace Blvd."

From there, make a Right turn on "Gospel Lane. "

Keep Straight... (continue reading)

While struggling with the reality of being a human instead of a myth, the strong black woman passed away.

Medical sources say she died of natural causes, but those who knew her know she died from being silent when she should have been screaming, smiling when she should have been raging, from being sick and not wanting anyone to know because her pain might inconvenience them.

She died from an overdose of other people clinging to her when she didn't even have energy for herself.

She died... (continue reading)

Often times when you are in love with someone you make compromises and allowances. The key is not to go so far that you loose yourself by accepting things just to make the other person happy or keep them in your life. Life is not always black and white but when you know a person is continually doing terrible things that hurt you, you got to be strong enough to walk away. Bad treatment is bad treatment. Sometimes perception can become clouded due to circumstances and we make excuses to maintain a... (continue reading)