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   Originally from Philly, born and raised. Now i bounce back and forth from Tampa, Florida to New York. I have a spot in each place. Very cool, calm and collective male...hoping to find that one...not rushing the issue...just wondering if I would stub my toe on a true catch....not ready to jump in a pool not knowing if it's full of water...just loving the thought of doing the breath stroke with the right folks Whatz good ppl Food for thought..Have you ever wondered why most relationships go to ish..Well because they lack the 3 fazes...(1st faze) Physical attraction: I know pplz say looks aren't everything..I guess an ugly mofo made that up..lol naw but there not everything. They do play a big part of the relationship. That is the 1st thing you see when the initial meeting begins. You also have to want to roll over in the morning and still wanna be next to your bad breath mate. That physical plays a big part in you staying faithful. Do you really want to have a baby with someone you don't think is attractive..lets be real ppl. (2nd faze) The mental connection: Who wants to kick it with a ding-bat. The giggling dumb blond thing can only last for so long (No disrespect to the blondes on my list..If you were like that..you wouldn't be gettin this) You have to be able to hold a deep convo, or be able to understand a persons wit, and humor. No one wants to see the blank boo boo face. we need that person that can understand us. After the sweating and leg shaking of good sex...I have to be able to "Mind %#&@$! You" {excuse my french} (3rd faze) Emotional connection: Now I know everyone has been here before. You know when your just getting to know someone and there falling head over hills for you, but the feeling is not fully mutual at that point. They're telling you that they love you {strong words) If you can't relate to there feelings,how can you say it back. That leaves the mate in limbo. Hovering in space with these strong emotions that you don't feel. Then they're forced to cheat or find love somewhere else. {My quick remedy} Be real with you and yours. Let them know from jump what your looking for. Try not to bring excess baggage into the relationship. When I say baggage..kids are far from my mind, I'm speaking of past relationships. New relationships deserve a fresh start [Real Rap] More so than anything..make that person your friend before you make them your mate. That way you can weed out the phonies, and see if those 3fazes are alive within you and yours. How do you think those old folks in the nursing home spend their whole lives together. They grow old and die next to each other. Why you ask???..because that person was their best friend. Once the Physical faded..all they had was there undying love for each other...Their best friend...Just food for thought ppl...as always Get Dat Gwop
I'm not a dog...more of a black stallion... Love to stay groomed, prance around with my head high...Well hung..willing to give a good ride...Able to produce glue to keep %#&@$! together...And if it doesn't work out...Atleast you can get a new weave..lol (((ThoroTaz on ooVoo))) (((ThoroTaz on FaceBook))) Yahoo/ThoroTaz@yahoo.com ((Skype ThoroTaz))    |
