Phatkat4u2likFL in need of romance and love!! - October 01, 2009 add/view comments (0)

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    Phatkat4u2likFL

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  • Here For:

    Serious Dating

  • Member Since:

    June 27, 2003

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Age:

    43

  • Location:

    Birmingham, AL

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Cancer


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Let me tell you something about me..I AM CHECKING MYSELF RIGHT NOW... "Never give someone priority in your life, if you're just an option in theirs." Nothing else needs to be said about that.

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I am not looking for a booty call or one night stand. I am ready for a real man that can hold my attention and the issues that we both face we can work them out together not have a battle of who said what and when(1 James 1:8)..I want a man that knows that God is the head of our lives and the words that you speak cut like a two edged sword because you should be swift to hear and slow to speak and slow to wrath (1 James 1:19-20) Too many men say things out of anger and then forget the next day what they have said and wonder why you still have hurt feelings about what they have said. I am working on me..and over the next few months a lot of things will be changing in my life. I refuse to let someone elses past affect my present and my future. I dont want to be with anyone that is not helping themselves mentally overcome the things in their past so that they can live their future. So if this offends you... Oh WELL MOVE ON... life will go on..The best song out right now to tell you my issue is Jennifer Hudson.. SPOTLIGHT... LISTEN TO THE WORDS....

 

 

20 WAYS TO SATISFY ME

1. Be faithful to me
2. Kiss me
3. Hold me
4. Compliment me
5. Caress me
6. Listen to me
7. Laugh with me
8. Make me smile
9. Make me scream your name(lol!!)
10. Appreciate me
11. Surprise me
12. Arouseme
13. Educate me
14. Acknowledge me
15. Accept me
16. Believe in me
17. Want me
18. Understand me
19. Be Honest with me
20. Above all others love me


AND I WILL BE...THE ONE U ARE SEEKING!!!!!!



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46 WAYS TO MELT A WOMANS HEART
After this, you are on your own!!!


1. Ask her to dance.
2.On windy days, brush waywardstrands of hair from her eyes and mouth.
3.When shes coming down the street, across the room, or up the stairs to meet you, walk toward her as soon as you see her.
4.Kiss her between her shoulder blades when she turns her back to you to go to sleep.
5.Put your arm around her when you introduce her to your friends and family.
6.Grasp her hand when a scantily dressed, beautiful woman walks by.
7.Call her when youre feeling sad.
8.Kiss her eyelids.
9.Ask to see a picture of her when she was a child.
10.Wash her from head to toe in the shower.
11.If shes crying on the phone, go over to her place. Immediately.
12.Stand her naked on a sturdy chair and lick between her legs.
13.Occasionally call her by her first and middle names.
14.Buy her your favorite rock album of all time on vinyl.
15.Order coffee for her, remembering exactly how she likes it.
16.Undress her and put her to bed when she falls asleep in the car.
17.Mention your upcoming anniversary before she does.
18.Send her something in the mail. Anything.
19.When shes feeling insecure, stare into her eyes and tell her there is no one in the world who could be as right for you as she is.
20.Call her just before you get on theplane.
21.Pick her clothes up off the floor.
22.Try desperately to make her laugh when shes feeling down.
23.Take her to see your favorite sport live. Pay more attention to her than to the game.
24.Touch her arm when you leave the table to go to the bathroom. Touch her again when you come back.
25.Shave just before you see her. She`ll notice.
26.Hug her when she gets jealous. Hug her hard.
27.Worship her breasts.
28.Give her jewelry.
29.Hand her two towels when she gets out of theshower. (The second one is for her hair.)
30.Ask her specific questions about her work.
31.Keep her favorite cereal on hand.
32.In the middle of a conversation, tell her you love her.
33.Send her very expensive flowers when you screw up.
34.Take her to a cabin with a fireplace. Build her a fire.
35.Moan her name when she goes down on you.
36.Read her a story when its her turn to drive during a long road trip.
37.Offer to fix something in her apartment that you realize is broken.
38.Notice when shes wearing something new.
39.Make love to her standing up, against a wall.
40.Kiss her hand in front of your most die-hard bachelor buddies.
41.If shes too stressedto want sex . . .
a. Draw a bath for her
b. Give her a full-body massage
c. Ask if she wants to wrestle.

Thanks a wonderful man that apparently understands women:

42. Call her @ night before she falls asleep to tell her you love her and sleep well.
43. Remember what time her alarm goes off; call 2 minutes later to say Good Morning!!!
44. Help her with her coat.
45. Pull out her chair before she sits or stands.
46. Always remember to walk on the LEFT side opposing the traffic for her!






 





A GOOD BLACK MAN IS A MODEST MAN.

ALWAYS DRESSES DECENT, CLEAN CUT, AND SMELLS GOOD.

HE IS ALWAYS HUMBLE.

A GOOD BLACK MAN IS STRONG.

NEVER COMPLAINS WHEN TROUBLE COMES HIS WAY.

THINKS BEFORE HE LEAPS AND NEVER MISSES.

ALWAYS MAKE SECOND ATTEMPTS IN ORDER TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT.

IS NOT AFRAID TO EXPRESS HIS EMOTIONS.

A GOOD BLACK MAN IS A GENEROUS MAN.

BEHAVES LIKE A MAN AND NOT A BOY.

NEVER PUTS UP A FIST OR EVEN A FINGER.

KNOWS HOW TO SMILE WHEN HE ISWRONG.

HE IS A REAL GENTLEMAN TO ALL WOMEN AND NEVER USES THEM.

A GOOD BLACK MAN KNOWS THE LORD.

HONORS HIS PARENTS AND HAS FAMILY VALUES.

HE KEEPS HIS WORD AND NEVER LIES.

A GOOD BLACK MAN IS AN EDUCATED MAN.

HE IS GOAL ORIENTED AND VERY AMBITIOUS.

HE IS A LEADER AND NOT A FOLLOWER.

DOES NOT HAVE TO "HUSTLE" TO MAKE ENDS MEET.

HE ISN`T AFRAID OF HARD WORK.

A GOOD BLACK MAN IS CONSIDERATE.

CAN LISTEN FOR HOURS AND REMEMBER EVERYTHING THAT WAS MENTIONED

HE IS FIRST TO PUT HIS INTEREST ASIDE FOR HER




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br />IF I CANNOT DO ANY OF THE FOLLOWING, PLEASE DONT BOTHER:

01) REACH YOU AFTER 9PM/10PM
02) COME VISIT YOU AND STAY (YOU CAN STAY HERE, WHY CAN'T I THERE?)
03) SEE YOU THE SAME DAY (OR AT LEAST THE NEXT)
04) HAVE FULL CONTACT INFO (CELL, HOME, WORK NUMBERS)
05) BE SEEN IN PUBLIC (DINNER, PARK, PLAYS, MUSEUM, ETC.)
06) HAVE A POSITIVE IMPACT EMOTIONALLY/PHYSICALLY/MENTALL Y/SPIRITUALLY
07) BE TOGETHER ON THE REGULAR WITHOUT EXCUSES
08) HAVE FUN AND KEEP IT REAL
09) GO SHOPPING TOGETHER (MAD COOL POINTS HERE...LOL!!!)
10) HAVE AN INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATION
11) HAVE MY BACK (I WILL RECIPROCATE)
12) BE IMPORTANT AND A PRIORITY TO YOU


THESE ARE SOMEWHAT SIMPLE AND BASIC THINGS. I DO NOT THINK I AM ASKING TOO MUCH. I AM NOT ASKING ANYTHING THAT I CANNOT PRODUCE MYSELF, WHICH IS ONLY FAIR. NOTICE I DID NOT MENTION ANYTHING MATERIAL; (I.E. CARS, HOUSES, MONEY, JEWELRY & CLOTHES,

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