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    Phillip_The_So_Fine

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  • Member Since:

    Oct 23, 2006

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Age:

    41

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Last Login:

    3 hours ago

  • Education:

    Some College Coursework Completed

  • Location:

    Madison, WI

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Aries


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IN THE SNOW OR IN THE RAIN, I'M GON' MAINTAIN!

What's BP and Madtown? Welcome to my thoughts.

Due to circumstances I'm outta the Mil. Just too much negativity for me. Hopefully Madison will be more positive and embrace a brotha trying to grow as a human and build. Peace out Milwaukee, thank you for the lessons I've learned.

QUESTION: Where in Madtown can a mature black man go to hear live jazz, spoken word, def poetry? I don't really go to clubs and Jazz in the Park season is over. If you know please inform me.

About the name, its just a nickname I acquired some time ago, I am in no way conceited. I am a black sitcom junkie and its just my homage to the character Bumper Robinson played on "Amen", Clarence The So Fine. In fact I believe that fine, sexy, beautiful, cute, pretty and handsome are all subjective. If Bobby Brown can call himself the Original King of R&B, then I can call myself The So Fine!

I am a Vet, gave Uncle Sam's army 12 good years. Traveled all over the world, Europe, Asia almost all 50 states. I have to, I mean I MUST give a shoutout to all the SOLDIERS, SAILORS, MARINES and AIRMEN serving all over the world. Especially the ones that I have had the pleasure to serve with. So if you've worked with me somewhere in the field of Military Intelligence please drop me a line. I've been stationed at Fort Dix, NJ; Fort Devens, Ayer, MA; Leighton Barracks, Wurzburg, Germany; Fort Gordon, Augusta, GA; Fort Huachuca, AZ; Camp Humphries, South Korea; Fort Meade, MD; NSA; Buckley AB, Aurora, CO and of course the Army Reserves Base in Milwaukee.

I've recently celebrated 1 year since my kidney transplant, and I am loving life! Thank you to all of the people that have sent me all the sweet and inspiring notes, words of encouragement, and prayers. A brotha truly appreciates that, and can always use more from my brothas and sistas. My people please take care of yourselves and especially your health. Also please be a donor if you can. While I was going thru my stuff, I also lost my girl to breast cancer (rest in peace Titi). Sistas check yourselves regularly, or you can have me check for you (I can't lie, I love breast, I should have been a mammariologist or something). Seriously, black women are more likely than any one else to die from breast cancer.



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I wish that I could hold you now
I wish that I could touch you now
I wish that I could talk to you
Be with you somehow
I know you're in a better place
And you know I can see your face
I know you're smiling down on me
Saying everything's okay
And if I ever make it out of this thug life
I'll see you again someday
I wish, I wish, I wish
I wish, I wish, I wish

Thank you R. Kelly for putting my thoughts into songs.

SHOUT OUT to Alonzo Mourning of the Miami Heat. He has the same kidney disease I have, FSGS (it affects a lot of brothas), and he is a true inspiration. To deal with kidney failure the way he has, get a transplant and then come back and not just play basketball again, but win a NBA Championship, is just awesome!!

Now I'm just trying to live life again, going back to school, build, and try to be the best man I can be.

SOME THINGS ABOUT ME:

What I am:
* A Proud black MAN
* A Soldier (once you are made into a true soldier, you will always be a true soldier)
* Intelligent
* A great listener and good counsel.
* A truly loyal friend.
* Humorous (unless you had your sense of humor surgically removed, I will make you laugh, guaranteed!).

What I am not:
* Playa, pimp, thug, gangsta, baller, stunna nor any of the other cute little names to call BOYS.
* conceited, judgemental or self-righteous
* Trendy, materialistic or ballin' (sorry golddiggers)
* Unappreciative. I am so grateful for everyone and everything in my life.

What I know/believe:
* Jesus Christ is my Lord and Saviour.
* Karma is a mutha for ya! If you do good and treat people well, good things will happen for you and many will love you. If you do bad things and mistreat people, you will reap what you sow!
* Everybody deserves respect.....until they don't.
* Women not girls rule my world, I said they rule my world! (Thanks for that line, Prince).
* Life can be short, do not take anyone or anything of importance for granted, if you do, you WILL be sorry.
* Material things (trendy gear, flashy cars & rims and even the bling) lose value and go out of style, genuine classy, wise and loyal friends never do.
* When it comes to music: there aint nothin' like the old school!
* Safe Sex, no matter how freaky or wild.
* True Love will return to me, be my wife and grow old with me.

What I like:
* Comedy! Movies, shows, stand-up, sitcoms.....you name it.
* Spending time with loved ones.
* traveling.
* Reading. Especially African American authors (Eric Jerome Dickey, Noire, RM Johnson, Zane, etc...)
* Good conversation. Whether its an intelligent adult debate on recent events or shootin' the breeze with my folks. I can debate about White House policies or trip about who got shot on Center Street.
* Long walks (for real!)
* Sports. playing and watching.
* Good music. Dave Chappelle's block party is a represent of my style.
* Writing.
* Women's Breastesess, weren't you paying attention?




Peace to my princesses soon to be queens, my entire fam in Miltown, Madison, GI (Gary) & Chitown, my buzzin' cousins, Madame (my heart and soul), Yogi, Redd, Ms Tiff, and Coco Ti.
Rest in peace to Titi, I think of you all the time. I now know what its like to have my life truly touched by an angel. You are forever in my heart, I miss you and will never forget the love you brought into my life.
A specially thank you to the family of the young man who's kidney has given me new life. My sincere condolences for your loss. Please know that your son did not die in vain, and I will do all that I can to be the great man that God has destined me to be.

More recent pics are on the way. Thank you if you have read all of my ramblings. Ladies, please show me some love and kiss my G-spot, and I promise to return the favor.




Your Birthdate: March 27



You are a spiritual soul - a person who tries to find meaning in everything.

You spend a good amount of time meditating, trying to figure out life.

Helping others is also important to you. You enjoy social activities with that goal.

You are very generous and giving. Yet you expect very little in return.



Your strength: Getting along with anyone and everyone



Your weakness: Needing a good amount of downtime to recharge



Your power color: Cobalt blue



Your power symbol: Dove



Your power month: September







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You Are a Prophet Soul



You are a gentle soul, with good intentions toward everyone.

Selfless and kind, you have great faith in people.

Sometimes this faith can lead to disappoinment in the long run.

No matter what, you deal with everything in a calm and balanced way.



You are a good interpreter, very sensitive, intuitive, caring, and gentle.

Concerned about the world, you are good at predicting people's feelings.

A seeker of wisdom, you are a life long learner looking for purpose and meaning.

You are a great thinker and communicator, but not necessarily a doer.



Souls you are most compatible with: Bright Star Soul and Dreaming Soul

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Posted Mar 11


Hey Phillip it has been a long time. I thought I would stop by to show you some luv. You still my peps


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