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"Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man`s rib; not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to beequal; under the arm to be protected and next to the heart to be loved."


Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
Proverbs 31:30

TEN POWERFUL SECRETS OF LOVE

FIRST SECERET: The Power of Thought


Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider his or her needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize him or her when you meet him or her.

SECOND SECRET: The Power of Respect


You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself: "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike ask yourself: "What do I respect about them?"

THIRD SECRET: The Power of Giving


If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what you are able to give them. The secret formula of happy, lifelong, loving relationship is always focus on what you give instead of what you can take.

FOURTH SECRET: The Power of Friendship


To find true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other`s eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely, you must love him or her for who they are not what he or she looks like. Friendship is the soil through which love`s seeds grow. If you want tobring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

FIFTH SECRET: The Power of Touch


Touchis one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states, and makes us more receptive to love.

SIXTH SECRET: The Power of Letting Go


"If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you it s yours, if it doesn t it never was." Even in a loving relationship, people need their space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts, and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go all my fears, the past has no power over me-today is the beginning of a new life."

SEVENTH SECRET: The Power of Communication


When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: " I LOVE YOU." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word- it could be the last time you see him or her. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say, and why are you waiting?

EIGHTH SECRET: The Power of Commitment


If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughtsand actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

NINTH SECRET: The Power of Passion


Passion igniteslove and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it come from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity andsurprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all weneed to do is to live each day with passion.

TENTH SECRET: The Power of Trust

Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious, fearful, and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You can not love someone completely unless you trust him or her completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you are ask yourself "Do I trust him or her completely and unreservedly?" If the answer in "NO", then you must think very carefully before you make any type of a commitment.

And if you exercise all ten of these powerful secrets, you ll receive the most powerful one of all "KNOWLEDGE"...easily accessible has proven to be the most effective tool for liberating and empowering.



A good woman is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She
is aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, nor does she expect them to read her mind. She is quite
capable of articulating her needs.
A good woman is hopeful. She is strong enough to make all her dreams
come true. She knows love and therefore she gives love. She recognizes
that her love has great value and must be reciprocated. If her love is
taken for granted, it soon disappears.
A good woman has a dash of inspiration and endurance. She knows that she will, at times, have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them. A good woman knows her past, understands her present and moves toward the future.
A good woman knows God. She knows that with God the world is her
playground, but without God she will just be played.
A good woman does not live in fear of the future because of her past. Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons, meant to bring her closer to self-knowledge and unconditional self- love.



Remember to always say what you mean, I know I do. If you love someone, tell them. Don`t be afraid to express yourself. Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you. Because when you decide that it is the right time it might be too late. Seize the day. Never have regrets. And most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they have helped make you the person that you are today. Stay blessed, i`m out.


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