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I will NOT accept friend invites from anyone who couldn't take time to send a message with it or send me a note.

I understand the guidelines on my page may seem like a lot but they aren't uncommon. I apologize if any of them pertain to you, but taking time out to send me a message and disrespect me because of my page... will only support why the guidelines are there and make you appear that much more undesirable. Just bow out gracefully and move to another page please..

If you truly feel your personality overrides what is said on my page, please by all means feel free to send a message showing that. I respond to all well written and thoughtful messages....there's no harm in trying

General Information:

Don`t want to read the page? Want straight to the point answers about me? Check out this entry






Want to know me on a more..personal note?

Check out my blog at: Myspace Blog<--Updated 4/08/08

The notes "things" have started already:

• Let`s stop with the 1 line notes
  "What`s good?" "What`s up?"...the next note
• DON`T ask me to check out your page if I sent YOU a note....what the hell?
• Keep your fatal attractions out of my notes..if you have a psychotic female, stop with the denial before you get somebody killed. OR if you are that psychotic female..you do realize he clicking reply to the notes too right? Ok just checking.
  
• STOP asking me questions I`ve already answered on my page. It`s completely idiot-proof, plain and simple, straight to the point. It`s as if I could have left this entire page blank.

  
  
  
  
  ATTENTION!: Let`s stop playing lol
  I`m legally a grown woman now.
  Anyone under 21 years old..will not cut it.
  I never have been one to date under my age.
  Honestly, I can`t be robbing any cradles.
  That`s handcuffs.... and not the fuzzy ones.
  Get it? Got it? Good.
  

  
  
  
  If ANY single one of these applies to you......then don't even bother
  

• If you have kids (I love kids, but don't want to play mommy to anyone right now. Nor do I want to deal with any crazy baby mamas)
  The reason for this is deeper than the surface. I want to experience a relationship where my partner and I can be priority. Call it whatever you would like, but I would like to know how it feels to be the most important person in someone's life. As my mate will be in mine and together we could create someone more important than both of us.
• If you have crazy ex girlfriends
  Please...I do not need her calling my phone back claiming territory or trying to figure out where I work and what car I drive. My car has been egged way too many times for reasons unbeknown st to me lol
• If you have been to jail or have a criminal record
  This applies to young guys who believe they earned their stripes by going to jail. Those guys who have not used jail as a life changing experience. Those guys who still think they are in jail or have yet to change their ways. It not my job to help you see the light.
• If you have/had a drug problem
  Weed is not an addictive drug but it's also not a productive one, I can make exceptions. Any other illegal controlled substance....my apologies. I have to look out for my health.
• If your flirtation continues after you have a girl or wife
  Yes, it is fully aware that you have some type of game. You wouldn't have a girl if you didn't. Now that you have one, there is no need to continue to flaunt it. That's not gentlemen-like at all, that's just greedy.
• If you can't be real or consistent
  If you can't tell by now, I'm pretty blunt and straight forward. I am who I am (Mood swings don't count lol), it's not fair that I have to guess who you will be on Tuesday. If you don't want to do something, say so. Speak your mind because I will. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
  • If rapping is your aim to fame
    Rapping is no longer a commendable talent, its lost all its substance to the mainstream and corporate america. I'm sure NASA is in the process of training monkeys to rap now. Try going against the crowd and stand out by getting a Bachelor of Arts degree in Music. If music is your life, become certified and create some type of stability in it and then take a risk. Find a way to stand out. Everybody feels they are the "dopest" rapper around, be the smartest.
  • If you play games with people's emotions
    
    Are you really making me explain this one? Ok... if you feel that you want to pursue me just to see if you can actually get me, that's a lot of wasted time and it's very hurtful. Karma's a b_tch and she comes when you least expect her.
  • If you have no type of higher education experience
    ANY schooling after high school counts. Tech school, trade school, community college, something that shows you worked hard for something that you wanted. It's more than being educated, it shows determination and dedication which are great personal traits to have.
  • If you do not have a cell phone or any other current means of communication.
    It is 2008! they have GO phones, prepaid, pay as you go, CriKet..no credit checks. I like to text and call the person I'm interested in. I like to receive them also, one text can change my entire mood and brighten my world from that one person. How the hell can that be you if you dont have a phone? Communication is the key :)

  Brief Intermission........

  

  ......now back to your regularly scheduled program lmao

  • If you do not have a job
    It's not about money, I'm doing fine without your money now and I hate being in debt to someone, I wasnt raised that way. It's about stability, integrity, KEEPING a job shows you are responsible and reliable. Reliability is a PLUS.
  • If you don't see marriage in your future.
    I refuse to be ANYONE'S 12 year girlfriend. Titles mean a lot in this world, if they didnt we'd all be doctors.
  • If you can't see yourself wanting to spend time with me as much as I may want to spend time with you
    When I like you, I want to spend time with you. I'm happy to be around you. You are wanted in my life. Never are you an interruption or a distraction. I would rather be with you than anywhere else. Mostly the older men understand this...a place to call home, someone is looking forward to seeing you. The young guys can't sit still long enough to appreciate it, they have to be out in the streets or clubs because they feel they are missing something. Have fun with that.
  • If you can't seem to match your actions with your words
    "Girl I really do like you"...then why not answer a phone call, return a text or DO something that coincides with that statement? Don't say things you can't back up...your word is your bond.
  • If you have no money management skills
    I am not your personal accountant. I will not be sitting in the house or always paying because you overdrew in your account for some new tennis shoes. Prioritize and BUDGET...even Bill Gates balances a checkbook.
  • If you can not hold an intellectual conversation
    In all honesty, I could care less about the size of your "peter whacker" or telling you my bra size. Being up-to-date on whats happening in the world can help you prepare for how it will effect your life in the future. Plus its nice to hear about other perspectives in the world. Narrow minded people annoy me...I'm not interested in talking to brick walls.
  • If you have hoes in different area codes
    I will not be one of them but I will surely give you tips on how to make a successful business out of it.
  • If you have ever been called a "hoe"
    I've lived life so that my partner or husband wouldnt mention my name and some guy chime in like "OoooOO we used to call her loose walls _______" So why would I want a guy that I have in common with the entire tri-state area?
  • If you're white and only interested in "trying something new"
    Race is not an issue. I love a GOOD man over any man. I have love for all men. But A LOT of white men have sexual fantasies they want to fufill with ethnic women. You are wasting your time here, I'm not itnerested in making a porno with you. Anything with substance..please feel free to message me.
  • if you're old as dirt looking to get your groove back
    My brothers and sisters are all at least 12 years older than myself. I will bring NO ONE home that is their age or older. It is disrespectful and shameful to my family being that I am still seen as the baby and I'm only 21. 50 is TOO OLD for me. My father will murder you and my mom will piece you back together so that you'll be identifiable for the funeral.
  • If your don't have enough time to love yourself..how the hell can you love me ?
    People make time for things they WANT to do. Sometimes excuses are excuses no matter which way you spin them.
  • If you don't work on hubby status at all times. Please believe I work on wifey status and refuse to give someone all my efforts who doesn't deserve it
    I go hard or go home in EVERYTHING that I do. I love hard, I love deep, I love unconditional. If I see that you are worth working with, I will meet you as long as you are there to meet me in the middle.

.................... I just want to have fun and be happy...if you can't do that, please don't waste either of our time. Wonder woman needs a Superman...nothing less. If you think these are high standards the maybe you should up your game. You can't play little league in Yankee Stadium. If you want quality, you have to bring quality. I am not dishing out demands, I've worked hard to be who I am and I'm currently working hard to get to where I want to be...why shouldn't you?

If you are over 20

• PLEASE have some direction in your life besides, "hustlin" and rappin
  
• Refrain from mind frames such as women are trash", "I get sex all day everyday"..and you probably have the test results to prove it ;
  
• know your current events and be able to hold an in-depth conversation. For the sake of all that is humane.......learn to LISTEN and RECALL information.
  ..carry on then shall we?
  
  

Name:
Michelle
Age:
24 3/16/87
Location:
Columbia for school. St. Louis during breaks and random weekend visits
Height:
5`3"
Race:
Black, Dominican & Native American
Likes:
Meaningful music, poetry, movies, PS3!!! (Yes, I rock the controller),
dancing, writing, drawing, web design, french, art period,
listening to people, caring about someone
Dislikes:
ALLERGIC to Seafood, DISLIKE crowded places, loud people, SMOKERS
ignorant people, annoying people, dishonest people,
people who waste my time with nonsense,
I CAN NOT STAND unreliable people
If you say you`re going to do something..do it
don`t BS me,
people who don`t speak their minds but expect you to be Mrs. Cleo...
hm I don`t think I like people too much lol j/k
**It irritates the hell out of me
when someone I amNOT involved with
calls me baby, boo or any other object of affection,
that`s not your area.
C/O:
2009
School:
Graduate: Webster University, Masters of Arts in Counseling with an emphasis on Marity and Family Therapy

Undergradute: University of Missouri-Columbia aka Mizzou Student. I double majored in Psycholoy and Sociology. I am bilingual, I speak French. I took part in minority recruitment for the campus along with making sure I stayed on the Dean's List. I have never smoked or done any other recreational drug, I like to party but..."People don't dance no mo'"-Goodie Mob.....Hazelwood Central Alumni 2005......same colors larger school





 

My Personality:
According to a surprisingly very accurate test, I display a Melancholy type personality.
Characteristics such as:

The Melancholy`s Emotions

* Deep and thoughtfully
* Analytical
* Serious and purposeful
* Genius prone
* Talented and creative
* Artistic or musical
* Philosophical and poetic
* appreciative of beauty
* Sensitive to others
* Self-sacrificing
* Conscientious
* Idealistic

The Melancholy At Work

* Schedule oriented
* Perfectionist, high standards
* Detail conscious
* Persistent and thorough
* Orderly and organized
* Neat and tidy
* Economical
* Sees the problems
* Finds creative solutions
* Needs to finish what he starts
* Likes charts, graphs, figures, lists

The Melancholy As a Friend

* Makes friends cautiously
* Content to stay in background
* Avoids causing attention
* Faithful and devoted
* Will listen to complaints
* Can solve other`s problems
* Deep concern for other people
* Moved to tears with compassion
* Seeks ideal mate

To take this test yourself visit Personality/Temperament Test

Did I mention I speak french?
J`ai parle en francais pour huit ans. Je ne mueiller pas mais Je suis pas mal.

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