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What does it take?
What does it takes to have that relationship that you dream about? What do you need to do to get all your hopes and desires in a partner? When we continue to pick the wrong partner does that say something is wrong with us? I mean in the bible it says that a man that finds a woman finds a good thing, but what happens when that woman is not a good thing for that man, when she is not a blessing to him? What do you do? Who fault is it? Does God make mistakes? I know that at times it feels like god makes mistakes. Everyone knows that all things work together for your good. The good and the bad all are for your good. So that means that sometimes-bad things will happen. But if you look at the bad thing that happens, it s something that you need to learn from. And if you didn't have that bad thing happen you would be in worse shape then if it had not happen. Plus we always look for the good things and get mad when they don t happen often enough. But you have to stop and think... if only bad things are happening to us then what it is that we are doing that we need to stop and what should we be learning from the bad things that are happening to us? Like your mother or grand mother has told you at sometime in life, all things happen for a reason! and all things good and bad happen in a time of season. If it s your season for a blessing then you will be blessed, if it s your season for a storm or drama then drama will rain on you for a season to get your mind ready for the blessing. So I say to you take your bad days and your good days and hold on to them and learn from them. Because if you don t you will repeat the bad days until you get them right. Peace and Love...  How Do you Mend a broken Heart This is one of the most over looked questions on the face of the earth. We all assume that we already know how to do this but do we really? It s like patterns we tend to jump into something else to forget about the problem at hand, but all we do is make the problem worse, and mostly for the person that s coming in fresh and don t know the history of the problem. Men as well as women have this problem. The main reason that most people can t heal or mend their heart is because of fear! We are afraid to be alone. And its the fear that leads up to do things that get us into trouble, May it be like hooking up with the wrong man or woman just to keep from being alone, or staying with the wrong man or woman to keep from being alone. In any case the fear factor is still in place. Some of you may not want to hear this but the only way to mend your heart is though God! If you give you situation to him and give him your time your heart will mend much quicker then anyway you can think of by yourself. Besides He will never put more on you then you can bear! Don t believe me??? Ok try this test think back to the last time that you had drama in your life I mean some REAL DRAMA!!!! The kind that you thought that you would never live through or get rid of now think about how long ago that was, and how sense then you have had things to come up that were far more worse then that Big drama but you made it though. That s because He will never put more on you then you can bear. And it s in this time of drama that you turn to God and seek his face, the first thing you must do is here s the toughest of them all FORGIVE the person that has done you wrong! I m not saying forget but for give them for the sinandpain that they have cause you. And only then God can begin to work on your heart. Then you need to pray for that person I don t mean pray that something evil happen to them likethey step in front of a car or something, even though that is what you were thinking! I know I ve been there! (You pray the evil prayer!) shame on you! Ok well you Forgive and pray for the person that has done you wrong, and then God can begin to work on your heart then ladies and men spend some time by your self! Like a long time, give yourself six months to a year of time to kill that old baggage. You don t want to be frying fresh brothers and sisters in stale grease? This is a word of advice for women all over the planet please Listen to break free from an old love follow this plan. Did you know that when you were with that man from the start his Spirit had entered your soul? That s why you felt so close to him. And when he left you felt so empty? It was because you lost the connection. When you have sex with a man you exchange a part of your souls. A condom can t shield you from this either. The time you spend alone renews your spirit and makes you whole again. So spend some time with yourself, ladies don t go out looking for a man because that s what happens when you got caught up the last time, let him find you. In the bible it says the man that finds a wife finds a good thing! And my brothers and sisters ask God to set your mind right so you can see the right person that is seeking you. My brothers before you go looking for a sista or wife pray for what you want believe it or not it works! If you pray for her, and ladies you can do this as well if you pray for what you want and wait on God to make a move in your life, and you will get it! If not you get what ever is out there. So to sum it up FORGIVE THE PERSON THAT HURT YOU (I know this is the most important part how can you love someone new when you can t forgive the person that hurt you. All of that pain will hunt you in the new relationship) PRAY FOR THE PERSON THAT HURT YOU (best way to get back at someone is to pray to God that he softens their heart. Think about it ) SEEKGOD (for without God it is like walking in a room full of sharp knives in the dark, it will get hurt over and over again.) SPEND TIME BY YOUR SELF (So that God can heal your heart and renew your spirit, so you can love again) MAKE A LIST FOR THE TYPE OF PERSON YOU WANT AND NEED IN YOUR LIFE (BE DIRECT, DON T LEAVE ANYTHING OUT, this could be the difference between Mr. Or Mrs. Right, and Close but no cigar!) AND PRAY AND ASK GOD TO BRING THAT PERSON INTO YOUR LIFE THEN WAIT ON GOD HE WILL NEVER FAIL YOU Keep your eyes and heart open Nothing in life is worth having if there is at least a little struggle in it. The main goal should be is to keep your faith as strong if not stronger then your Struggle. And to get that you have to look within and seek God s help, I m still struggling with that one myself. The Question is...? What do I want? And what do I need? You see a lot of times what we want isn t what we need. And what we need we don t really want. If you go in your kitchen you will get the idea of where I m going. Open your refrigerator and take out a piece of garlic. Now peal off the skin and eat it. You will notice that it s bitter and it burns your tongue, and that it s just down right nasty. And you don t want it anymore. You may even just spit it out into the trash. But if you have a cold or a sore throat after a few days you will notice that your throat is all better and your cold is almost gone. You see the garlic is an herb that builds up the immune system. And if you had had the garlic you would have gotten sick. You didn t want the garlic, you didn t like the garlic, and you didn t like the taste of the garlic. But you needed the garlic. (Oh y all don t hear me...thought!) Well let me put it like this, You meet this boy and he s so cute, or you meet this girl and she s so fine. And youtwo have been dating for abouta few months now. And everything is all-nice. But your girlfriend or your homey pull you onto the side and say you know something is not right about your girl or your Man! He seems shady.He looks like a dawg! And you say awwwh naw you are seeing things he or she ain t like that. Then you take your wonderful blessing home to meet your mother. And she tells you the exact same thing. And by now you have it in your mind that everybody has it out for your happiness. And they don t know your love one like you do. They don t understand them like you do. They don t see your sunshine like you do. Until that one dark day that you walk in on your Sunshine laying butt naked on the bathroom floor with the girl or guy next door, around the corner, or from the local night club. And right before you faint all you can hear is your mother and your friend telling you what you have not seen until now. And all the while through the ruff of it all. You had who you really needed to be with right by your side the whole while and you never gave it a second thought about the fact that this person is really in love with you and would be a better mate for you then want your wanted. Look into yourself and ask your self what do you need and be honest! (Yeah right!) And then make a list (this sounds like how do you mend a broken heart for those of you that have been with me for a while!) and then take it to God and let him give you insight on what you really need. So the question is what do you really want? And what do you really need? Do you know the answer? Can I show you more? Can I give you what you ve been missing? Not so much in a sexual way, but deeper, To know you is to go deeper, to go pass the how do you do, and that I m so into you, You are so fine, and How can I be down. I takes the you pissed me off but I still love you, the I don t agree with what you said, but let s go get something to eat, give you a hug and smile at you at the same time. That s what I want. That s what I want to show you. The unconditional eternal Love and only comes fromwhen you don t let how good someone is in bed keep you from know the true person. That s what I want to show you. The I don t care what you do, how well you do it, or whom you have been doing it with, I still have deep love for you. But wait... Can I show you more... :) |
