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Welcome To My World!!

If you are a lesbian, bi-sexual, on the DL or anything but a STRAIGHT man, please LEAVE now. I am Strickly Di--ly! I have nothing against you. You do you! You just can`t do me!

Now that we've done the housekeeping----- am single, 35 and looking!!! (LOL) I have a 15 year old son who is the light of my life and my world. NO ONE but GOD comes before him. I am me all day, every day! No games, just straight from the heart. I don`t know any other way to be. If you want my opinion, trust and believe I will tell you the TRUTH and not what you want to hear. I expect the same in return. I think that`s what being a true friend is! I am a very outgoing person. I enjoy going out and partying just like the next person, but spending time with that my man in my life is more important. I do believe in ladies spending time with the girls as well as men spending time with the guys, but there is a limit to it! People tend to overdo and take things for granted sometimes. I am a romantic at heart. I beleive in the fairy tale romance and that my soulmate is out there. Of course, no relationship is perfect, but we can come damn close!!!!

I love all the mushy stuff: Holding hands, cuddling, walking on the beach or in the park. Most of all.......

I LOVE TO LOVE MY MAN!!!!!!

Pleasing him is the ULTIMATE turn on for me!!! Candlelight dinners, sexy lingerie, bubble baths, the whole nine yards. And YES, I believe that a woman should pamper and take her man out sometimes instead of HIM always taking HER taking her out! What you won't do, someone else will! This is a new day and age, ladies. Let`s get with the program!!! Just in case some of my sistas(of both genders) decided to stay and read this anyway!)

Now enough about me. Let me tell you what I look for in a man....

AN HONEST, RESPECTABLE, DELECTABLE, TRUE MAN OF COLOR!!!

from white chocolate to dark chocolate) Plain and simple. I don't say "good" anymore because most men are "good"... in the beginning that is. But an honest, respectable man will basically be who they were at the start. There will be some changes but with those qualities, the foundation will still be stable. Ok... Enough!!! I won`t talk your heads off, that is if I haven`t already. (LOL)

BTW:All this is not BS. I have been there, done that! Don't care to do it again. The only difference is that I have REALLY learned from the past. I don't regret it, I thank GOD for it!! Because now I will be able to see the one that HE wants for me and not who I WANT! Hit me up if you are intersted!!! I also have Yahoo and MSN messenger. Maybe we can exchange screen names! (smile)

P.S. - I DO NOT RESPOND TO PROFILES WITHOUT PICTURES!!!

(explanation - bad experience and I have no desire to repeat it.) If you don`t have one on your page, then you should least indicate that you have one to send! The same reason you want to see who you are talking to is the same reason I do. And for all of those people who think I am shallow for requesting that pics be on your page... QUIT TRIPPIN' & STOP LYIN' !!!! to me and to yourself. You know you are wrong for even implying that it`s not important! I know we shouldn`t judge a book by it`s cover, but the "cover" has to be appealing enough for you to even pick it up to read!!!! Stop acting like it doesn't matter to you, when you know it does.!!!!

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Male, 37, Henderson, NC

Posted August 21, 2007


Thanks For The Love, Sweetheart.........