Let me start off by saying I dont have any time for men who pretend to be something that they aren't. If you have nothing to bring to the table don't step to me trying to tell me how to do me. I have been doing me for the last 18 years of my life. Only men who have a sense of purpose please. I have no time for games. Please read so you will know that I am not here to be changed except me as I am . Hello everybody this is realhottie_029 straight reppin from the DaBurgh. I just want to give you insight about me. I am intellegent, funny, honest, loyal, down to earth, I always keep it real, and if you can't handle the truth stay away because I will give it to you. Here's something to let all yall know how I view relationships.... I love as well as write poetry. A famous person once said ... THE PERSON WHO SEEKS TO CHANGE ANOTHER IN A RELATIONSHIP BASCALLY SETS THE STAGE FOR A GREAT DEAL OF CONFLICT. VERY OFTEN WE GO INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH IDEAS THAT WE CAN MAKE SOMBODY BETTER, WE SEE THEIR FLAWS OR SHORT COMINGS AND TAKE IT UPON OURSELVES TO FIX WHAT IS WRONG OUR TASK IN THE RELATIONSHIP IS NOT TO FIX ONE ANOTHER BUT TO LOVE WHAT WE SEE AND SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER IN DOING BETTER FIXING IS TELLIING WHAT IS WRONG, WHY AND HOW TO FIX IT SUPPORTING IS ALLOWING US TO MAKE OUR OWN CHOICES BEING THERE IF THINGS GO WRONG AND SUPPORTING US IN DOING BETTER NEXT TIME. FIXING IS FORCING US TO DO IT THEIR WAY WHEN OUR WAY DOESN'T WORK SUPPORTING IS SHARING WITH US THEIR NEEDS AND TRUSTING WE WILL TAKE THEM INTO ACCOUNT FIXING IS NAGGING, SUPPORTING IS NURTURING FIXING IS ANGER WHEN THINGS GET ROUGH SUPPORTING IS KNOWING THINGS WILL GET BETTER SUPPORTING IS SEEING US EXACTLY AS WE ARE FIXING IS SEEKING IN THEM WHAT WE REFUSE TO SEE IN OURSELVES I LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU EXACTLY AS YOU ARE YOU LIVE LIFE AND GROW TO AN UNDERSTANDING OF WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON I HAVE LEARNED TO EXCEPT ME JUST WHO I AM HOPEFULLY SOME OF YOU WILL DO THE SAME div style="text-align: center; margin-left: auto; visibility:visible; margin-right: auto; width:450;">
