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NY born and raised (I'll always be a yankee/northerner!); reformed "badgirl" if you will.....leaving NY was do or die...literally. To my surprise North Carolina became a place to call "home" the past 10 years, and recently another unconventional "leap of faith" took me to the "windy city" and now back to the east coast again for the final chapter/showdown.
I'm a Jesus only; and I'm so glad! The "prodigal daughter" in me is the purest, truest, rawest battle between my flesh and spirit. If I am to see Jesus in peace, then this "war", my soul must win! I've survived this life thus far by His Grace and Mercy that covers me again and again....My page reflects these 2 truths about me.
Here's a little of my wisdom among the living.....

BEFORE NO MAN WILL I EVER BE ASHAMED OF WHO I AM OR WHAT I LOOK LIKE....FOUGHT TOO DAYUM HARD TO BE AND STAY AMONG THE LIVING

THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS EXIST IN ME... the bougie cultured princess and the educated street thug..."There is a time and place for everything."

You will "answer" for the life you live, because living this life demands it.

Keep changing your perception of what's real....real change happens everyday.

No one needs to "enlighten" me on whatz wrong with me, because "Veronica" already knows whatz wrong with "her"....and "she's" working on it everyday!.....lol. DON'T JUDGE OR COME AT ME WRONG; THAT WAY YOU WON'T GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT. THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

I'VE SURVIVED ALOT OF DARK S*** IN MY LIFE; BUT TODAY I'M LIVING LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW...."SURVIVING AND LIVING" ARE TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS; KNOW THIS!....IN RETROSPECT I'M "DYING"; TO LIVE AGAIN!

"MUSIC CALMS THE SAVAGE BEAST!"....Therefore, I can't function without it!...LOL.

Have your reality checked at the door, and you'll less likely be disappointed.

"HOOKED ON PHONICS" DID NOT WORK FOR EVERYONE! ...LOL!

It is grossly unrealistic, in my opinion, for adult mature men/women to request/require each other to be "drama free"; if you've lived this life, then you've had "dramatic" experiences and will continue to have them throughout life; the reality is for men/women to be accountable and in control of their dramatic issues so that they don't blindside, spill over, expose, and or plunge other persons into ridiculous negativity without warning, because of one's childish and serious inability to be open and honest from the beginning....simply put, GROW THE HELL UP PEOPLE!...Don't "adopt" language trends that have no REALISTIC defining basis....it's just "something else" to say.

"Love" and "being in love" are two very different emotions....I can love you and have to leave you alone; but I must like you, without exceptions (GOOD and BAD), in order to be in love with you.

You are born male/female by chance......it's your life choices that defines and or makes you a man/woman.

I challenge all men and women to become matured beyond society standards of beauty......and believe that you're beautiful just the way you are!....If you honestly don't believe that you are, then do SOMETHING to change, see where/what you get, and STOP THE CRYING MADNESS ABOUT IT!...LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU EVEN DELUDE YOURSELF INTO THINKING YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE ELSE 1ST!

"My people suffer for the lack of knowledge.".......Without real, reliable, and confirmed information you cannot make an informed decision!

Let go of IGNORANCE: "The absence of not knowing"; by your own choice, misconceptions about all BBW's being unhealthy *(roni, thatz me, has no history of or heart problems, high blood pressure, and or diabetes.... Thank You Jesus!); You won't see me run a flight of stairs (LOL!), but my living is way too active to be stereotyped.

*Please Note: I understand that all men will not be attracted to a BBW like me; but FYI: I'm not going to be attracted to EVERY MAN out there either! (Smile).....So relax people it's not that serious! (LOL).

Know what you like and want; and have no regrets about it! .....and DON'T WASTE PRECIOUS TIME, ESPECIALLY MY TIME, with confusion, doubt, and procrastination!

There's a big difference between SECRETS and DISCRETION!.....KNOW WHAT IT IS BEFORE YOU GET REVEALED AND OR FOUND OUT!...ALWAYS BE READY TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES WHEN YOU DO!

Female friendships are becoming extinct due to the relentless poison of petty, catty, and jealous behavior among the species!

THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT LOVE JUST DON'T DO!....KNOW WHAT THEY ARE BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND TELL A LIE LIKE......"LOVE HURTS!" ABSOLUTELY NOT!.....YOU HURT!

Never underestimate me; I'm a real doll, but DO NOT PLAY WITH ME!

So people, IF YOU THINK YOU CAN ROCK WITH ME, then get in touch....you know how...the BP way! smile.

I WRITE ALOT.......SO HERE'S SOME OF MY PUBLISHED/COPYRIGHTED WORK.......

ALIVE

There are so many days I felt shouldn't have been,
But how do I know that it was then, that I was preserved for the better days coming?
I now know, that some of those days needed to be, so that LIFE today would include ME.


RECOVERY

Do we really see the thieves that steal our precious things?
Do we know the kidnappers that hold our hearts and minds for ransom?
Do we dare enter the dark places where we know they're being held hostage by our own fears?

Sometimes in loss there will be no recovery, and sometimes sacrifice is necessary
when we understand the cost; and the courage to go, to take back what we can,
means that for me, GOD was holding my hand.


THE WORD OF GOD, as it personally relates to ME.......Paul wrote, "For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I. Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me. For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not. For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do. O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death? I Thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord." Romans 7: 15, 17-19, 24-25 KJV.

"VERONICA" means VICTORIOUS!....."And the Lord, He it is that doth go before thee; He will be with thee, He will not fail thee, neither forsake thee; FEAR NOT, neither be dismayed." Deuteronomy 31:8 KJV.

Be Blessed And Highly Favored BELIEVERS......Even The Angels Envy Us!

BE OF GOOD COURAGE PEOPLE!....ALWAYS!