First off, I'd like to apologize for the spam mails that were sent from my account on or around 15 November. If you were a recipient, please know that my account had been hacked and that I did not personally or intentionally send any spam. Again, my apologies. Now back to business.
What up BP? A bit about myself. I am from Augusta, GA originally. I am not about playing games. I think of myself to be modest. I am a chill guy, laid back and hard to make mad. Been around the world compliments to the Army. Been there and seen it. I feel that I am privelleged to have been to the places that I have been and to have met the people that I have met. I've had seen my share of the good, bad, beautiful, ugly and of course the crazy. I have actually seen too much crazy. People, if you are crazy, do us both a favor and don't write. There is too much drama to have to deal with the unnecessary crap. I feel I am too grown to do all the clubbing, drinking and smoking. I do have my fun though. In life, I have learned to live a little and laugh a lot. Joking around and having fun is what I do, but I know when it's time for business. Anyone I chill with has to have a head on their shoulders. I am not looking to hang out with the Einsteins of the world, but there has to be some brain in that skull of yours. I love seeing jazzy women that keep themselves up. You don't have to make six figures. That's not what I am about. But you do have to have a job, even better, a career. If no career, then you should be at least hitting the books and getting that degree to make that next move. I can't mess with ya if you are not trying to better yourself. I am very compassionate. I love being in the company of women that can hold a decent conversation and that are about making moves. I truly believe that a relationship that is built on friendship will outlast any that was forged in seks.
For my ladies out there. Know what you want. Be about your business. I don't have time to cake, trick on, support, or whatever you are calling it! I am good to my number one and only when I do have one. But I am not gonna make it rain, drizzle, thunder storm, hurricane or monsoon on any chick that winks her eye at me. If that's what ya looking for the keep searching until you find that dude... Just know that dude AINT me. I don't answer IMs without at least knowing a little bit about you. I also will not respond to messages without a picture. There is a picture on my profile. Have the decency to do the same. If you don't have one then you can keep it moving on to the next page. But please don't waste our time; yours and mine.
PAY ATTENTION...For the dudes... I am NOT GAY! Don't leave me messages trying to Holla! That's that BS. I am not even remotely interested in entertaining the idea of possibly being homosexual , bisexual or curious. I love women too much for that. PERIOD!
That being said, if you are on the same level then don't be shy. Check me out and drop a note.
After awhile you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company, and it doesn't mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises, and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult not the grief of a child, and you learn to build all your roads on today, because you never know what will happen tomorrow. After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. And you learn to plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring your flowers. And you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong, and you really do have worth. Author Unknown
'Random Thoughts' posted 16 Feb 2008 4:23 a.m.
Have you ever loved someone and just go unrecognized?
Have you ever showed them you care and they not realize?
I have and damn it hurts.
What do you do when you need to be seen?
Do you tell them you love them or say something mean?
Please tell me what works.
My faith stays strong but my patience grows low.
Maybe one day she'll know she's the one.
First chapters of love, pages turning so slow.
I hope this book don't end the way it begun.
Could you ever choose to lose and never to love?
Could you ever give up on the one you think of?
No way that I ever could.
Would you shoot for the stars and risk heartache and pain?
And if you fell short would you do it again?
I most certainly would.
My heart leads me past where my logic says stop!
Cause true love outweighs silver and gold.
Maybe one day I'll end up on top.
How will these last chapters unfold?
'Too Late' posted 10 Mar 2008 3:23 p.m.
You try to wait for that perfect time,
When the stars align with the moon
There's one thing for sure you'll never know
When too late will come too soon
When you know what you want, and you feel what you need
You need not wait til tomorrow
Because that joy that you held and those moments you felt
Could soon be replaced with sorrow
Let your friends know you care, Tell you're sibling you're sorry
And show your mother to love her
Do it this day 'cause time's wasting away.
And there may not be another.
When you once had a chance to make something right
But didn't cause you were upset
Could easily make something that simple
Become your biggest regret
R.I.P. J-Wash... You will be missed
'Black Woman, I am here' posted 10 Mar 2008 5:32 p.m.
Black Woman don't fear, I know you thought that I was gone
But Black Woman, I'm here and I've been here all along
Underestimated by you and at times looked over
But I been behind you, keeping weight off your shoulders
I stayed out of sight so long so you wouldn't share my pains
But I've hurdled on trial after trial, what you see is what remains
The knight in shining armor you prayed for. Standing tall, being stronger
But with the blood and sweat and tears I've shed my armor shines no longer
I've scouted out the horizons while keeping you within my sight
I've beat down that beaten path, so that your load would be light
I hurt and cringed as I saw your strife, singly raising our little ones
But now Black Woman my journey ends and the work is nearly done
I can now rest easy with the world beneath me and you by my side
Black Woman I am here, No more pain, No more tears to be cried
4 of Life's Lessons
Lesson Number One
A crow was sitting on a tree, doing nothing all day. A small rabbit saw the crow, and asked him, "Can I also sit like you and do nothing all day long?" The crow answered: "Sure, why not." So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the crow, and rested. All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on the rabbit and ate it.
To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up.
Lesson Number Two
A turkey was chatting with a bull. "I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree," sighed the turkey, "but I haven't got the energy. "Well, why don't you nibble on some of my droppings?" replied the bull. "They're packed with nutrients." The turkey pecked at a lump of dung and found that it actually gave him enough strength to reach the first branch of the tree. The next day, after eating some more dung, he reached the second branch. Finally after a fortnight, there he was proudly perched at the top of the tree. Soon he was promptly spotted by a farmer, who shot the turkey out of the tree.
Bullcrap might get you to the top, but it won't keep you there.
Lesson Number Three
When the body was first made, all the parts wanted to be Boss. The brain said, "I should be Boss because I control the whole body's responses and functions." The feet said, "We should be Boss as we carry the brain about and get him to where he wants to go." The hands said, "We should be the Boss because we do all the work and earn all the money." And so it went on and on with the heart, the lungs and the eyes until finally the anus spoke up. All the parts laughed at the idea of the anus being the Boss. So the anus went on strike, blocked itself up and refused to work. Within a short time the eyes became crossed, the hands clenched, the feet twitched, the heart and lungs began to panic and the brain fevered. Eventually they all decided that the anus should be the Boss, so the motion was passed. All the other parts did all the work while the Boss just sat and passed out the crap!!
Life's Lesson:You don't need brains to be Boss, any @$$hole will do!
Lesson Number Four (my favorite)
A little bird was flying south for the winter. It was so cold, the bird froze and fell to the ground in a large field. While it was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on it. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, it began to realize how warm it was. The dung was actually thawing him out! He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy. A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate. Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him!
1. Not everyone who drops crap on you is your enemy.
2. Not everyone who gets you out of crap is your friend.
3. When you're in deep crap keep your mouth shut!