SHONA We cannot become what we want to be by remaining what we are........... "Every time you take a risk or move out of your comfort zone you have a great opportunity to learn more about yourself and your capacity." - September 24, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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  • Here For:

    Friends, Casual Dating, Networking, Serious Dating

  • Member Since:

    November 25, 1999

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Age:

    43

  • Last Login:

    September 24, 2011

  • Location:

    Boston, MA

  • Race:

    Black/African American, Native American

  • Zodiac:

    Taurus


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Hello all!

Here is a little about me. I am a single woman who knows peace....

A woman who loves herself...

A woman who gives and receives with humility and grace.

I am a woman who supports her man..

A woman who fights for her family...

A woman who improves the lives of the people in her circle..

A woman who knows sacrifice.

A woman who laughs and spreads laughter.

A woman who expects the same from her man!

 

 

You Have A Type B+ Personality
You're a pro at going with the flow
You love to kick back and take in everything life has to offer
A total joy to be around, people crave your stability.

While you're totally laid back, you can have bouts of hyperactivity.
Get into a project you love, and you won't stop until it's done
You're passionate - just selective about your passions
 

AFFIRMATION FOR SINGLES

Yes, I am an attractive woman of intelligence and experience. I am complete whether I am married or single. I love myself and more importantly, I love the Lord.

He told me that when I delight in Him, He would give me the desires of my heart. Just because you don't see me with a mate or a date, doesn't mean that I must be attracted to my same gender. I'm learning to love, appreciate and understand myself before I allow someone else in my life to appreciate the sugar I'm storing on the top shelf. I'm complete, whole and enough whether in a relationship or not. My worth is not determined by whether I am married, divorced, single or engaged. My heavenly Father told me I'm above a diamond's worth and a gem doesn't seek....a gem is sought and cherished. WOO WOO WOO :)

As a woman, I know it's not my role to chase after or change a man. Esther 2:1-4 states that I am to wait on my King. Since I'm learning how to cherish, value, love and honor myself, I am enjoying my life and thankful that in God's timing I will attract my divine right mate.

I am willing to heal,grow and let go of any fear or low self-esteem. I thank God for giving me the patience,discipline,and self-worth to discern what and who is best suited for my time,lifestyle,standards,heart ,body and soul. He will know that making love to me requires caressing my mind before caressing my body. I'm thankful for the mind and daily activities that keep me strong,active and centered in peace and satisfaction vs. restlessness.

I have spiritual gifts and goals to pursue. I am learning self-control to avoid the weakness of the flesh or the pressures of others and not lower my worth or values.

My divine right mate could show up in the most unexpected place or time. I will stop missing events, activities and experiences in my life just because I am single. I am taking my life's happiness out of layaway. What I am seeking, is also seeking me. So I keep myself healthy,loving,active,spiritua lly strong and wise to become an irresistible magnet for all the good that God has in store for my life. My inner wisdom teaches me to focus on the internal vs. the external, the truth vs. denial, my heart and just not just my hormones.

As I read this affirmation daily, I am encouraged, strengthened and empowered to radiate with wholeness,love and self-esteem. I am free of any shame,guilt,anger,grief,depres sion or neediness. I am loved and I am a loving person.

I realize that a great boyfriend is not necessarily the best candidate for a husband. I will give myself permission to enjoy companionship without disrespecting or neglecting my children, my health or my personal goals.

My happiness is not dependent on whether I have a mate or not. My attitude of joy and completeness begins with me and my relationship with the Lord!

Amen!

 

We Must Become the Change We Want to See...

*We condemn an entire generation of children.

*Who we say are rude, inconsiderate, disrespectful and unruly.

*Like children raise themselves and like modeling correct behavior is not OUR duty.

*Your child is a reflection of you.

*All of your victories,

*All of your mistakes,

*All of your love,

*All of your hate.

*You teach your child by your actions,

*How they should react to life, to love, to you.

*You show them by the way that you`ve turned out, The right and wrong thing to do.

*You can`t teach perseverance, if you`ve given yourself excuses to quit.

*You can`t preach patience, if you`re always throwing a fit.

*You can`t require righteous living, if your own life is a mess.

*You can`t expect excellency, if you haven`t done your best.

*You can`t teach tolerance, if there are people who you can`t stand.

*You can`t teach obedience, if you haven`t learned to accept demands.

*You can`t explain how important education is, if they never see you trying to learn.

*You can`t emphasizeteamwork, if you are never willing to take your turn.

*You can`tinstruct them to love, if your actions demonstrate hate.

*How dare you dwell on THEIR inadequacies when it`s you they emulate.

*"Do as I say and not as I do"

*Has ruined our community.

*We must SHOW them how to do it right.

*We must become the change we want to see.







THIS IS BEAUTIFUL BOSTON!



LOVE IN THE HOME


If I live in a house of spotless beauty with everything in its place,but have no love, I am a housekeeper--not a homemaker.
If I have time for waxing, polishing, and decorative achievements, but have not love, my children learn cleanliness--not godliness.
Love leaves the dust in search of a child`s laugh.
Love smiles at the tiny finger prints on a newly cleaned window.
Love wipes away the tears before it wipes up the spilled milk.
Love picks up the child before it picks up the toys.
Love is present through the trials.
Love reprimands, reproves, and is responsive.
Love crawls with the baby, walks with the toddler, runs with the child, then stands aside to let the youth walk into adulthood.
Love is the key that opens salvation`s message to a child`s heart.
Before I became a mother I took glory in my house of perfection.
Now I glory in God`s perfection of my child.
As a mother, there is much I must teach my child, but the greatest of all is love.



 
 


 
 
 
 
BLUE






You give your love and friendship unconditionaly. You enjoy long, thoughful conversations rich in philosophy and spirituality. You are very loyal and intuitive.



 





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BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART


BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART THAT SOMETHING WONDERFUL IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN.
*LOVE YOUR LIFE.
BELIEVE IN YOUR OWN POWER, AND IN YOUR OWN POTENTIAL, AND YOUR OWN INNATE GOODNESS.
*WAKE EVERY MORNING WITH THE AWE OF JUST BEING ALIVE.
DISCOVER EACH DAY THE MAGNIFICENT BEAUTY IN THE WORLD.
*EXPLORE AND EMBRACE LIFE IN YOURSELF AND IN EVERYONE YOU SEE EACH DAY.
REACH WITHIN TO FIND YOUR OWN SPECIALNESS.
AMAZE YOURSELF AND ROUSE THOSE AROUND YOU TO THE POTENTIAL OF EACH NEW DAY.
DON`T BE AFRAID TO ADMIT YOUR LESS THAN PERFECT; THIS IS THE ESSENCE OF OUR HUMANITY.
LET THOSE WHO LOVE YOU HELP YOU.
TRUST ENOUGH TO BE ABLE TO TAKE.
LOOK WITH HOPE TO THE HORIZON OF TODAY FOR TODAY IS ALL WE TRULYHAVE!
*LIVE THIS DAY WELL!
LET A LITTLE SUN OUT AS WELL AS IN.
*CREATE YOUR OWN RAINBOWS.
BE OPEN TO ALL YOUR POSSIBILITIES, ALL POSSIBILITIES AND MIRACLES.
ALWAYS BELIEVE IN MIRACLES.
BUT MOST OF ALL...
ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART!





REMEMBER--YOU ARE LOVED

THIS IS JUST A LITTLE NOTE TO BRIGHTEN UP YOUR WAY,
TO REMIND YOU THAT YOU`RE TRULY LOVED EACH MINUTE OF THE DAY.
THIS IS MY PRAYER FOR YOU TODAY THAT GOD`S LOVE YOU`LL CLEARLY SEE;
AND MAY HE MULTIPLY BACK, TO YOU ALL THE JOY YOU`VE GIVEN ME (BP).


GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!


 





WOULD THE REAL MAN PLEASE STAND UP!


You claim you`re the real man whoI`ve been searching for,

But your broken heart fromthe past prevents you from giving anymore.

You don`t understand that it takes alot for me to tell you how I feel inside,

But when I doallI find is that you`re not ready, and then you take your love and hide.

Still carrying around that old baggage of the past,

Or simply trying to find an excuse for why it may not last.

What else could you want? I`m all that you`ve prayed for,

You claimed that you`re the one for me, and that`s what I stayed for.

Now you`re not keeping it real, very good at talking the talk,

But you get two left feet when it comes to walking the WALK.

Now I have to figure out if what you say is true,

Asking myself why you say, but you won`tdo.

All the things it takes to keep a real woman satisfied,

I know I`m more than willing to do my part and many times I`ve tried.

And many times I`ve wanted to call itquits, stop and just throw my hands up,

But before I doI`ll ask one more time---WOULD THE REAL MAN PLEASE STAND UP!

I`ve heard your cries to heaven for a woman who`s love is good,

And believe me..I got there as fast as I could.

But it`s seems you`re not ready for all it will take,

Afraid that in your choice you`ll make another mistake.

But it`s not me you fear, your fear is within you,

Because the moment you realize that all Ihave to give inside is true.

You`ll have no excuse not to open your heart and let me in it,

So you hold back as long as you can right down to the last minute.

Until you finally find a reason to give up, and walk away,

Thinking another real woman will come along someday.

But before I go let me make one thing clear now,

I can`t help my timing but a REAL WOMAN is here now.

But you can`t see that in me, because you`re so afraid you`ll have to do your part.

You wantto be LOVED without giving your heart.

Sorry it doesn`t work that wayso don`t just sit there with your hand up.

I need to know who`s ready for a REAL WOMAN....

WOULD THE REAL MAN PLEASE STAND UP!



I`m not giving my Black Back!

I`m not giving up my greens or my grits
or saying "girl" and putting my hands on my hips.
You see...

Life for me ain`t been no crystal stair and I`m not giving up Rosa Parks,
Fannie Lou Hamner, Mary McCleod Bethune, Sojourner Truth,
Madame C.J. Walker, Toni Morrison or Dr.Maya Angelou,
`cause you see, I am a phenomenal woman and
I`m not giving my Black back.

I`m not giving up my crown, waves, braids, curls, locks,
kinks, scarves or Muslim garb. I`m not giving up sitting in Ma`s kitchen
eating peach cobbler or sweet potato pie and hearing her ask me,
"How you doing baby?"
I`m not giving up going to "You Buy, We Fry" on Fridays,
or bar-b-ques on
Saturdays playing bid wist and slammin` those dominoes.
I`m not giving back Harriet Tubman`s train, Soul Train,
Coltrane or the midnight train to Georgia. :)
Did you let the Devil Leave his Bags?
YOU PUT THE DEVIL OUT, BUT DID YOU LET HIM LEAVE HIS BAGS?
You got out of a bad relationship because it was bad, But you are still resentful and angry. (you let the devil leave his bags)
You got out of financial debt, but you still can't control your desire to spend on frivolous things. (you let the devil leave his bags)
You got out of a bad habit or addiction, but you still long to try it just one more time.
(you let the devil leave his bags)
You said, I forgive you, but you can't seem to forget and have peace with that person.
(you let the devil leave his bags)
You told your unequally yoked mate that it was over, but you keep giving in and trying to work it out with them.
(you let the devil leave his bags)
You got out of that horribly oppressive job, but you are still trying to sabotage the company after you've left (you let the devil leave his bags)
You cut off the affair with that married man/woman, but you still lust after and daydream about them (you let the devil leave his bags)
You broke off your relationship with that hurtful, abusive person, but you are suspicious and distrusting of every new person you meet (you let the devil leave his bags)
You decided to let go of the past hurts from growing up in an unstable environment, yet you believe you are unworthy of love from others and you refuse to get attached to anyone.
(you let the devil leave his bags)
When you put the devil out, please make sure he takes his bags!
HAPPINESS KEEPS YOU SWEET
TRIALS KEEP YOU STRONG
AND SORROWS KEEP YOU HUMAN
FAILURES KEEP YOU HUMBLE
SUCCESS KEEPS YOU GLOWING
BUT ONLY GOD KEEPS YOU GOING!
IN 2011, Let the devil take his bags with him!
Be Blessed, Healthy and Happy

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justforladies
justforl...

Female, Age Private, Atlanta, GA

Posted May 10, 2010







Have a fabulous birthday, SHONA!









SIAM165
SIAM165

Male, Age Private, Indianapolis, IN

Posted October 15, 2009


My dear wonderful friend and beautiful Queen,
please go to:

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i hope that you enjoy it...

My joy YOU!
SIAM
http://www.rainofgrace.com


justforladies
justforl...

Female, Age Private, Atlanta, GA

Posted May 07, 2009


Have a fabulous birthday, SHONA ! :o)







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djdorman

Female, 45, Hollywood, FL

Posted September 27, 2008


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msbosslady

Female, Age Private, Unknown

Posted August 07, 2008


Hey Ms. Shona
you've been on here along time. you still looking good sistah take care and god bless


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Posted May 31, 2008


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