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    SONIC_456

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  • Member Since:

    May 24, 2002

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Age:

    28

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Last Login:

    May 21

  • Education:

    Bachelor's Degree

  • Primary Job:

    Computers, Software

  • Location:

    Hyattsville, MD

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Sagittarius


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I read this today on topix about why Successful Black men don't want to date Black Women.

Hey fellas, I got an honest question for you and specifically, I mean my brothas who are successful in life being in money, education, or whatever since you understand where I am coming from on this....... First of all, I must admit that a lot of you are better men than me to be able to forgive this bull%#&@$! from our so called own people. It is just that our people know more than any one else that... (continue reading)

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Wassup bp for those of you out there who know me or think you know me things are about to change. Bp I'm tired of seeing our beautiful, intelligent black women get messed over by some nigga. yea I said it nigga meaning broke down, no goal having, disrespectful, uneducated, unfaithful, ignorant, fool who ain`t got nothing on his mind but sex and who he`s going to get next.


I'm tired of seeing young girls out here pregnant or with children but no father. Then you have the niggas that will holla at them with no intention of being there after that child is born or taking care of that child. I salute you the mothers out there that have to do take care of their child by themselves but they shouldn't have to. I feel as if you felt you were responsible enough to have sex and make that child you should be responsible enough to know that you have to stick around and take care of it.

 

I received a note in response to what i said above that i thought i should share.

 

Date: Sep 4, 1:20 pm

Category: Community
To: SONIC_456

 

Subject: No subject provided


hello...like your message....but on the flip side of that....coming from a woman who's been through that sort of thing...It's time for us women to stand up and make a change....a change within ourselves....99.9% of the time, a man can do no more harm to us than what we allow...it's time for us to stop ignoring all of the signs that are quite visible...stop thinking that the man may change or worst of all we can change him. We have to start taking responsibility for our own lives and start demanding respect, raise our expectations and stop settling for nothing less than what we deserve...If we women as a whole begin practicing these standards...the men will have no choice but to ACT RIGHT.....I'm almost 40 yrs old and trust me it took me to about a year ago to get that concept..I guess that's why for the past 8 or 9 months I've been without a date, etc...because I refuse to settle...a woman if she pays close attention she can tell within a couple mins or less of the conversation if the man is worthy of her time. Please help me inform my sisters...thank you

 

I think this is all something we should take to heart and make a change for the better.

 

For those of you still looking for a good man I understand that they are hard to find just as a good woman is hard to find. You just got to know were to look and not be afraid to make the first move.


Ok enough of that I just had to get that of my chest. Let me tell you a little about myself 5`7, 5`8 a bit muscular. I have B.S. in computer engineering. I like to go to church, go out with my friends, chilling out, and watching anime just relax and have fun. Anything else you want to know about me just ask.

 
 













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Female, 30, Amarillo, TX

Posted November 30, 2007


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Female, 30, Amarillo, TX

Posted November 30, 2007



Miss_Thang-81
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Female, 30, Amarillo, TX

Posted November 30, 2007


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Happy Birthday Sweetie!!!!!