*****R.I.P.WHITNEY HOUSTON ******** I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE HAVE ALOT OF WRITTING ON THEIR PAGE BUT I'M SORRY I HAVE A FEW THINGS I NEED 2 GET OFF MY CHEST
IF YOU DONT PLAN ON BEING MY FRIEND THEN PLS DONT SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST IT IS A FREIND REQUEST NOT A PHOTO ALBUM PLEASE DO NOT SEND A NOTE IF...
***You are under 21...I`m grown have my own place, car, job, you need to at least be where i`m at- ya feel me?
***For all the younger guys that do hit my page if ur mature enough i don't mind talkin but Please RESPECT the fact that I am a GROWN AZZ WOMAN do not come at me with all that foolishness talkin about when we gon fuc, or i'd bang the shyt out of u etc & besides I'd just ruin u 4 other women lol
***You have a pic and look like you just crawled out from under a rock...I don`t even have to explain that one.
***You have explicit pictures on your page...I do not plan on buying it so therefore I do not need to window shop, that`s a mess! I am tired of the men on BP acting as if I have 2 B the Flawless Bytch UC what I look like I took this pic only a month ago its ALL GOOD HERE worry more about ur self keeping it real & looking good
****Some of you brothers {NOT ALL OF YOU} seem 2 think ur GODS GIFT 2 Women let me tell ya something "Dicks come a dime a dozen & Good Dick cost a quarter I make my bizness 2 keep at least $2.00 in my pocket at all times It's 2009 so tighten up!
*A Soulful Relationship*
By Reverend Ronald McFadden
If you're not married yet, share this with a friend.
If you are married, share it with your spouse or other married
couples... and reflect on it.
An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open,
and after you marry, close one eye."
Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust,
desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low
self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and
don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as
faults aren't really important. Once you decide to commit to someone,
over time their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will
become more obvious. If you love your mate and want the relationship to
grow and evolve, you've got to learn to close one eye and not let every
little thing bother you. You and your mate have many different
expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and
strengths. You are two unique individuals who have decided to share a
life together. Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each
other? Do you bring out the best of each other? Do you compliment and
compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare, and control? What
do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past
hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter him or her. You can't make
someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self-esteem,
spiritual discernment, and "a life", you won't find yourself making
someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.
Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the
ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting
relationship. Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong
reasons to be in a relationship.
What keeps a relationship strong?
Communication, intimacy, trust, a sense of humor, sharing household
tasks, some getaway time without business or children and daily
exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note).
Leave a nice message on their voicemail or send a nice email. Sharing
common goals and interests. Growth is important. Grow together, not away
from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling
insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You can't always be
together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of
commitment. Don't try to control one another. Learn each other's family
situation. Respect his or her parents regardless. Don't put pressure on
each other for material goods. Remember for richer or for poorer. If
these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment,
withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion.
"Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher
than you think." The grass withers, the flowers fades, but the word of
God stands forever. Isaiah 40:8 shall we make a new rule of life from
tonight. Always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary. The
difference between 'United' and 'Untied' is where you put the I.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments
that take our breath away.
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