You say where hard to find?
Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in
the malls, in captivity behind the walls, and in the hall at work. Most we
can't see because we don't know what a good man really looks like. He
usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not
wear a fur coat or push Lexus. He might not have a "body from da Gods" or a
face for "Ebony." But as you mature, you realize it's better to find someone
who's got your back than someone who turns your head.
A Good Black Man doesn't agree whole-heartedly with everything you say.
He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He has his
own opinions, and you may clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to
prove he's right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially
if you are willing to do the same.
A Good Black Man is not going to meet every item on your checklist.
A Good Black Man doesn't necessarily give you a huge Birthday or
Valentine gift.He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to
him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is living that Fairy
tale--for real.
Holla
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